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    Alright, one more time.

    Problem with being INFJ:
    I'm not as conservative and for all of my fear of the physical world, I like s.e.x. And I'm more than the usual. And I'm more goofy and fond of playing. Quite fond of ESTPs deep inside.

    Problem with being INFP:
    I'm not against rational thinking and planning (sometimes, not always but sometimes.)
    My best friend is def. ESFJ but I don't feel like her supervisee, it feels like she's my superior more, my relation to her as an INFJ is more accurate.
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    I think INFj’s like sex just as much as any other type, but they’re not going to be as open about it... you most likely wont be hearing all these wild sexual stories coming from them.

    As for your type... what do you feel suits you best when you read the descriptions? You say your relation’s fit better with INFj? Maybe you’re friend could possibly be ESFp?
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    No. She's def. J.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    Alright, one more time.

    Problem with being INFJ:
    I'm not as conservative and for all of my fear of the physical world, I like s.e.x. And I'm more than the usual. And I'm more goofy and fond of playing. Quite fond of ESTPs deep inside.

    Not all INFjs have something against sex
    Fuck

    If Ijs aren't suppposed to like sex, then I'm not INTj at all. But I am.

    As someone told me........and from personal experience, INFjs just like bad boys in general, as far as being attracted to them. They don't mind virility. But they like structure and order.



    How do your relaitonships generally develop? Do you need to get close, and then step back, and the get close again? etc etc?

    Or do you just like a long straight linear development?
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    Based on our shortish contacts in chat I would very unreliably say INFj. Although your late forum posts distort that image a bit.

    However here is a short test. When you raise a finger are you more likely to do it with your...

    Index Finger


    Or Middle Finger


    Index Finger -> INFj
    Middle Finger -> INFp

    Liking ESTps means nothing. I like ESTps too. Could you live with one in a romantic relationship is a better question. If you have any rationality or controlling nature you will FAIL (ask FDG ). And what is your take on other Beta types (ENFj, ISTj) and Delta types (ENFp,
    ISTp)?

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    I mean middle finger. Raising the index finger makes me feel unbalanced.

    I think I prefer a line relationship except with my past ones, it's most close, get back, close but that could be something about my insecurity and not type.

    Well...the difference is talking opening about sex...right? That I'm not opposed to. I enjoy sexual jokes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Diana
    Not all INFjs have something against sex
    I don't know any that do. As far as I know all types like sex.
    I think this is a good time to remind that Bionicgoat who apparently is an INFj left this forum because of the new rules which don't allow random k-18 stuff to be discussed or adult entertainment to be posted freely here. I remember him calling himself a "pervert" too. So these things are quite individual. I wouldn't use this kind of stereotypes when typing.

    However I would think INFps approach relationships more from purely emotional point of view ("If it feels good, it is good.") where INFjs would ponder ethical questions more ("If I have sex with a random stranger is it ethical? Should I perhaps not do it even if both of us are basically emotionally and physically willing?").

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    Quote Originally Posted by XoX
    Based on our shortish contacts in chat I would very unreliably say INFj. Although your late forum posts distort that image a bit.

    However here is a short test. When you raise a finger are you more likely to do it with your...

    Index Finger


    Or Middle Finger


    Index Finger -> INFj
    Middle Finger -> INFp

    Liking ESTps means nothing. I like ESTps too. Could you live with one in a romantic relationship is a better question. If you have any rationality or controlling nature you will FAIL (ask FDG ). And what is your take on other Beta types (ENFj, ISTj) and Delta types (ENFp,
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    I agree, where did you find that finger thing XoX?
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    I am scandalised by the finger thing

    On the topic, though, I have a very irrational fear of masturbation, and to some extent, sex. It feels like a violation/betrayal of the self. I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that. But if I love the person, I wouldn't mind the sacrifice.

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    I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that
    Are you afraid you'd like it too much, and get addicted?
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    Quote Originally Posted by UDP II
    I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that
    Are you afraid you'd like it too much, and get addicted?
    Exactly. I avoid drugs, cigarettes, alcohol and whatnot for the same reason. I identify very much with Kant's take on the matter: "The ground of proof surely lies in the fact that a man gives up his personality (throws it away) when he uses himself merely as a means for the gratification of an animal drive"

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    Are you INFj?
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    betas should be kept in zoos for children to stare and throw pop corn at.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall
    Are you INFj?
    While there's still room for doubt... Yes, it would seem so. At least, I am not INFp.

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    Interesting.

    I'm not opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking but opposed to drugs.
    INFP

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    Quote Originally Posted by raisonpure
    I am scandalised by the finger thing

    On the topic, though, I have a very irrational fear of masturbation, and to some extent, sex. It feels like a violation/betrayal of the self. I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that. But if I love the person, I wouldn't mind the sacrifice.
    are you Japanese?


    IJs don't have anything against sex btw... good friggin grief... I've been with more than a few... just trust me on this one.

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    Quote Originally Posted by raisonpure
    Quote Originally Posted by UDP II
    I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that
    Are you afraid you'd like it too much, and get addicted?
    Exactly. I avoid drugs, cigarettes, alcohol and whatnot for the same reason. I identify very much with Kant's take on the matter: "The ground of proof surely lies in the fact that a man gives up his personality (throws it away) when he uses himself merely as a means for the gratification of an animal drive"

    Hmm, I know what you mean. That's how I feel about a lot of things, but I'm certain that I can manage my self sexually. THe only problem I had is that if someone was very open to my sexuality... as in, they wouldn't mind my advances, even if they were a lot. Someone approaching me relentlessly would be kind of turnoffish -- that's why I don't like ESFps, because they are too slutty (to me). But I suppose I'm not that much different. I just believe in monogamy. And believe it or not, I like seducing, even though I'm INTj. But it has to be the right kind of person that I can feel comfortable with. If I had the right kind of chemistry with a person, I'd be aggressive witht them. I actually enjoy being aggressive, but it just takes me time to get to know the person. Some people I click more easy with than others, of course.

    I know this is kind of odd, and definitely not socionics, but it makes sense to me: I'm a Taurus. Reserved, and slightly possessive, but a certain lust for beauty.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    Quote Originally Posted by raisonpure
    I am scandalised by the finger thing

    On the topic, though, I have a very irrational fear of masturbation, and to some extent, sex. It feels like a violation/betrayal of the self. I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that. But if I love the person, I wouldn't mind the sacrifice.
    are you Japanese


    IJs don't have anything against sex btw... good friggin grief... I've been with more than a few... just trust me on this one.
    Japanese? http://www.fs.thewafflehouse.net/?p=16

    No, Taiwanese

    But I trust you on that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    IJs don't have anything against sex btw... good friggin grief... I've been with more than a few... just trust me on this one.
    Joy knows the truth




    Interesting.

    I'm not opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking but opposed to drugs.
    Same here, but I don't drink/smoke, myself.
    I'd guess I'd have a hard time being with a smoker, too -- I hate the smell.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Joy
    are you Japanese?
    Funny you say that, is it a Japanese thing?

    here's a quote from the famous pop icon in Japan, Gackt...

    Though I was craving it, to me, there was just one rule that should not be broken. That rule was "do not masturbate." I swore to it on my heart.

    I had great feelings of guilt over masturbation. After I did it, I would think "what the hell was I doing?" and then I would get attacked by a huge feeling of shame. I felt that I was worthless.

    If I was in a relationship with someone, I would tell myself that I would act in a manner that would build up a mutual relationship with that person. When I wasn't in a relationship, if there was a way I could manage it, I would restrain myself.

    So, there was no way I could be by myself. When I was thinking I wanted to masturbate, I would go out looking for a partner until I found one. Then I'd talk to myself to persuade myself.

    "If you feel like masturbating, get up and go out!" I would say.
    I’m not sure of his type, but I know he's definitely Japanese.
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    I think the culture sorta shames sexuality somehow... I dunno, I'm not familiar enough to really speak intelligently on the matter.
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    Hmm. I always thought of you as an INFj, just something i notice in the way you write. I could be wrong however as i could just be seeing "what i expect to see"

    My INFj friend(Guy) does complain about having a low labido but he attributes this to Anit-Depressants. He seems to like sex just fine but he did always say it doesn't interest him as much as the emotional side of it.

    Irrational fear of masturbation? You get over that very fast as a male. I happily have a bat any time i choose :wink:
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    Hmm, well I thought that a long time ago, for a male to masterbait would be considred a huge waste. BUt at the same time, there's manga and hentai and so much more. I don't know about it, either, though, and don't want to sound like I do.
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    Interesting quote. So much for the argument that masturbation promotes a sense of self-worth

    @ meatburger: Well, I've been playing around with the Reinin dichotomies chart, and INFj won out (18). As I spend time reading around the forum, it makes more and more sense. But funnily enough, quite a number of my friends and acquaintances are turning out to be from Alpha...

    Oh and, I almost forgot. I myself admire ESTps -- but only from a distance.

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    mastubation is okay, so long as you don't end up depressing yourself afterwards. But being able to enjoy pleasing yourself for the sake of personal pleasure, or perhaps you're just really turned on for some reason, that's not something to get your panties bunched over.

    But don't go ESFp and start telling people about it on AIM just because you feel an urge coming on
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    Quote Originally Posted by raisonpure
    Quote Originally Posted by UDP II
    I'm afraid of losing control of myself to my body like that
    Are you afraid you'd like it too much, and get addicted?
    Exactly. I avoid drugs, cigarettes, alcohol and whatnot for the same reason. I identify very much with Kant's take on the matter: "The ground of proof surely lies in the fact that a man gives up his personality (throws it away) when he uses himself merely as a means for the gratification of an animal drive"
    lol @ Kant's mental masturbation. Noone should really take seriously a man that has spent his whole life walking up and down the same street and writing overcomplicated treatises over nothing.

    Besides, my take is on INFp.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall
    I agree, where did you find that finger thing XoX?
    It was just a passing thought. I remembered dreamer "raising a finger" in chat during one conversation she sort of disagreed with. But it was not clear to me which finger it was I just thought in case of INFj it would have been index finger as a sign of ethical judgment ("stop that!"). In case of INFp it would have been middle finger as a sign of emotional judgment ("fuck you!").
    Or something

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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    Interesting.

    I'm not opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking but opposed to drugs.
    At the same time? That is talent! *bows*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae
    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    Interesting.

    I'm not opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking but opposed to drugs.
    At the same time? That is talent! *bows*
    ?? o_O

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    Quote Originally Posted by XoX
    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae
    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    Interesting.

    I'm not opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking but opposed to drugs.
    At the same time? That is talent! *bows*
    ?? o_O
    Dont be jealous. Some day you will be able to drink/masturbate/smoke simutaneously, too! It may take some practice.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae
    Quote Originally Posted by XoX
    Quote Originally Posted by Jadae
    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    Interesting.

    I'm not opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking but opposed to drugs.
    At the same time? That is talent! *bows*
    ?? o_O
    Dont be jealous. Some day you will be able to drink/masturbate/smoke simutaneously, too! It may take some practice.
    Oh you meant that. That sounds like business as usual. Well I don't smoke though. I thought you meant it is a talent to being opposed to drugs and at the same time not being opposed to drinking/masturbating/smoking. As in there is no conceptual or ethical difference there only technical.

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    At the same time? That is talent! *bows*
    LMAO. Sexual jokes cheers me up so much.

    Yea. I'd say my middle finger. I hardy every raise my index finger, it feels weird like *tries to point* I feel unbalanced, odd, very odd.

    Who are the four who said INFJ? Why? How so?

    I'm not switching back in a few months. Let's get this done.
    INFP

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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    At the same time? That is talent! *bows*
    LMAO. Sexual jokes cheers me up so much.

    Yea. I'd say my middle finger. I hardy every raise my index finger, it feels weird like *tries to point* I feel unbalanced, odd, very odd.

    Who are the four who said INFJ? Why? How so?

    I'm not switching back in a few months. Let's get this done.
    I can't even raise my middle finger... Too much effort

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    INFjs I know like sexual jokes.....
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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
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    Who are the four who said INFJ? Why? How so?

    I'm not switching back in a few months. Let's get this done.
    I voted INFj based on your chat behavior. Though I have seen you there maybe twice so pretty small sample. You just give different vibe from many INFps here like aurora and sneg. And you have talked about putting leash on your partners which would drive any ESTp away immediately. Other than that I have no case.

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    She seems to respond positively to Se
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    I put INFj, I can just tell.

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    Uh oh...

    XOX - that's personality

    Aurora -> how so?
    INFP

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