Can you recall the last argument that you were in? What was it about or over? When you argued what sort of things did you emphasize on? What made you change your tactics or approach, certain things they said or did?
Let's say you ask a person to put a plate on the table and they continuously don't do it how do you start the attack and what sort of things do you say?
I would say "I always ask you to put the plate on the table. It seems like you don't care about me enough to listen." only if the opposing person is cold about it but when they start to show emotion my responses will draw back. Especially when they start to show signs of about to go into a cry I feel like I've gone too far. When they have a poker face I feel like I'm not making any type of impact I'll keep going not being able to estimate their state.