Originally Posted by
Mallan
From what I've observed of my best friend, who is an INFj, she exhibits traits like these:
- Very moralistic, will always do what she thinks/feels is right. (She tells me she tries to emulate her mom, who is an INTp, so she tries to out-logic me a lot of the time. Doesn't pan out well.)
- Wants everyone to get along and forgive one another despite clashing differences. (An example: Basically, after a bunch of shit went down with me, my ENFp friend, and an old unhealthy ESFj friend, the INFj tried to have our ENFp friend forgive the ESFj and be friends again. ENFp didn't want to, got in a fight with the INFj, and both parties left feeling upset.)
- Sets high standards for herself in achievement. I.E. taking many difficult classes to build up a good academic record, participating in many plays and concerts for her flute group, having a strict exercise routine that she must fulfill every day or she won't feel good about herself.
- Sometimes patronizing because of how focused they are on their personal feelings and views.
- Can appear to be practical about her health, but will not take outside suggestions for her methods are the best way. And if those don't work, then she is screwed.
- Martyr-like, very empathetic when connecting with others, great listener.
- Will come up with multiple things to want and do, but be annoyingly indecisive about which route to go.
- Will generally keep to self when hurt by something in order to avoid any kind of conflict, especially with people she cares deeply for. Can be passive-aggressive and explode after a long period of time when a form of conflict occurs and will beat you down with her sorrows and sympathies. Scary in those times, I swear. o.o
- She is a damn hippy flower crown dawning fairy off in dreamland when not focused on what's right. *More joking than fact*
There are my two cents of observation.