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    Alright, here's another by me (Male IEE) and wife (Female SLI):

    While watching Netflix on a chilly Friday evening (From memory so might not be verbatim):
    SLI: Ew.
    IEE: What's so ew?
    SLI: What that chef just did is disgusting.
    IEE: Really? What's so disgusting about what he just did. (He cleaned his knife on his apron.)
    SLI: It means he doesn't head to the market every morning and makes a delivery girl come to him and the tip he gives isn't clean.
    IEE: Ew, gross.
    *We both start making out underneath our blanket.*

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    IEE [car-dancing to the radio, 45 mins into 15-hour road trip. Of note: my dancing is very dorky]
    SLI - I wish I had known about this before.
    IEE - Before this trip, or before we got married?
    SLI - Yes
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    Quote Originally Posted by sapphire View Post
    IEE [car-dancing to the radio, 45 mins into 15-hour road trip. Of note: my dancing is very dorky]
    SLI - I wish I had known about this before.
    IEE - Before this trip, or before we got married?
    SLI - Yes
    lol

    Why does that conversation create so many arguments between SEE and SLI?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    lol

    Why does that conversation create so many arguments between SEE and SLI?
    What do you mean?
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    Quote Originally Posted by sapphire View Post
    IEE [car-dancing to the radio, 45 mins into 15-hour road trip. Of note: my dancing is very dorky]
    SLI - I wish I had known about this before.
    IEE - Before this trip, or before we got married?
    SLI - Yes
    lol!

    SLI Daughter: BH, SLI Wife: EH and I an IEE: SH eating at Lazy Dog Cafe:
    BH: Daddy, where do babies and dogs come from?
    EH: Storks, they come from storks.
    SH: ... they are conceived when a mommy and daddy love one another and have intercourse to produce a love child.
    BH: Mommy! You're a liar!!!
    EH: *grinning like a madwoman* Darn, she almost believed me.
    BH: Humph! I'm sitting next to daddy instead.
    SH: Eyyyyyy!

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    Waiting for takeoff on a business trip to Dubai with the daughter and wife with me as a guest:
    EH: Miss, I would like another beer please.
    SH: Sheesh, how many are you going to pack away on this flight?
    EH: I've already lost count.
    BH: She's on her 7th, she'll probably have 3 more then knock out. Then wake up to continue drinking until she knocks out long enough to sober up before meeting with her business partners.
    EH: Shut it, B.
    BH: No! I will not! I'm an important part of this business trip too! You can't stifle me anymore!
    SH: Stewardess, I would like a vodka tonic please...
    Stewardess: I'm sorry but we only have beer on this flight.
    SH: Fuck, this is going to be a boring and uneventful trip.
    EH: Miss, another beer please.

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    BH an SLI Daughter; EH the SLI Wife; SH me the IEE Husband and Father:

    Me making preparations for dinner while the wife and daughter watch kids shows on TV:
    SH: What do you two want to have for dinner?
    EH: Mac 'n Cheese.
    SH: What about you?
    BH: Huh? Oh mac 'n cheese sounds fine.
    SH: ..... Why do I even bother?
    *both of them looking over at me*
    At the same time: What was that?
    SH: ................................. Nothing.
    *after coming back from the grocery store with a bunch of Kraft Dinners*
    SH: I'm home!!
    *SH discovers EH and BH both sleeping on the couch*
    SH: HEY!!!! I SAID I'M HOME!
    *BH glances up at me*
    BH: Hi.
    *EH slowly waking up*
    EH: Whoa, didn't even notice that I fell asleep without you here, honey.
    SH: Wow, you two want to do nothing but sleep all day when I'm not around?
    *BH nodding her head and EH responding*
    EH: Yes, pretty much.
    SH: Well, then that's why I should stick around!
    *BH and EH say in unison*: Yep!

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    Once again: BH the daughter SLI; EH the wife and mother SLI; and me SH as their IEE father and husband.

    While eating Kraft Dinner that I bought in the International section of the grocery store (lol) here in California:
    EH: This is what I miss the most about Canyandia.
    BH: *rolling her eyes* Don't you mean Canadanananana?
    SH: I'm pretty sure you're both trying to say Canyandians.
    BH: *giggling* Aren't those Canadians all just so nice and funny?
    *the three of us looking at one another then saying at the same time*: Yes.

    Gott eem.

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    BH the daughter, SLI; EH the mother and wife, SLI; and me the father and husband, IEE.

    Having a quiet private Christmas dinner together:
    BH: Why do we celebrate Christmas when it's not even Jesus' real birth date?
    EH: Because why not.
    SH: Well... it used to be a holiday for some Irish at-the-time Pagans that was well loved by them. So when they agreed to switch to Christianity, everyone was so elated that they transformed the formerly Pagan holiday into a Christian holiday.
    EH: Yes, B, Jews really want more people to join which is why Hanukah exists and is something like 5 days long.
    BH: I wasn't asking about Judaism, mommy.
    EH: I know, just saying.
    *eating continues unabated with conversation*
    SH: Okay!!! Time to open the PRESENTS!!!!!!!!!!!
    BH: EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!! ME FIRST PEEPS!!!!!!!!!!!
    *wife and I together*: Okay.
    *wrapping paper, ribbons and bow flying everywhere*
    BH: RAWWRRRR I am a T-rex and I will now consume all these presents! Rawwr! Not literally, of course.
    *after assembling all of the presents*
    SH: Okay! Who wants to go on their first ride on their shiny pink new bike!
    *At the same time, BH and EH*: MEEE!!!!!
    *Strolls out for a walk while wife and daughter ride up and down the street as they race each other on their hot pink bicycles.*
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    Quote Originally Posted by sapphire View Post
    What do you mean?
    With that relationship pairing, a conversation like that would have evolved into an argument. Why?
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    BH the daughter, SLI; EH mother and wife, SLI; SH, me as father and husband, IEE.

    While eating breakfast on a random work day:
    BH: Solved it! Easy!
    SH: Very good! You're almost able to beat my time.
    EH: *rolling her eyes* Ugh, why bother? She's leaving us eventually anyway.
    SH: Because we both have a duty and obligation to raise B to the best of our abilities.
    EH: Okay.
    BH: Hey! I matched your time mommy!
    EH: Hahah, so you did. Get ready to go to school, sweetie.
    BH: Okay! I'm gonna tell all of my friends about this! They gonna be sooooo jealous!
    SH: Well, I better get going or else I'll be late for work. *kisses both EH and BH* Gotta jet!
    BH: Is dad always like this?
    EH: Yeah, lets take you to school, I have a live and recording session soon.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    With that relationship pairing, a conversation like that would have evolved into an argument. Why?
    I guess I meant, I wonderd about examples I can see this evolving into an argument if the SEE is or believes he/she is good at dancing, which imo SEEs usually are...or if the SEE tries to get the SLI to join in too much when the SLI just wants to be left alone, maybe.
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    Default SLI, you're so zen

    This story isn't from irl, at least not mine if it is from anyone's, but the farmer reminds me of my husband, so I'm posting it here bc it strikes me as very SLI


    Once upon the time there was an old farmer who had worked his crops for many years. One day his horse ran away. Upon hearing the news, his neighbors came to visit. “Such bad luck,” they said sympathetically.

    “Maybe,” the farmer replied.

    The next morning the horse returned, bringing with it three other wild horses. “How wonderful,” the neighbors exclaimed.

    “Maybe,” replied the old man.

    The following day, his son tried to ride one of the untamed horses, was thrown, and broke his leg. The neighbors again came to offer their sympathy on his misfortune.

    “Maybe,” answered the farmer.

    The day after, military officials came to the village to draft young men into the army. Seeing that the son’s leg was broken, they passed him by. The neighbors congratulated the farmer on how well things had turned out.

    “Maybe,” said the farmer.
    "In theory there is no difference between theory and practice. In practice there is." - Yogi Berra

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    This one happened irl. BH the daughter, SLI; EH the wife and mother, SLI; me the husband and father, IEE.

    Morning on Christmas 2014:
    BH: WAKE UUUUP! WAKE UPPPPP!!!
    SH: I'm awake sweetie, what is it?
    EH: *snoring loudly, pretends to still be asleep after being startled awake*
    BH: *starts shaking EH* Mommy!! Wake.Up!!!!!
    EH: Fine... what is it you want from me?
    BH: Time to open the... *becomes explosively giddy* PWESWANTS!!!!!!!!!!!!
    SH: We're doing that tonight not first thing in the morning.
    EH: Yes, B. Go back to bed.
    BH: BUT I JUST CAN'T!!!! Can I sweep with yous then?
    SH: Sure. *falls back asleep*
    EH: I don't mind, yes. *falls back asleep*
    BH: Oh boy. Oh boy. Oh boy. Oh boy. Oh boy.
    SH and EH: OMG Be quiet!!!
    BH: *pulls out her smartphone and plugs in her earplugs and plays* k.

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    Another irl slice of life moment. BH the daughter, SLI; EH the wife and mother, SLI; me husband and father, IEE.

    While visiting Austin, TX on vacation:
    BH: Wow, this place is so weird!!!.
    SH: Yes, I believe that's the point behind the phrase, "Keep Austin weird.".
    EH: No, Austin seems perfectly normal to me.
    SH: True.
    BH: True!
    EH: Yes, Austin is perfectly normal and fuckable. I mean vacationable.
    SH: *laughing* The thirst is real!
    BH: BAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA! Mommy!
    EH: Oops.
    BH:
    SH:

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    BH, daughter, SLI; EH, wife and mother, SLI; SH, me husband and father, IEE.

    While baking cookies on a Saturday afternoon:
    BH: Weeeee! *tosses some flour in the air*
    SH: Yes, it's fun making a mess when you don't have to clean it up, isn't it?
    BH: Yes! I hope our maid doesn't mind the mess that we're going to make.
    EH: Even if she does, who cares, it's not like we're not paying her a fair wage. I'm home, by the way.
    SH: Hi, honey.
    BH: Mommy! Guess what daddy and I have been baking all day! COOKIES!!!!! I just love cookies!
    EH: That's nice sweetie. *gives SH a kiss and straightens out BH's summer dress*
    SH: We've made 5 batches already, did you bring the white chocolate chips?
    EH: Yes, they weren't on sale but I bought the high end ones.
    SH: k. You want to do the honors, B?
    BH: Sure! *cuts open the bag* How much should I pour in?
    SH: However much you want to.
    *pours in the entire bag*
    EH: Those were expensive, be more mindful of the price, B.
    *SH checks the receipt*
    SH: WHAT THE FUCK, SIX BAGS WERE $55 AND A HALF DOLLARS!?!?
    SH: Sweetie, I think we're going to have to economize our chip usage.
    BH: k. *starts to pick the uncoated chips and puts them back into the bag.

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    Okay! Got it! BH: Daughter, IEE; EH: Mother and Wife; SLI; SH: Me Father and Husband; IEE.

    Planting out in our backyard garden.
    BH: How much plant food should I place here?
    EH: *blinks* A few sticks ought to do the trick.
    SH: How's the gardening going out here?
    BH: Fantastic! Daddy! I'm so glad we're allowed to have our own VICTORY GARDEN! *beams with pride*
    EH: Husband, what are you doing out here. You're forbidden from gardening.
    SH: Yeah fuck that banning, I'll help you two out if I want to. No government bureaucrat is going to tell me what I can and can't do.
    EH: Okay, we could use your help planting the trees.
    SH: Sure. Whoa, this tree is heavy! Okay, all three of us, on three! One! Two! Three!
    *plants the tree all together*
    BH: *jumping up and down with joy* Yayyy!!!!! We did it! We're successfully made our own very own own own own garden!!!!!~
    SH: Yes, we did plant our OWN garden. Group hug!
    *Everyone hugs*

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    Me (IEE), Hubby (SLI):

    Following a serious discussion about his work:

    Hubby: Hey.
    Me: Hm?
    Hubby: I love you. Thank you for listening to me.
    --kiss, long hug--
    Me: I just want good things for you.
    Hubby: Does that mean I can get car parts?
    Me: Yes, honey. All the car parts you want. To your heart's desire.
    Hubby: ...it's a trap.
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    BH the daughter: IEE; EH: SLI; and me SH the father and husband: IEE.

    Baking for a school bake sale:
    *BH tosses some flower into the air*
    BH: Weeeeeee!!! Why am I so cute!?!?
    SH: You get that from me.
    BH: Yeah, probably. Thanks daddy!~
    EH: I'm home!!!
    BH: Hi!!! Did you bring the chocolate chips???
    SH: Hi.
    EH: Yes, I did. Here. *hands BH the 6 bags of chocolate chips*
    *BH pours an entire bag into the cookie dough*
    SH: Okay then lets start placing the cookies.
    BH: Okay!!!
    EH: I'll be resting in the den if either of you need me.
    *BH and SH together*: Okay.
    SH: Now, to make a proper cookie is simple, all you need to do is make sure you place a pretty little mound on the baking sheet.
    BH: I MAKE ALL THE COOKIES NOW!!!!

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    BH my daughter: SLI and me SH her father: IEE.

    BH: Dad, I'm afraid now.
    SH: What could you possibly be afraid of?
    BH: I'm so biased but I'm still trying to be unbiased.
    SH: Then you stop being unbiased and be the most biased person you can possibly be.
    BH: Okay. I want to learn how to speak Russian... and Mandarin and Cantonese in addition to the languages I already know.
    SH: Sure, pick your instructors and learn some more.
    BH: Okay! I choose you; and you; and you; and you!!!
    SH: You're smart.
    BH: Thank you, father.

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    BH daughter and Supreme Leader: SLI; EH wife and loving mother: SLI; and me SH husband and father IEE.

    Random conversation on a random day:
    BH: BAHAHAHAHAHAHAH! SLAY THEM ALL AND LET GOD SORT THEM OUT.
    EH:
    SH: They didn't really do anything wrong though.
    BH: Yes they did! They were born!!! Do it!
    EH:
    *after the executions*
    BH: Okay, now lets all play musical chairs! Losers pay for dinner!!!
    EH:
    SH: Okay.

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    BH Supreme Leader and daughter: SLI; EH wife and loving mother: SLI; and me husband and father: IEE.

    EE the ILE: *burps very loudly* Ahh, that was quite delightful a meal, thank you for agreeing to pay.
    EO the LII: No problem, what's a little cash to spend on a fine meal.
    BH: Okay, now for entertainment! Bring out the chain gang!!!!!
    SH: You scare me sometimes, do you know that?
    EH: Quiet, the entertainment is about to begin.
    SH: Kk.
    *everyone quietly watches the show*
    BH: Okay! NOW SLAY THEM ALL!!!!!
    SH:
    EH: Of course.
    BH: Now more musical chairs everyone!!!

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    BH daughter and Supreme Leader: SLI; EH wife and loving mother: SLI; SH me, husband and loving father: IEE.

    On a typical weeknight evening:
    EH: Honey, can you take out the trash?
    SH: Who are you talking to?
    BH: She was talking to you, duh daddy!
    SH: Oh, okay; will do. *collects the trash from all of the garbage cans and goes outside to toss out the refuse*

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    Default BH: SLI daughter; EH: SLI mother; SH: Me, IEE.

    Talking about the upcoming election:
    BH: What do you think about the Presidential candidates?
    EH: Vote Hillary.
    SH: While I think that Bernie Sanders has his heart in the right place, the political realities are that he can't win against a determined Donald Trump offensive. Which is why you should vote for Hillary Clinton as the best anti-GOP defensive candidate.
    BH: True. Everyone I know will be voting for Hillary!~
    EH: Vote Hillary!
    SH: Yes, very good then.

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    Thursday evening before Father's Day:

    (after IEE reminded SLI a couple of hours before that Sunday is F's Day, and he might want to send a card)

    SLI - Will you pick up a card for my dad tomorrow?
    IEE - Sure. It'll get there late...oh, but we can write a little joke about how we're sending it late bc we sent your mom's Mother's Day card late, and we want to be fair.
    SLI - No, we're just going to send it and let it be late bc that's how we send cards: late.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
    Talking about the upcoming election:
    BH: What do you think about the Presidential candidates?
    EH: Vote Hillary.
    SH: While I think that Bernie Sanders has his heart in the right place, the political realities are that he can't win against a determined Donald Trump offensive. Which is why you should vote for Hillary Clinton as the best anti-GOP defensive candidate.
    BH: True. Everyone I know will be voting for Hillary!~
    EH: Vote Hillary!
    SH: Yes, very good then.
    Hey Mister Ni - this would be easier to read if you eliminated the strange initials and just use "IEE", "SLI-d"(SLI daughter) and "SLI-w"(SLI wife) in the conversation, and quit using BH, SH. EH. Because personally I get very confused by those sets of initials which communicate NOTHING at all to me, because there is NOTHING AT ALL in those initials for me to relate to, they are just letters signifying NOTHING, and why would I memorize MEANINGLESS letters just so that I can understand the conversation you are retelling? Its not worth the effort. While instead, the initials for types DO mean something to me, and they are in fact the point of this thread.

    I find that when I try to read these conversations, after I keep looking up to see who is BH, and then back to the conversation, and then I see SH - who is that? SLI-Husband sounds right. Look it up on the chart to be sure. Oh! "SH" is "IEE Husband" - Hmm, that makes no sense. And then I feel its too much effort to keep track who is who in this conversation, and I give up. So, that's why I am suggesting the format change.
    "A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
    ........ G. ........... K. ............... C ........ H ........ E ...... S ........ T ...... E ........ R ........ T ........ O ........ N ........


    "Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
    by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
    attitude acceptable to today's standards."
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    P.S. to @MisterNi:

    As to Hilary, she is evil. Well, yes, they all are, but, this is how I see our choices:
    1. Hillary - Evil evil villain
    2. Bernie - Daft evil villain
    3. Donald - Clown evil villain

    Evil evil is the worst of these bad boys, IMHO.
    "A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
    ........ G. ........... K. ............... C ........ H ........ E ...... S ........ T ...... E ........ R ........ T ........ O ........ N ........


    "Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
    by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
    attitude acceptable to today's standards."
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eliza Thomason View Post
    Hey Mister Ni - this would be easier to read if you eliminated the strange initials and just use "IEE", "SLI-d"(SLI daughter) and "SLI-w"(SLI wife) in the conversation, and quit using BH, SH. EH. Because personally I get very confused by those sets of initials which communicate NOTHING at all to me, because there is NOTHING AT ALL in those initials for me to relate to, they are just letters signifying NOTHING, and why would I memorize MEANINGLESS letters just so that I can understand the conversation you are retelling? Its not worth the effort. While instead, the initials for types DO mean something to me, and they are in fact the point of this thread.

    I find that when I try to read these conversations, after I keep looking up to see who is BH, and then back to the conversation, and then I see SH - who is that? SLI-Husband sounds right. Look it up on the chart to be sure. Oh! "SH" is "IEE Husband" - Hmm, that makes no sense. And then I feel its too much effort to keep track who is who in this conversation, and I give up. So, that's why I am suggesting the format change.
    Good idea but I guess you'll have to start caring about us and not just think of us as random strangers on the internet. BH; EH; SH are the initials to our daughter's name; wife's name; and my name. If it's still confusing after a while, I'll try your method out for a bit because yours is more clear but impersonal. I like being more personal when sharing slice of life moments.

    Quote Originally Posted by Eliza Thomason View Post
    P.S. to @MisterNi:

    As to Hilary, she is evil. Well, yes, they all are, but, this is how I see our choices:
    1. Hillary - Evil evil villain
    2. Bernie - Daft evil villain
    3. Donald - Clown evil villain

    Evil evil is the worst of these bad boys, IMHO.
    Hillary isn't a villain, she's the slitheriest snake among the three. In a rough town like DC, you need slick snakes running the show from behind the scenes; if you catch my drift.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
    Good idea but I guess you'll have to start caring about us and not just think of us as random strangers on the internet. BH; EH; SH are the initials to our daughter's name; wife's name; and my name. If it's still confusing after a while, I'll try your method out for a bit because yours is more clear but impersonal. I like being more personal when sharing slice of life moments.
    I get that motivation, but, it doesn't communicate - it just stays with you, personally, and your family members. Since you can't say their name (and I would never want you to jeopardize their privacy so i am not asking) and I can gather that H is your last intial but S=Sarah? E=Ethan B=Beth??. It doesn't help. And I have to say, what you say that I bolded has a Democratic tone to it.. as in Reinin, not politics... I've seen you as chatty and personal-sharing like an IEE, but that one starts a question in my mind. Just sayin'.

    Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
    Hillary isn't a villain, she's the slitheriest snake among the three. In a rough town like DC, you need slick snakes running the show from behind the scenes; if you catch my drift.
    I am glad we agree on slithery. Ick. But my Mom always said, "Two wrongs don't make a right."
    "A man with a definite belief always appears bizarre, because he does not change with the world; he has climbed into a fixed star, and the earth whizzes below him like a zoetrope."
    ........ G. ........... K. ............... C ........ H ........ E ...... S ........ T ...... E ........ R ........ T ........ O ........ N ........


    "Having a clear faith, based on the creed of the Church, is often labeled today as fundamentalism... Whereas relativism, which is letting oneself be tossed and swept along
    by every wind of teaching, looks like the only
    attitude acceptable to today's standards."
    - Pope Benedict the XVI, "The Dictatorship of Relativism"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eliza Thomason View Post
    I get that motivation, but, it doesn't communicate - it just stays with you, personally, and your family members. Since you can't say their name (and I would never want you to jeopardize their privacy so i am not asking) and I can gather that H is your last intial but S=Sarah? E=Ethan B=Beth??. It doesn't help. And I have to say, what you say that I bolded has a Democratic tone to it.. as in Reinin, not politics... I've seen you as chatty and personal-sharing like an IEE, but that one starts a question in my mind. Just sayin'.

    I am glad we agree on slithery. Ick. But my Mom always said, "Two wrongs don't make a right."
    You can't memorize three simple initials and who they relate to and you think I'm the one with a memory deficiency? Maybe you have a lot going on in your life judging from what you wrote in the Delta Lounge the other day but when life is back to normal and you can pay more attention okay, I'll do both. Sorry if I accidentally made reading our conversations bothersome.

    BH, SLI-DSL, D=Daughter, SL=Supreme Leader ; EH, SLI-WLM W = Wife, LM = Loving Mother; SH IEE-HD H=Husband, D=Daddy.
    BH SLI-DSL: Hello? Daddy?
    SH IEE-HD: Yes, B, what is it?
    BH SLI-DSL: HUZZAH WE CAN COMMUNICATE!~ Finally!
    EH SLI-WLM: United front. #VoteHillary !!! No, I am not a moron.
    *BH and SH both laughing*
    EH SLI-WLM: Well, then I guess we all uniting again!
    SH IEE-HD: Yep.
    BH SLI-DSL: BAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!! I'm kidding guys, stop being so afraids of me.
    SH IEE-HD: I hope no one's spying on me now.

    Electing Hillary Clinton is not wrong. So your mother's saying wouldn't apply to her being elected POTUS, IMO. Sometimes not following the herd or pack is the wisest thing to do.

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    This has definitely been one of the most interesting threads for me. An all-delta member family is something I can only dream of.

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    Not a single one of these conversations resonates with me?

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    Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
    I guess I'll try to include a few from whatever conversations I can remember having with my wife.

    Making something my SLI's mother really enjoyed when I prepared a pot for her:
    IEE: Honey, what do you think about my cooking?
    SLI: *sipping on a glass of wine* Just lovely dear, absolutely lovely.
    IEE: Tell me the truth, do you really like Coq Au Vin?
    SLI: *hesitating a bit* Yeah... I've tried variations I really enjoyed before. It's something my mom would looooove though; she loves rustic dishes.
    IEE: Hee, hee, hee... want to know what I got the recipe from?
    SLI: Where?
    IEE: From the PC game Deus Ex the part where you have to explore a French Manor! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAH!!!!
    SLI: *setting her glass down and slapping the table a few times* Hehehehehehohohohahahahahahee hee hee!!! Sorry, I don't know if that's me or the wine talking.
    IEE: Don't worry, I'm the same way when I've been drinking.
    SLI: That's a relief. *sighs and continues to sip on her wine*
    Holy shit, Deus Ex!
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    Quote Originally Posted by MisterNi View Post
    Hillary isn't a villain
    I'm pretty sure extra judicial executions are considered serious crimes.

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    Among other things, for the grave sin of denoucing the smoke screen the UN is today:

    http://libyasos.blogspot.mx/2011/09/...to-united.html
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    SLI [bringing daughter into laundry room, where I am loading the washing machine]: Come here, little baby. Come and watch mom at her craft.
    IEE: [smacks SLI w dirty article of clothing from the pile]
    "In theory there is no difference between theory and practice. In practice there is." - Yogi Berra

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    LMAO
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    Context. Dad (SLI-Si Sp/So and the most Enneagram 6w5 person to ever walk this planet) has decided to schedule a winter barbecue for Sunday. The reason: He read about how to prepare fish with a charcoal grill.

    Dad, mumbling something in my direction from the living room while reading Arthur Conan Doyle: I'll wake you extra early for barbecuing tomorrow
    Me: *bursts out of my room with wild flailing arms, chanting my signature phrase "Ahhh! Ahhh!" and other ape noises while dancing around him*
    Dad: Early enough so you can see me setting this salmon on fire



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    Quote Originally Posted by Chae View Post
    Context. Dad (SLI-Si Sp/So and the most Enneagram 6w5 person to ever walk this planet) has decided to schedule a winter barbecue for Sunday. The reason: He read about how to prepare fish with a charcoal grill.

    Dad, mumbling something in my direction from the living room while reading Arthur Conan Doyle: I'll wake you extra early for barbecuing tomorrow
    Me: *bursts out of my room with wild flailing arms, chanting my signature phrase "Ahhh! Ahhh!" and other ape noises while dancing around him*
    Dad: [I]Early enough so you can see me setting this salmon on fire
    What did he intend exactly by that? Is he not confident in his barbecuing skills?

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    Quote Originally Posted by thehotelambush View Post
    What did he intend exactly by that? Is he not confident in his barbecuing skills?
    That was a joke! Dad is the best cook ever, that's why it's funny

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    This thread is dying and its sad, so I join in, I've tons of this conversations:


    IEE: I'll buy this mini bar for serving drinks to my guests.
    SLI: Then I'll buy this ridiculously expensive robotic vacuum cleaner.
    IEE: Thats fine, at least you'll keep the house clean.
    Both: LOL

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