Member Questionnaire 1 (PrimAnna)
What is beauty? What is love? Beauty is what appeals to one's soul , it's subjective and personal and it's found in everybody in different forms and traits .
Love is an overwhelming feeling that makes you want to be/do better for those you love .
What are your most important values? integrity , optimism , respect (of oneself and others ) , Love , knowledge , TRUST . independence , honesty , harmony , justice , personal boundries
Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place? I do . I need to know there's reason to this life (specially when it's not being nice) and I found this in religion . Also , I chose to believe because I was miserable when I didn't - it's not a magical solution , It's just knowing you had someone , an almighty God , to have your back in this life is what you need as a human ... or so I think..
Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you? war is necessary evil . I wish it wasn't , but it's human nature to enforce one's power and authority And sometime to achieve goals .. it's Wrong when it violates human rights , but it can be useful with certain rules ..
Power is one's control over one's self and against what is morally wrong .
What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why? Psychology , Philosophy & Religion ... mostly what you need to fix yourself in order to achieve your full potential and therefore play Your part in making the world a better place to live in ..
also The human mind , because your mind is what controls your life ... what you know life to be is what your life is ..
Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body? I need quite and the comfort of being home and that's it - my bodily needs don't cross my mind when it's busy thinking of other stuff - but when they do they are so Urgent and I sometimes don't even know what it is I 'lack" that my body is trying to ask for ..
What do you think of daily chores? I do what I need to make my life healthy and somewhat efficient - but I'm not a fan of spending every day on them
I tend to not think of then until i notice it's too messy/dirty for my taste , and I turn into an overacheiving obsessed organizer .. Usually I am not the reason behind the mess in my room - I'm more of a " don't mess it up in the first place and you want need to have it cleaned up later ' kind of organizer ..
Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome. thrillers , philosophy and books that makes you Think and change the way you see life and yourself . poetic books that move you . I love sad ones as well as happy but not the over-dramatic or logically poor ones..
I love action when combined with love and humor e.g. the amazing spider-man / Iron man
Robert Downy Jr's Sherlock Holmes , Never let me Go , the prestige , the box , inception,,
books in my native language mostly so hard to give an example , umm , If I Stay is a recent read of mine that I like ..
What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why? not easily moved enough to cry ,, the death of a dear person changed this for me though and usually I cry when watching / reading about death of a loved one and the likes of this .. ONLY IN PRIVATE or with a very CLOSE person
very easily amused by anything people I consider my people (people I'm in any kind of a relationship with) do / say ..
Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging? the sea . QUITE nature (falls and chirping birds drive me crazy ) , at home watching from behind the window as life goes by..
What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself? I need to be loved, held and assured by people I love and to be told I'm precious to them or I don't trust I am
not motivated enough to ACT on what I want to achieve for myself ,, but fight for those i love..
i either am too considerate or I'm too harsh and logical ,,, feelings (mine and others) tend to fall totally off radar when i'm discussing problems/misjudgments (which I do only when asked for it )
socially I'm reserved and anxious to the verge of fear in a new setting/ place
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What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself? people like to hear my perspective on things , they tell me it's wise..
when those I care about feel down I can talk them out of it and encourage them ,,
easy-going and love to serve people i love when asked for help specifically ( I don't do what I'm not asked to do because it's not my call to do it)
In what areas of your life would you like help? I need someone I know with me when entering a new social circle
I need to be believed in and not to be pushed . someone who honestly tells me WHY he thinks I've messed up and not judge me for it & expect the same from me - not to be hurt by my honest opinion and project it into a problem ..
I need Physical/verbal expressive love when in private and only Respect and looks of adoration in public
someone with a detached/ professional aura on the outside but personally is playful and in-the-moment
Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it. mostly because of over-thinking
I'm then 'turned-off' , not amused by anything , and prefer to just be with my headphones on and me pencil (writing or doodling stuff) - i wallow somewhat in my emotions and write them out
OR I turn my attention to the outside world to find relief n re-organizing my stuff..
What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with? LIKE ; optimistic , 'deep' , strong-willed , trusting but also cautious , what-you-see-is-what-you-get people
DISLIKE; paranoid everyone-is-gonna-hurt-me kind of people & people who take what you say personally , people who bring up the past too often , who try to change you just because you're different from what they like, people blaming their failure on circumstances and conspiracy , people who lse their temper and fuss over the littlest details ..
How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner? I long for romance and crave for an active sexual life , where you try everything with a loved one but to timid to initiate . sex to me is the way you show love so no impersonal hook-ups for the sake of pleasure . I want someone who is passionate , bold , romantic , expressive (in private as said before)
treats me like an equal , doesn't judge me , respects my space and isn't hurt by my need for processing alone sometimes , willing to talk to me , discuss and explore my interests (and I his )
If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why? to teach them responsibility of their actions , to be respectful and to think for themselves
i think I'm gonna be Strict mother but loving and appreciative of personal differences (that's how I am as a big sister..)
A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction? inward; I try to see the logic behind his belief and compare it against mine to decide which is better
outward depends on relationship status;
Close enough friends; I discuss with them until one of us is convinced or until we feel it's a dead-end so I respect its their choice and let them be (and expect the same)
Acquaints and friends that don't know me well ; I let them be , nod , or if asked directly simply leave it at I don't believe the same.
Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one. People are good at heart . Bad people are just people with a problem to fix . society need to fix the problem that's lead one to
(inexcusable) behavior then punish the wrong action .
problem now is the over-emphasis on individuality and minor issues , forgetting about much more important stuff .g. LGBT rights when people are dying of hunger ,, (not shaming or hating just saying ' be with who you want to be , there are more important stuff to this life to fight for )
How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them? I talk to those who approach me first , who are respectful and nice , and deep enough to talk too and discuss all philosophy and science with on the long-term
i'M VERY PRIVATE AT FIRST trying to KNOW the person , and then place them on the according level of intimacy - people who kno me , people who know my thoughts are the closest and dearest ,, ppeople I just have fun with and love but when I don't have to see anymore I just let them go with the circumstances that led me to know them are the farthest (I still am nice if I see them again , but I don't mke it a point to see them)
How do you behave around strangers? PRIVATE - polite , wait for them to talk and respond accordingly , let THEM set the pace , RESERVED , when asked something that I don't want to answer I laugh it off and if pressured I straight out tell them it's not their business. (politeness is so important to me but my personal space to those I see as strangers is more important)
Member Questionnaire (PrimAnna)
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Originally Posted by BulletsAndDoves
