Ok so I overheard an SLE say something and I want to offer up a contrast to LSE
SLE: This one time I was at a restaurant with my 2 year old son who was screaming. This waitor kept looking back at us and was annoyed. It's nothing to get mad at!
LSE: (sees the son get distuptive in public will take immediate action to control him and the situation because they care about how they come off in public; concetn for public societal peace eveness) Quiet! And will submit the son to hush and then appologize to the waitor.