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    Default ESI being negative

    Why am I encountering so much negativity in ESI bringing on toxic behaviors.

    Do you have any experience?
    How can some of this be stopped???
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    im assuming they had opressive or otherwise overly permissive without higher values background
    a lot of ESIs seem to be primarily concerned with themselves and what feels good to them, they are also naeve with Ne PoLR and make assumptions about other ppl or things that arent right. they know they are confused and airheaded in that sense, bc they get taken advantage of bc of it. then they become resentful and want to hurt someone else who may or may not deserve it. some of them think hurting others is natural and if they are not their friend or someone importnat then why should they care, others may be so bad with Te and intuition they somehow think the world can revolve around them and everyone else happens to be a willing servant for them and their fragility.
    other reasons for exploiting others may be they feel insecure about how to figure out how to do things themselves, never having enough/struggling to get by.
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    What sort of negativity?


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    It's just part of the 4P Ni package.
    Last edited by Exodus; 04-05-2024 at 06:33 AM.

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