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    Which type would have the most difficult time expressing personal sentiment/recoil at friendly 'I miss you' etc etc? And which would have extreme aversion to emotional neediness?

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    aversion to neediness : SLE probably

    difficult time expressing sentiments, recoil at "I miss you" : me.

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    I vote people not good at Fe.

    ILIs probably think it's a bit histrionic and feel uncomfortable.
    LIIs (me) think these words put too much pressure on me to say the right words so I freak out. But if I were comfortable enough with the person then it wouldn't bother me too much.

    Also probably SLEs too.

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    I don't know, but I struggle when people say "I love you". I usually say "yeah" back. But they probably wish I'd say it back. It's just awkward to say it because it's expected, rather than a spontaneous feeling.

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    "I miss you" seems more like since it is a sentiment about a person.

    As for aversion to emotional neediness: irrationals generally. Whether or depends on what exactly you mean, but my understanding is that ILEs would be most averse to it in the sense of needing lots of freedom and space in a relationship, probably more than ILIs and SLIs.

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    "I miss you" can be communicated in myriad forms. Verbally expressing it as such is kinda Fe imo.

    ILE is often more needy in a relationship than tons of SLEs together ... NeTi is drawn to domesticity and tranquil intimacy, while SeTi is into push-pull stuff. With Se being so concrete and static and into the present moment ... kinda all Se users need some excitement or challenge in their relationships sometimes. The degree in which some "shaking up" to play with interpersonal space may sever a relationship depends on type and quadra (I agree rational vs irrational may have a say, too). SLE is probably the most exposed.
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