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    Quote Originally Posted by MaviTilki View Post
    Might be because I am Ni subtype, I rather would have crushed on an SEE than an ILE. I did like some IEEs.. LIIs not really.. I migth prefer an ILE. I really like extraverted men. Haven't met many male LIEs, but I kept my distance from the female ones.
    Very similar here, for me.

    I've mostly crushed on Ethical types, in particular IEE, SEE, ESI. Probably has something to do with my Imago, who seems to be Extroverted and/or Ethical, leaning towards ExFp. ESI is the exception from the ExFp attraction principle because they are also my Benefactor; they are "above me" in that way, and my Imago is a dude who is somewhat unavailable and likes me less than I like them (sigh). So an ESI guy can fulfill that role easily. Also, ESIs can give me the sweet nectar of -Se too, haha, which kept me hooked in the past. Thankfully I am not as attracted to ESI men anymore as I once was.

    From the NTs, I find ILEs and ILIs the most appealing. I do not crush on NTs often at all, but if I do it is on one of those two types. Ironically, the two NT types I am less personally attracted to – LII and LIE – tend to be more attracted to me than the other two. I've had LIIs and LIEs be obsessed with me beyond belief. Tbh, LIIs are probably the one sociotype I am the least romantically/sexually attracted to on average; probably because they are Se PoLR, my Beneficiary, and I don't value Ti as much as I value Ni/Se. I don't really "get much" from that interaction besides mental stimulation, and that is not enough for me to be romantically/sexually attracted to someone. I am not really a "sapiosexual" in that way. I respond much better to visceral or emotional stimulation than intellectual, at least when it comes to romance. I feel like I can provide plenty of mental stimulation for myself on my own, I'd benefit more from someone making me tap more into my emotions and physicality. Having said that, LIIs make the best intellectual buddies for me, I can really enjoy intellectual discussions with them. But again, they don't do much for me romantically/sexually. (Btw, the Ethical type I am the least attracted to on average is EII – again, probably because of their Se PoLR.)

    I've found that IEI-Fe people tend to be much more "sapiosexual" than IEI-Ni ones. Must be related to the boosted Ethics and the weakened Logic of the former. It is true that many IEI-Fe individuals, esp. the women, end up with Alpha NTs. I cannot say the same for the IEI-Ni people; as far as I know, most of them end up with a fellow Ni lead. Besides the Imago, there seems to be a correlation between someone's subtype and whether they are more drawn to Logical or Ethical types. I'd say the main factors that determine whether someone will be drawn to one over the other are: Imago > own level of masculinity or femininity > subtype > Enneagram. (For example, I crush the most on people who have 9 and/or 4 in their tritype like myself and who are either 3 or 7 core type).
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    Feelings. Hm. I identify with what Viktor said regarding anger. But idk, I mostly just feel sort of detached from nearly anyone lately. Serious things have happened in my life past couple years, and besides immediate family, I only ever talked about it with a single friend. Nobody else even had a clue. And they won't. I don't really trust many people right now.

    Anyway, I don't like to dwell on that crap. For the most part, I don't think about it. I'm usually cheerful, and things are all right. The negative feelings stuff - ugh, to me, it's just whining, and pointless. That kind of mindset does nobody any good. Pity in all forms, but especially self-pity is something I can do without. I'm more or less happy overall.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post
    Very similar here, for me.

    I've mostly crushed on Ethical types, in particular IEE, SEE, ESI. Probably has something to do with my Imago, who seems to be Extroverted and/or Ethical, leaning towards ExFp. ESI is the exception from the ExFp attraction principle because they are also my Benefactor; they are "above me" in that way, and my Imago is a dude who is somewhat unavailable and likes me less than I like them (sigh). So an ESI guy can fulfill that role easily. Also, ESIs can give me the sweet nectar of -Se too, haha, which kept me hooked in the past. Thankfully I am not as attracted to ESI men anymore as I once was.

    From the NTs, I find ILEs and ILIs the most appealing. I do not crush on NTs often at all, but if I do it is on one of those two types. Ironically, the two NT types I am less personally attracted to – LII and LIE – tend to be more attracted to me than the other two. I've had LIIs and LIEs be obsessed with me beyond belief. Tbh, LIIs are probably the one sociotype I am the least romantically/sexually attracted to on average; probably because they are Se PoLR, my Beneficiary, and I don't value Ti as much as I value Ni/Se. I don't really "get much" from that interaction besides mental stimulation, and that is not enough for me to be romantically/sexually attracted to someone. I am not really a "sapiosexual" in that way. I respond much better to visceral or emotional stimulation than intellectual, at least when it comes to romance. I feel like I can provide plenty of mental stimulation for myself on my own, I'd benefit more from someone making me tap more into my emotions and physicality. Having said that, LIIs make the best intellectual buddies for me, I can really enjoy intellectual discussions with them. But again, they don't do much for me romantically/sexually. (Btw, the Ethical type I am the least attracted to on average is EII – again, probably because of their Se PoLR.)

    I've found that IEI-Fe people tend to be much more "sapiosexual" than IEI-Ni ones. Must be related to the boosted Ethics and the weakened Logic of the former. It is true that many IEI-Fe individuals, esp. the women, end up with Alpha NTs. I cannot say the same for the IEI-Ni people; as far as I know, most of them end up with a fellow Ni lead. Besides the Imago, there seems to be a correlation between someone's subtype and whether they are more drawn to Logical or Ethical types. I'd say the main factors that determine whether someone will be drawn to one over the other are: Imago > own level of masculinity or femininity > subtype > Enneagram. (For example, I crush the most on people who have 9 and/or 4 in their tritype like myself and who are either 3 or 7 core type).
    I relate to what you said too, I actually couldn't imagine going out with an LII. I really like strong men, I like when they are funny and flashy and when they can 'protect' me in a physical way. I definitely want someone to help me with the sensual side and practical things. SEE-Se subtypes felt somewhat attractive to me too. Not that much into other intuitives.

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    Quote Originally Posted by unsuccessfull Alphamale View Post
    IRL some beta STs have tried throw at me their package. It's weird. I'm the one saying that's OK, this the way to handle it and man up.

    I think it's common among betas overall to spill their feels at some point of time. It's the which is especially twisty beast at lower #Ds and when you combine that with feels... Makes it quite a journey, I guess.
    I don't really do it by default. You'd have to keep asking me for a long time before I get into anything like that.

    OK, there was this other thread about feelings (by @Chae).

    Gonna copypaste from there about my most common states.

    "Neutral calm, fully unaffected
    Calm with readiness (=slight anticipation of every next second, otherwise still unaffected)
    Some more involved bit of "rush" (what do I call this?)
    Desire for things (in some different forms), enjoyment for them
    Bits of excitement
    Anger related emotionality (irritation, frustration, annoyance, explicit anger, sometimes little "bits of rage")"

    Tbh anger is the emotion I access most easily.


    Quote Originally Posted by squark View Post
    Feelings. Hm. I identify with what Viktor said regarding anger. But idk, I mostly just feel sort of detached from nearly anyone lately. Serious things have happened in my life past couple years, and besides immediate family, I only ever talked about it with a single friend. Nobody else even had a clue. And they won't. I don't really trust many people right now.

    Anyway, I don't like to dwell on that crap. For the most part, I don't think about it. I'm usually cheerful, and things are all right. The negative feelings stuff - ugh, to me, it's just whining, and pointless. That kind of mindset does nobody any good. Pity in all forms, but especially self-pity is something I can do without. I'm more or less happy overall.
    Agreed it's pointless to wallow. You do come off very detached here on the forum too, at least since lately, I didn't see your posts in the past. I don't think that should stay that way for too long tho', it's not emotionally healthy IMO.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cassandra View Post
    Besides the Imago, there seems to be a correlation between someone's subtype and whether they are more drawn to Logical or Ethical types. I'd say the main factors that determine whether someone will be drawn to one over the other are: Imago > own level of masculinity or femininity > subtype > Enneagram. (For example, I crush the most on people who have 9 and/or 4 in their tritype like myself and who are either 3 or 7 core type).
    Hmm interesting. I agree on the Imago thing (this concept you introduced to me has been incredibly helpful for me). I try not to pay attention to the Imago-attraction anymore though. I recognize it now and I don't let myself go in that direction.

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    Finally have something angsty/stupid to write about. I have fallen for a co-worker but he is taken. I like his extroverted personality and he is HILARIOUS (my absolute weakness). I think he is SEE or SLE? I'm not sure. If he was single I would jump his bones. Fuck duality, this guy is the hottest thing I've seen in years. Totally smitten and secretly hoping I'm still around if he's ever back on the market, but, I might quit my job and try waitressing at the strip club before I go back to dancing.
    Sometimes I get a feeling he likes me but he's also a total social butterfly and they tend to draw a lot of people to them with charm. Can't wait to be over this and on to someone available.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pole View Post
    Finally have something angsty/stupid to write about. I have fallen for a co-worker but he is taken. I like his extroverted personality and he is HILARIOUS (my absolute weakness). I think he is SEE or SLE? I'm not sure. If he was single I would jump his bones. Fuck duality, this guy is the hottest thing I've seen in years. Totally smitten and secretly hoping I'm still around if he's ever back on the market, but, I might quit my job and try waitressing at the strip club before I go back to dancing.
    Sometimes I get a feeling he likes me but he's also a total social butterfly and they tend to draw a lot of people to them with charm. Can't wait to be over this and on to someone available.
    Hilarious is my weakness as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pole View Post
    Finally have something angsty/stupid to write about. I have fallen for a co-worker but he is taken. I like his extroverted personality and he is HILARIOUS (my absolute weakness). I think he is SEE or SLE? I'm not sure. If he was single I would jump his bones. Fuck duality, this guy is the hottest thing I've seen in years. Totally smitten and secretly hoping I'm still around if he's ever back on the market, but, I might quit my job and try waitressing at the strip club before I go back to dancing.
    Sometimes I get a feeling he likes me but he's also a total social butterfly and they tend to draw a lot of people to them with charm. Can't wait to be over this and on to someone available.
    I fall for these kind of girls aswel, but there's no reason for him not to be ENFj for example, as they're also extraverted social people, so he might even be your dual lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pole View Post
    Finally have something angsty/stupid to write about. I have fallen for a co-worker but he is taken. I like his extroverted personality and he is HILARIOUS (my absolute weakness). I think he is SEE or SLE? I'm not sure. If he was single I would jump his bones. Fuck duality, this guy is the hottest thing I've seen in years. Totally smitten and secretly hoping I'm still around if he's ever back on the market, but, I might quit my job and try waitressing at the strip club before I go back to dancing.
    Sometimes I get a feeling he likes me but he's also a total social butterfly and they tend to draw a lot of people to them with charm. Can't wait to be over this and on to someone available.
    Ohh well, good luck to getting over it fast.

    Why not EIE-Fe btw?


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    I fall for these kind of girls aswel, but there's no reason for him not to be ENFj for example, as they're also extraverted social people, so he might even be your dual lol.
    EIE-Fe, sure, maybe. EIE-Ni doesn't tend to be like Pole describes the guy. They have less extraverted energy, more like just ambiverts.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    I fall for these kind of girls aswel, but there's no reason for him not to be ENFj for example, as they're also extraverted social people, so he might even be your dual lol.
    I felt he could be EIE but didn't want to admit it, he does remind me of past guys from my past who I thought were my duals. He is deff my type.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Myst View Post
    Ohh well, good luck to getting over it fast.

    Why not EIE-Fe btw?




    EIE-Fe, sure, maybe. EIE-Ni doesn't tend to be like Pole describes the guy. They have less extraverted energy, more like just ambiverts.
    Thanks. I think changing jobs will help.
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    Today at work my co-workers showed their true colors to me by pulling some high school bullshit, everyone getting up and moving a couple tables down when I sat down. Fuck them. And fuck that dude I like so much, he can be with those fuckers. Beta reaction: If you're not with me you're against me. At least I can tell myself I tried to be a part of the group and be more social but they turned out to be haters. Well, the one girl is and that's how this thing started with them acting like they don't know me anymore (they do talk to me when she's not around, because she won't bitch I guess?). My reaction to things like this is going to the gym, tanning, and making more money. If people don't like me, it's not going to be because I'm a loser.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pole View Post
    Today at work my co-workers showed their true colors to me by pulling some high school bullshit, everyone getting up and moving a couple tables down when I sat down. Fuck them. And fuck that dude I like so much, he can be with those fuckers. Beta reaction: If you're not with me you're against me. At least I can tell myself I tried to be a part of the group and be more social but they turned out to be haters. Well, the one girl is and that's how this thing started with them acting like they don't know me anymore (they do talk to me when she's not around, because she won't bitch I guess?). My reaction to things like this is going to the gym, tanning, and making more money. If people don't like me, it's not going to be because I'm a loser.
    That's fucking horrible man. Ditch these fuckers.

    Beta reaction: If you're not with me you're against me.
    Damn straight.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Number 9 large View Post
    That's fucking horrible man. Ditch these fuckers.



    Damn straight.
    Hell yeah. I'm getting my alcohol server's license in a bit, doesn't cost much, maybe $12-$15? I'm going to waitress at the strip club and make some real money, forget retail it sucks ass. There's fuckers on every job so it might as well be good money.
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    I want to bang a SLE right now. I mean I wouldn't turn down an EIE. But I'm really feeling SLE at the moment.

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