How do you get through to an overly emotional worrisome and escalating IEI that you don't want their wild emotional dramas anymore yet still salvage the relationship? How do you get them to chill and accept more of a live and let live attitude over areas they have no business making judgements and dramas over in your own life? I have had problems with some unnecessarily demonizing everything and "predicting" the worst at every chance toward achieving normal daily life happiness. I seriously can't handle it anymore but don't want to sever the relationship since they are close family.