Hello,
I appreciate individuals that put in a lot of effort in activities, specifically sport games. Recently, I am noticing a personality pattern between these individuals (described below). I was hoping if anyone may be able to provide their input on what type(s) they are, based on the limited list below.
I was contemplating ESTps or ESTjs. They give me the impression of Se leading, and I am supposedly Se valuing. However, I have always thought that Se leading are a bit more 'loud' and flamboyant, somewhat obnoxious IMO. Where as the individual I am referring to are much more subdued and independent- not much interested in the opinions of others, more soldier-like. So I was thinking ESTj; they are utilizing their demonstrative function? Maybe ISFj? I have never met a male ISFj, thus limited experience.
Shared characteristics of these people:
Confident, but not domineering
Do not display an interest in leadership or boss people around
Not good in human interaction, a bit robotic in speech
Average amount of talkativeness- relatively keeps to themselves
Not socially popular among their peers
Openly and directly aggressive- head-on like play style and behavior, however not verbal aggression or 'cheap shots'
Invests full and constant intensity and energy
Never complain about injuries or misfortunes
Hate losing
I describe them as 'pitbulls' Lol
I get along very well with all of them- as a teammate and in general conversation. I respect their 'presence' and they accept my subtle leadership in explaining the goal/play. They all give me the same vibe and very similar relation development. My father, whom I have typed as an INTj, does not get along with two of these individuals. He claims they are jerks and overly aggressive- "going to hurt somebody."
Any input is much appreciated
PS: My Socionics type is not definite- so provide contrasting perspectives if necessary.