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    Default ILEs, how many of you like SEIs? What makes you want to date someone?

    It's just that I've never heard an ENTp in person actually praise someone for having ISFp-like qualities (i.e. gentleness, warmth, a relaxing influence on others, soft-spoken, etc). Maybe I haven't known enough people, but the ENTps I've known usually try to date someone more like themselves than an ISFp.

    Also, what about someone would make you interested in them romantically? Personality, appearance, talents, anything.

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    Those qualities are exactly the qualities that dual seems to be missing. So do they have proper vocabulary for it? It is probably the thing that one can tune into offered by someone which seems to be otherwise missing.

    Overal tend seems to be that date someone that has some of the same qualities. It is probably not type specific.


    And of course there are subtype things... some are strong in social sphere (like so called dominant subs who will initialize it and take command for normalizing types) and someone prefers to get direct contact from someone (creative from harmonizing so they can go on with their own pace).
    extrospection > introspection

    Head type as in being truly head type and probably 7>5. Too divergent, scattered and expressive for typical 5 and that is the preferred way although long term focus usually helps.


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    Overal tend seems to be that date someone that has some of the same qualities. It is probably not type specific.
    Wait, do you mean overall ILEs seem to date someone with some of the same qualities of themselves?

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    Some might. It is like expected that I'd date someone with bit similar background. It is just what I tend to gather. I can definitely see some potentiality in it. Like mirror or even identical.

    Duals do not usually hang around similar circles.
    extrospection > introspection

    Head type as in being truly head type and probably 7>5. Too divergent, scattered and expressive for typical 5 and that is the preferred way although long term focus usually helps.


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