Is it important that people around you take your reasoning? Do you have problems with someone who misunderstands your actions?
I dont understand this.
How do you feel about those who criticize and dispute your logical reasoning and arguments, is this irritating? How strongly irritating is it, if so?
It’s annoying when I have an opinion and people ask me to explain how I came to that conclusion, because sometimes I can’t explain that. It’s more embarrassing than irritating.
Does it flatter you when people praise your use of logic?
Its probably one of the most boring things you could compliment me on. =D
All compliments flatter me, but this one is probably on the bottom. I'd rather you compliment on my ass.
Is it important for you to understand everything? Do you get upset if there is something you don’t understand?
Yes i need to understand everything. I don't get upset but its hard for me to grasp it and come to a conclusion (?)
How would you react and what would you do if the head of the company you work for caused everyone to act according to their own rules, which proved damaging to the productivity of the company? This company gives you a well-paying salary – Do you adhere to the rules, or attempt to ‘sabotage’ or otherwise dispute their efforts?
If by ’the productivity of the company’ means that the production is slowing down or getting worse, then I would message someone who can bring that forward to the head of the company, if not directly to them. If they don’t do anything I would think that’s weird but it’s not really my problem and I would continue to work there and adhere to the rules.
Do people who are are inefficient, unproductive, and otherwise make questionable actions in regard to efficient action bother you? Why?
*huge sigh* There was a guy at my work that wouldn’t do anything and just make a joke out of everything and come up with excuses for every single thing people told him to do, and when he started doing something he had a VERY short attention span and just went and did something else. This really bothered me, mostly because it was unfair to the rest of us that were working hard. He wouldn’t listen to me our any of the colleagues, so I went and told our boss and he got a good scolding and then I felt better. =)
Do you like to find some imperfection and fix it? Do you like to work with imperfections and upgrade them? Example?
When I was younger I used to get really hung up on things that were wrong on my body, it could be that my eyes weren't completely symmetrical, or stuff like that, and it really frustrated me because I couldn't do anything about it. Now Im not like that anymore. When I start being serious about some project I want it to be perfect. Whether it’s a big cleaning/organizing (like never happens tho) or a school assignment or something else.
Do you want to become the most informed person in your surroundings, so that if anyone has questions, they can turn to you for advice or help? Does this please you?
No it doesn’t please me, it makes me feel less feminine in a way, that people only come for me for information. That’s weird.
Can you restrain your irritation towards people you really don’t like?
Do you separate people into good and bad, and adhere to that principle strictly in your life?
I dont know.
Are your sympathies-antipathies towards people constant? Are you sure of your relation to anything?
No they’re not constant. I can change my opinion on people several times a day depending on how they’re acting.
How confident are you in your assessment of anything, in regards to your emotional attitude towards them? (likes dislikes, attraction repulsion etc)
Do you have a tendency to look for likeminded people in terms of your ethical views? Why or why not?
I don’t actively look for them, no. They do make me more interested. I can be friends with anybody as long as they’re not going to judge me for how I feel or constantly try to make me change my opinion.
Does it anger you when people act out of negative emotions: for instance, anger or envy?
Can you say that your opinion on any occasion is too often a compromise, and for this reason not really yours? Provide reasoning and/or examples.
Do you have a tendency to improve poor relationships no matter the cost? Why or how?
Romantic relationships yeah unless something has gone way south. Because I cherish our love and deep feelings for each other. ^^
Do you communicate with people on a business level?
Depends on if I need to.
Can you come up with clever ways to cheer up frustrated friends? Is this easy for you?
I’m bad at being ’supportive’ and saying things like, it’s going to be okay, etc. Because that’s feels so fake to me and I know it doesn’t really make them feel better, so I try to come up with a solution or make them see another perspective on the situation. Or sharing my own experiences.
How hard is it for you to make important decisions in your life? Explain?
ugh depends on what kinds. Generally hard because whatever I choose I will always regret it and think the grass is greener on the other side. It’s just how I am as a person.
Do you lack interest in people who are not internally conflicted? Do you like to dig into those that are? Why or why not?
A person that’s gone through hard experiences in life makes them a more empathetic and understanding person, and yes, interesting. Whoever I’ve been close with (friends or partners) has always had a problem with their parents or one is dead, out of their life etc. I think that’s because my Cancer moon I attract those kinds of people.
Do you avoid activities that can shake your inner harmony and self-confidence?
Yes, I’m an insecure person that overthinks everything about what’s going to happen. But sometimes I just try to push myself and force myself to think it will be a learning experience. Or look to someone else for reassurance and push.
If there is suddenly some kind of internal conflict, how does it affect you?
How do you feel when people conflict, destroying the harmony of the external world?
It makes me sad when someone is being put down and insulted, if both parties are not sad and the power levels are balanced then it’s fine, it can be exciting too.
If someone says your house is a mess, how do you react to it and what do you feel?
Do you seek out new opportunities in the world and actively pursue them?
No, it’s rare.
How important to you is the comfort of your home? Are you afraid of poverty?
My home is supposed to be like a safe house where I can hide from the world and be ALONE. I’ve never been poor but I imagine it would be really stressful if you can’t find a place to stay or not be able to buy material happiness every once in a while, that’s like, what keeps me going in life when everything else fails. The thought of it scares me a little bit but I have my family to help me if I ever need help, fortunately. I can be stingy with money when I don’t have alot, but at the same time I don’t know what I’m going to use my money for? I guess I just like always having some money in case something happens. I tend to save up without knowing what Im saving for, then suddenly waste it all when I feel the time is right and I have enough.
Are you afraid to miss out on possibilities the world has to offer? Why? How much of a concern is this?
Yes, mostly its about wanting to have experiences similar to everyone else so i dont feel like an alien. But also things I’ve always wanted to do and being scared I’m running out of time but just procrastinating. This is not a huge concern I would say. I have one thing I’ve always wanted to do right now, and I think I will be able to do it?
Does it upset you if someone sweats, or uses rough language, destroying the harmony of the external environment?
Uhh no. Is sweats supposed to be swears?
Is it important for you to be like everyone else?
No, I want to be my own person with my own unique qualities. My life has been built around avoiding things that are common or popular or mainstream.
Do you have a desire to avoid external conflicts and seek a place to stay where they don’t exist where the atmosphere is harmonious and consistent?
It goes in periods, so during some periods ill be really aggressive and drawn to conflict, and some I will be like ugh whatever its not worth it.