Not sure where to put this thread...
When people have conversations about personal things with me, the INTjs speak about their actual relationships in general terms, describing the people involved by traits and leaving me to decide what those traits mean (I get the impression that they expect me to see some sort of social value or value based on the role they would play in a relationship with the iNTj). When they look for answers it's about more general social things, what the circumstances or individual traits mean to the role of those involved, or how to know what they should want (based on social roles).
When Te types (and Gamma Fi friends) I've been close to speak to me about personal things, they're speaking about their actual relationships and the specifics about what's going on, often wanting to know why someone is behaving they way they are and wanting to understand how important they are or were to the other person.
From my perspective, it's a very noticeable difference. Have other people noticed this as well?