Chris Hemsworth

[Adam Strange]

can almost tell you guys who have been there - there is a weird fixation that happens when the man is the supervisee

I've watched this happen between an LIE housemate and her IEI boyfriend

but it's almost like this prior fixation is hampering these dudes in forming other relationships, like a mirage-paradise lost that they can't let go

Lol. I could see that. Partnering with someone who easily does, and supplies you with, the thing that you know you suck at most, gets your attention. It's like you have this vast area of weakness, and this other person just shows up and covers it.

What struck me about Helmsworth's Supervision is that he constantly said that he loved his wife and there was no other who was even close. He also said she beat him up a lot. THIS, my friends, is Supervision. The Supervisee can have a need for someone who covers their weak points be so great that they dare not criticize their Supervisor, while at the same time understanding that the Supervisor feels scorn for them. The Supervisor looks at the Supervisee and asks themselves, "Why can't this person do this simple thing? Are they just a screw-up who constantly makes bad decisions, or what?"

I'm still attracted to SLI's in an intellectual way, but one thing is certain; I'm not going back into another relationship with one.

As a side note, the biggest problem in my life right now is figuring out exactly what I need and why I might need it, and trying to determine if what I need and want is healthy.

[MrsTortilla]

An IEI C-type I know thinks he is the ideal man.

[timber]

My ex is a spitting image just add 10 more years when we met. In looks and persona. Miss em, big time.

[lemontrees]

Omg. I'm not sure.

I get that he's handsome but he's kind of... dull? He's charming too. I just zone out on what he's saying.

FWIW I think a mix of Chris Hemsworth and Tom Hiddleston might be hot.

[timber]

I see what you mean by dull and I think its great. Its normal people dull, not bright flashy smilee American. Dullness might be because of lacking mental functions, so a bit 'short'. I don't think he is dumb, just maybe SEE-Se.


Still, I know this type of person and I've had a long term with them before and that time together changed me for the rest of my life.

[lemontrees]

I don't like bright and flashy either but I'm just not interested in the content of what he's saying. Lots of girls love him though.

I don't think he's dumb.

[timber]

He is a bit dumb in a sense. People smart. Not a lot of content in what he is saying either, I think its because content is not his 'product'.

[Sol]

Lots of girls love him though.

As he plays a hero in teenager movies and has good appearance as most actors.

> I don't think he's dumb.

As today culture mostly associates intelligent with NT, so SF types may give such impression more than other types. Earthy and not good in logics. Meanwhile some of them may to have high IQ and solve good complex tasks.

[xerx]

Still, I know this type of person and I've had a long term with them before and that time together changed me for the rest of my life.

I don't mean to be rude or prying, but are you a straight woman or gay? You can ignore my question if you want. I'm sorry if it seems overly personal, but we've interacted before and I'm just curious.

[timber]

I don't mean to be rude or prying, but are you a straight woman or gay? You can ignore my question if you want. I'm sorry if it seems overly personal, but we've interacted before and I'm just curious.

Im a guy and bi. Cue the internal behavioural-value system modification shift.

[xerx]

Im a guy and bi. Cue the internal behavioural-value system modification shift.

thanks and my perception hasn't really changed.

[timber]

thanks and my perception hasn't really changed.

Time will tell. Being democratic quadratic helps. Enough said here.

[myresearch]

Not SLE or SEI. Definitely Fi valuer, ESI, SLI or SEE.