Best use of every intertype relationship
We tend to look at socionics relations through our love glasses. Unfortunately this makes dual the only relationship that seems the best.
However every intertype relationship will be the best relation for a certain kind of environment. So I would like to know what you think.
Here's my incomplete list, maybe you smart asses can complete it.
Best love partner: Dual
Best teacher: Identical
Best close friend: Mirror
Best backup guy during a bar fight: Supervisee?
Best warbuddy: Business
Best ....
Best love partner: Dual
Best close friend: Dual
Best teacher: depends what to study
Best backup guy during a bar fight: Bruce Lee
Best warbuddy: Chuck Norris
Dual best loving
Teacher any type
Friend any IEE for support dual for support SEE for watching a movie
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Best long-term love partner: Dual
Best short-term love partner: Extinguishment
Best sex partner: Dual
Best one-night-stand: Benefactor (if you are Irrational)/ Beneficiary (if you are Rational)
Best teacher: Identical
Best counsellor: Mirror
Best (distant) friend: Mirage
Best (close) friend: Activity
Best co-worker: Business
Best boss: Benefactor
Best employee: Beneficiary
Best coach: Dual
Best parents: Identical + Dual
Best protector (if amicable): Supervisor
Best Dual alternative: Semi-Dual
Best critic: Super-Ego
Best fan: Beneficiary
Best copy-cat: Quasi-Identical
Best Dual's copy-cat: Conflictor
Best fights: Conflictor
I've left out Supervisee, because I don't really know what they are specifically "best" for, haha.
I will agree to this. Damnit supervisee, you need to do it this way not that way how many times do I gotta tell you before you finally learn!Originally Posted by Adam Strange
Can't imagine an ILE backing me up in a barfight, but I've had them help me troll people before, and they're masters at that.
dual: best communication, best supporter (when healthy)
identical: best reference for personal growth and happiness
activity: best hook-ups
mirror: best friend
semi-dual: best at giving tough love
kindred: best at providing a reality check
benefactor: best co-worker
supervisor: best at motivating and inspiring (from afar)
conflictor: best external point of reference (if I can do what they do half as well, I'm probably doing all right)
quasi: best for shooting the shit
super-ego: best teammate
extinguishment: best auntie/uncle
mirage: best nurse
beneficiary: second-best hookup lmao
business: best child
supervisee: best mindless entertainment
someday the grapes will be wine
and someday you will be mine
EII-Ne 2w3 - 9w1 - 7w8 so/sx
Aww what a great listCan't imagine an ILE backing me up in a barfight, but I've had them help me troll people before, and they're masters at that.
dual: best communication, best supporter (when healthy)
identical: best reference for personal growth and happiness
activity: best hook-ups
mirror: best friend
semi-dual: best at giving tough love
kindred: best at providing a reality check
benefactor: best co-worker
supervisor: best at motivating and inspiring (from afar)
conflictor: best external point of reference (if I can do what they do half as well, I'm probably doing all right)
quasi: best for shooting the shit
super-ego: best teammate
extinguishment: best auntie/uncle
mirage: best nurse
beneficiary: second-best hookup lmao
business: best child
supervisee: best mindless entertainment
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
thx gurlAww what a great list
someday the grapes will be wine
and someday you will be mine
EII-Ne 2w3 - 9w1 - 7w8 so/sx
Thank you guys for the input. I'm reading and learning.
Best person for just hanging out and having fun: Activity
Best person for strengthening your understanding on something: Mirror
Best person for making you a stronger person overall: Conflict (if you live to tell about it).
LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP
I resonate with this. I worked under an SLE for 9 summers. How he trained me and expected me to behave and react to situations definitely has made me stronger in some ways, or at least given me skills and habits I would not have otherwise even considered having.
Oh, to find you in dreams - mixing prior, analog, and never-beens... facts slip and turn and change with little lucidity. except the strong, permeating reality of emotion.
yes i can also agree, conflictor can learn you stuff and make you a stronger person. it's probably the most underrated relationship because of the conflict at really close distance.
My advice at this point: Okay, learn from your Conflict relation, grow stronger, but then GET THE HELL AWAY FROM THEM.
Sorry for that dramatic "exclamation", but... being dependent on my Conflictor, I am so tired of it. It is so grueling. Whenever you are going through some rough patch, them being around makes it 1000x times worse. You grow for a while, everything goes well, but then their critique sabotages your entire growth, and you feel like you are back at square 1. It is bad.
Good point, you are right, they build parts of you, but break others. Their critique yes. pfff, i don't think that i am so critical at them as they are towards me btw.
I have noticed Conflict seems to be the worst for the introverts. Probably because extroverted IE get expressed more "openly, tangibly", if that makes sense.
Several extroverts don't report Conflict to be as bad, or they are simply not always as aware of it.
interesting. thanks.
@Sol I tried to keep you out of trouble but you are digging your own cell. I can't make anyone do anything. I can only remind you to be respectful and guilt you.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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