It is commonly believed that conflict relations is where most of the fights, heated arguments and headbutting occurs. However, I believe this to be a more applicable description for extinguishment relations, while the "conflict" in conflict relations is manifested more as inducing a sense of wariness, distaste or even neurosis in the other.
The reason I think this is because the psychological distance between extinguish types is very close, as one's extinguish type shares a very similar style of cognition with one's dual. This causes information to flow in one another in a very direct manner. However, extinguishment type is in the opposite quadra and therefore has opposing values, The result is a very direct flow of opposing information which predisposes these types towards open fighting and headbutting. In conflict relations this direct flow of information does not occur and therefore they are much easier to ignore then one's extinguishment type even though conflict type expresses one's vulnerabilties more . Therefore unease between conflict types will usually manifest in a more subtle but deeper form then extinguishment.
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