I have a question for Ni women on here.
Alright, well, I kinda had this situation today, and I am in need of some help. If any of you can do that, I would greatly appreciate it.
The reason why I am posting this in the Beta forum is because this deals with an ENFj in particular. There is this gorgeous ENFj, I feel like I could go into detail about every aspect of this person that I could possibly know of in the two or three hours that I have met her; so now you know where I am coming from . So anyway, I finally got around to talking to her a couple of days ago before class started and then I was like “holy asl;iasdlftr she is awesome!” I turned around with a smile (because I couldn’t help it), then our instructor looked at me and called me out saying “what are you laughing at?! Alright, let’s see you laugh when you get your exam!” (ENTp translation: see this guy, he is a loser [this coming from a trusted authority figure). I felt like I was totally screwed with my chances with everyone including her. Afterwards I was so embarrassed that I did not think I could talk to her after class. I think the way she saw me after that was that I did not have control, and that I “acted weird” around her because I was nervous. I wanted to talk to her today, but again I was nervous and I ended up talking to some of my acquaintances instead. I think I weirded her out (A.K.A fucked up, pardon my language). I should be banging my head against the wall right about now. How do you get an type to not be weired out? What is this from an perspective and how could I change the situation?