I would say that any scenes involving murder or one individual being ganged up on by a group or one person being beat up badly by another person makes me feel sick in my stomach and very uneasy. If it's a fight scene that is just two individuals trading punches with no one getting the upper hand then it doesn't have much of an effect on me.
I would say that I have made friends or had co-workers with people that turned out to be very bad and it took me a long time for me to end the friendship or work relationship. As for love, I've had a bad relationship in the past that ended after several months by her, but it wasn't something that I was trying hard to hold on to because I knew it wasn't going anywhere. I wouldn't rule out SLI completely, but to be honest it is not a type that I have thought would fit me.
- Tend to plan ahead, make decisions early. - No
- Are more often rigid and stubborn. - Yes
- Do not like to change their decisions. - No
- Tend to finish what they started. - Yes
- Usually have stiff movements. - Yes
- Usually more 'authoritarian' leadership style. - No
- Low stress tolerance. - Depends on the situation
Irrationals
- Tend to wait and see, more spontaneous. - Yes
- Are more often flexible and tolerant. No
- Change their decisions frequently. - Yes
- Tend to start new things without finishing them. - No
- Usually have gentle movements. - No
- Usually more 'democratic' leadership style. - Yes
- High stress tolerance. - Depends on the situation
Said what applies to me for rationally and irrationality. I feel like I have mix of both to be honest and this would be congruent with being an irrational subtype of a rational type perhaps? I don't know.
I wouldn't really call myself social or outgoing, I'm more of a homebody if anything. However, if someone invites me to go somewhere then I will be down to go. I agree with you on first contact with strangers, that's generally true of most ENFps. As for buying a house, I haven't been in that position yet, but I would prefer to buy it with someone else preferably and would only buy it by myself if I had no choice.
My first username was Young and Confused when I joined this forum 11 years ago. Then I changed it to Traveler and I finally changed it again to my current name of Raver and I have kept this name ever since. I could give some concrete info about my behavior, but as for a video, I don't plan on posting a video of myself any time soon, but I am open to doing it in the future though.
As for my behavior, I tend to be a homebody kind of person that enjoys spending time at home during the work week. At the weekend, I am open to hanging out though because I'm not working. I'd hang out during the work week if I had no choice, but it's not something that I'd prefer. I've been a chronic procrastinator when it comes to school work when I was at school and I would do things last second and sometimes succeed in doing it and other times not and this would give me a great deal of stress.
However, when it comes to paying bills, I like to do it as soon as possible and I hate having any thing paid late. I've mostly been a passive person for most of my life, that was almost never aggressive. However, I have changed as I've gotten older because of my environment and I've become more assertive as I've gotten older. I can be aggressive and rude at times if pushed, but I hate doing this and I always feel guilty about it after.
I'm polite to strangers, but I usually don't say much to them and I tend to keep my distance with the majority of people that I work with or friends of friends unless circumstances have made me more comfortable with them for whatever reason. I also don't really reveal my full personality to people unless they're a close friend or a family member or someone that I really trust.
If I find a subject interesting, I can spend a lot of time researching it online to learn more about it as much as possible until there's nothing more to gain out of it and then I'll move on to something else or come back to it later. If I have little to no interest in the subject like what happened in school sometimes then it would feel like torture for me to study the subject.