allright let's try to make something productive here...
now what do you want to accomplish with this girl?
You talk of using baits and hooks like you are going to set up a trap and give her no option but to fall into your sleasy advantage-taking arms. If that is the case I hope no one helps you and that you will forever live alone.
If, on the other hand, you are just a somewhat insecure figure making yourself misunderstood, that is OK. It has happened too me, it can happen too anyone.
I thought that while reading your posts you seemed rather evasive with your goals while explaining your situation to us. I'm assuming that you aren't really sure yourself what you want.
You need to figure this out. Do you want a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship? The whole package of sex, dating, riding horses in to the sunset together or what ever perverted thing you want.There is really no normal relationship, all have their special uniqueness. The important thing is that you make your intentions clear and take action towards that. You
have to move forward in the relationship or it will stall and it will be really awkward. I know this, it has happened and is still happening. It is a death trap but you need to keep soldiering on towards your goals.
(idle=false)=true;
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If you never want to smile, wave and etc, then don't. Because I don't think you should. However what I do think you should do is things you want to do. This might sound to obvious to be mentioned but we often don't do the things we want to.
This has happened to me several times, e.g. when I'm walking by a girl I would like to know better. In my mind there will be two sides fighting, one urges me to talk to her, ask how she is. Smile. Make conversation. The other "voice" is telling me how wrong talking to her would be, I smell bad, I have a bogger in my nose. It's saying how I don't need her, that I've survived before her and I will survive without her. Or perhaps that I will talk with her later after I've made a five-pages long strategic plan. It often ends up with just looks and gets almost hysterically awkward after a while.
I have quite recently commenced a no-tolerance attitude towards the second voice. Works wonders as long as I remember it
So.. this post basically says: Figure out what you want with this girl, what kind of relationship. Then you move forward towards it and if she under the trip don't like what you are trying to accomplish Don't try to hook her with using some bait that isn't yours, there are more fishes in the ocean that likes just
your bait.