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Asteria
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This person is very nurturing and caring, especially with their direct family. But very hospitable in general to all. They want to ensure that everyone is comfortable, eats enough and healthy, but isn't always a good judge of what is 'healthy', like justifying pizza is good for you because it has tomato sauce and cheese on it. suggests high Fe/Si but low Te
They are very judgmental about the cleanliness of other people and will define people as clean or dirty, and be like, "Don't eat anything out of their fridge because they aren't very clean." Si, but is it strong?
Washing hands several times a day, bleaches things very throughly, is scared of germs. Will intently look at silverware and drink in restaurant for anything on it. again, Si but sort of neurotic about it
Likes shopping. Shops very often. Will spend very lavishly. Brand name is very important. Will not shop off sale racks or at lower end stores. Does not care about bargains. Thinks being on sale might make it seem lesser, and likes focusing on the new things. some excessiveness here, most typical of Se valuing ethical types
Is very good about picking clothes out for other people and what goes with what, who looks good in what. Extremely good at this. strong Se/Si/Fe
Does not like to cook at all. If they make meat, will wash hands repeatedly, bleach sink several times. Eats out at restaurants very often, or eats microwaveable foods like lean cuisines. Very rarely makes own food. Will not let dirty dishes set in sink, or very long at all. Cleaning lady complains about house being too clean, and shouldn't have to come as often, but person is insistent about having house cleaned every week.
Makes sure family is warm in their clothes and looks nice. Will buy things for family over self. But is not comfortable with decorating, even though they don't seem terrible. Seems envious of others decorating skills. Does not craft or anything, hang up decorations very often, not very many pictures on walls. A very organized and highly responsible person, and not messy at all.
Will waste a lot of gas driving around. Like going to one town because they like one grocery stores meat, and then stopping by home, and then going to another city to another grocery store, and then driving to another city. And then the next day driving to one of the cities they went to the day before to go shopping. Can be sort of 'all over the place.' Making their significant other go, "Why did you just drive there again? You were just there?". again, weak logic (logistics - Ti) but suggests a high level of activity (Se)
Is late a lot, most of the time, sometimes very late. Is predictable in their lateness. Will say, "I'll be right back." And be gone for an hour. Inside a convinience store. Can be slow doing things, because they take their time, or time wasting. Besides that, is very reliable, even if late. not to imply Ni = time but this kind of inability to plan does seem like weak Ni
Buys a lot of food, and will throw food away, even before expiration date, because they are afraid it has gone bad. Throws food away a lot, which angers their significant other. Can seem wasteful.
Health is a big fixation for them. Goes to the doctor and for check ups often, even if a little sick with fear that it could turn into something major. again this just sounds like a neurosis and is not necessarily type-related in a clear way
Can talk for hours on the phone, often repeating themselves, or following the same themes, which revolve a lot around their weight, health, and finances. Very rarely getting to the point, which sometimes annoys others. well, this could definitely rule out some types but nothing we don't know already
Has high energy, wakes up in the middle of the night to clean. Seems anxious. again, energy in the sense of Se
Likes being around successful people, prestige, or wanting to live lavishly. Saying things like, "Their husband is a plastic surgeon, and they live in (certain rich area). If so and so got a job like that, you could live there too." But when told not everyone wants that, they seem confused about why not. This is almost always more likely for an Se valuing ethical type, it's hard to reconcile with ESE.
Not always the best judge of how someone would react to a situation. They might do something, and then be surprised at how someone reacts. Like I might tell them, 'they won't like that.' And then they might wonder why. low Fi?
Accepting and friendly. Can talk to people for hours. Not pushy, can be a pushover and let people walk all over them, let people talk to them terribly and they will not do anything about it. Is very fast to forgive. Very forgiving person. Not prone to holding grudges. Doesn't seem to have any very strong opinions about anything that they assert. Is open minded. <-- probably the biggest evidence against SEE
Is very honest in business dealings, always wants to pay for others meals when meeting for lunch, Insistent about it, and lavish with presents for others. Gives things a lot. Very understanding and conscious of what others like for gifts. Gives very good gifts for this reason. seems somewhat more Fe leading
Very traditional but accepting of others that are different from them, but seems uncomfortable about darker psychological aspects of people. Avoids anything unpleasant. Does not like 'weird' things. arguably points to ESE > EIE
Likes reading gossip magazines and keeping up with the latest trends. Always knows what's popular or in style. Let's kids read or watch whatever they want and supportive of whatever they want to do for a living, offering to help them become whatever they want. Not a very strict parent. Pretty lax. Doesn't enforce rules or set a curfew. Doesn't get mad over their grades, but tells them they can just try to do better. Is a very comforting and warm person,, but sometimes overbearing and anxious, especially when it comes to their health and safety. Is very worried about their loved ones in 'dangerous situations'.
Is rarely home but they've never had a lot of friends, as in a social circle, but a few ones they hang out with. But they don't seem very close to these people, more just like people to do things with. Spends most time going places with family, shopping, out to eat... again, more high activity in the sense of Se and Fe
Very into getting kids involved in sports and different hobbies, often taking the initiative to spark an interest. If they show an interest with anything, will support the idea and enthusiastically takes the steps to get them involved in it. Fe leading