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    Default ESFj perfectionism

    How does it manifest itself?

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    Wanting to be the "best" of all possible ways they feel that they could be.
    But, for a certainty, back then,
    We loved so many, yet hated so much,
    We hurt others and were hurt ourselves...

    Yet even then, we ran like the wind,
    Whilst our laughter echoed,
    Under cerulean skies...

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    covering every possibility of things that could go wrong... putting a lot of effort into making sure that things will go right
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    It sounds like their perfectionism is related to their Ne hidden agenda.

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    lol that's the general idea
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    I think it's also got something to do with Te-role... Unless I'm actually ESFj.
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    Perfectionist ESFjs are a special batch
    Pre-2013 post are written with incomplete understanding.

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    Ne: The sixth function of the ESFj is Ne, by which the essence of ideas arrive and insights into their development arise. Though be this a weak, unconscious, and influential function, it should find itself most active within the presence of one whose dominant function coincides, for it it seeks to be strong and may pretend to be such. At other times, an expression of this function may find itself in place of the weak and conscious Ni function. Manifested bahaviours expected of this function should include waste too much energy in activies that are obviously unprofitable, prone to forming childishly compulsive ideas about the possibility of various concepts, neglecting good or bad possibilities only to place faith into bad or worse ones, try very hard at the most minute task only to receive a very small profit if any, and tendency towards being a workaholic.
    http://socion.info/cgi-bin/descriptions.cgi



    OT, but perhaps relevant to INTjs:


    Si: The sixth function of the INTj is Si, by which the essence of experiences arrive and insights into their development arise. Though be this a weak, unconscious, and influential function, it should find itself most active within the presence of one whose dominant function coincides, for it it seeks to be strong and may pretend to be such. At other times, an expression of this function may find itself in place of the weak and conscious Se function. Manifested bahaviours expected of this function should include experiencing uncontrollable flashbacks of negitive or distorted experiences, obsession with past experiences that seem to have a grip on current reality, having a compulsion to keeping things a certain way because they have a certain familiarity to them, not wanting to change the past, prone to inactivity and unwilling to change since that would mean wrecking or damaging the current and future experience,looking past people or things and walking around with distant and vague look in eye as though unaware of surroundings.
    (I never knew there was a socionics explanation for that... I've had that happen to me all my life and I had no idea how to address it...)
    Pre-2013 post are written with incomplete understanding.

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