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    It was really quite a shock to me. She is REALLY friendly and she caught me way off guard, so the first time I met her I was not nice at all. She didn't leave me alone though, the next few times I saw her she kept talking to me, but I was more open. I didn't really know she was into me until my friends told me. I SUCK at picking up these clues, it was completely obvious to everyone I talked to about it but me. She kept talking to me every time I saw her, but she wouldn't be direct. Eventually I convinced myself to ask her out and she got really excited. Quite honestly, she can be kinda boring with the things she likes to talk about, she's really simplistic. She really cheers me up though and she finds the fact that I'm "shy" to be like the funniest thing in the world. We don't have a lot in common, but I still like talking to her. If not for Socionics, I really wouldn't be able to explain it.

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    you're already doomed. you should commit suicide before it's too late.

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    Just because she may be ESE doesn't mean you're relationship is destined to be flawless, or even fruitful.
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    desisted??

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    That was an unusual spelling error. I am under the weather.
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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP III
    Just because she may be ESE doesn't mean you're relationship is destined to be flawless, or even fruitful.
    I can account for that. My mom's an ESE, dad, INTj.
    I can see how duality works for them. But they do quarrel, occasionally.
    And people wonder how two people who are so different can be together.
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    bah, she's crazy. It fizzled out before we could get things going. This sucks.
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    Losing a dual hurts, huh?
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    What bothers INTJs supposedly is when they do not understand why.
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    That would be the paranoid Ni.

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    they say it's the first stage thats the hardest. So it's like your best friend who you never looked at in that way and then one day you turn around and you realize you love them, you're not focused on a relationship but could have lots of fights or disagreements, but over time you see that it worked out. So like little disputes don't have to mean the end of a relationship. Since you know about socionics you know that not really understanding what a person means all the time doesn't mean that you're incompatible, so if you have similar interests you could just focus on that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GillySaysGoodbye
    That would be the paranoid Ni.
    It would be a sense of not knowing what to fix or how to interpret things, which affects competence, understanding. LII's want everything to make sense.
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    Hm, so I ran into her a couple days ago and she was REALLY happy to see me . She complained about how I didn't call her anymore (it's been a few weeks) and she said we should go out some time. The 5 minutes I talked to her was enough to get me in a bouncy mood for the rest of the day and I think I'm going to give it another go. She's crazy, but crazy awesome.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ataronchronon
    Hm, so I ran into her a couple days ago and she was REALLY happy to see me . She complained about how I didn't call her anymore (it's been a few weeks) and she said we should go out some time. The 5 minutes I talked to her was enough to get me in a bouncy mood for the rest of the day and I think I'm going to give it another go. She's crazy, but crazy awesome.
    Good luck with that.

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    I always thought you were ESFj, Cracka. When I saw "ESTj" in your profile signature and then read your posts, I wondered, "where's all this coming from?," haha. Anywho, you're still you, so it's all good .
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    Quote Originally Posted by niffweed17
    you're already doomed. you should commit suicide before it's too late.

    jesus this guy never gives up

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