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    Default Where do you find ESI/ISFj's?

    Where do you find ESI/ISFj's in real life?

    the only thing that comes to my mind is hipser clubs and tumblr(not irl)...

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    At home
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    agreed. at home. or at work. or at the store. if you're lucky you can find a really fucked up one at the bar on Wednesday. Or through your fucked up gothic friends. or at church.

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    I'm usually either at work or being reclusive physically and socially online. Thus I cannot help you find other ESIs.
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    medical field, as phelobotomists those people who draw blood, as ultrasound techs, nurses, assistants, etc.
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    Dual type (as per tcaudilllg)
    Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?


    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

    Best description of functions:
    http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html

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    Cooking your food at the local restaurant.

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    Funerals, strangely.

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    In the womb.
    LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP



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    trance clubs
    hot shopping centers fucking up almost half of their monthly income at once
    psychiatry hospitals (as medical professionals)
    botanical gardens (picking up exotic plants/flowers)
    sometimes city libraries (sporadically)
    sex shops
    ....
    at home/work engrossed in stuff...
    :-(
    ....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    At home
    Some ESIs are homeless.
    LII-Ne with strong EII tendencies, 6w7-9w1-3w4 so/sp/sx, INxP



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    if you're on a college campus, both the library and parties.

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    In heaven.
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    Why do i always agree with everything you say?!

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    Health shops picking up homeopathic remedies or in the garden actually getting them. Oor like selena said, some place that involves sex or has potential to. *Kicks self for admitting that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LIIbrarian View Post
    In heaven.
    Or hell homie

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    Quote Originally Posted by carrina View Post
    Or hell homie
    Depends on whose judging the souls.
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    Youse can find them in mah bett~~~~~~

    Actually, no lol I sleep alone. alone


    I guess you can find them mostly getting educated or having respectable-prestigious jobs or being movie star-artists
    or being penniless but even hotter for it. (??)

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    Yeah actually sleeping in the same bed as others is a frustrating thing for me. If i do it I'm pretending like i like it when i don't. Keeps me awake.

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    Nr 1 place: Healthcare
    Nr 2 place: Receptionist / secretary

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    In a corner. Bein a beeeotch.



    Street corner.


    but that's just me.
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    Bothering me. But this one goes both ways. OK, I try to hide/avoid when I see them to be honest.

    I have seen few of them as social workers (through school I work at). Pushing people (I'm biased).
    So get into trouble and wish for the best, I think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chips and underwear View Post
    Depends on whose judging the souls.
    Infantiles because we are the purest and most innocent. It is aggressor's turn to receive some pitch fork.

    Dear Fi PoLR you are so cool.

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    think they might also go into artistic professions?

    As in, interior design, architecture, fashion, etc.

    I don't really know, personally. But I'm wondering hm.

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    Quote Originally Posted by May View Post
    think they might also go into artistic professions?

    As in, interior design, architecture, fashion, etc.

    I don't really know, personally. But I'm wondering hm.
    Good call.

    The ones I've met through friends (their friends, wives or girlfriends) and know what they do for a living are:
    - architect/photographer/translator (architect by education, she worked as one for a few years abroad, then came back, couldn't find a job and started to delve more into artistic endeavours and now works as a translator with her boyfriend)
    - architect
    - graphic designer
    - dietician/dog trainer/artist (lives in a house in the woods with her boyfriend and 3 dogs and owns a shop with organic food and grows some of it, she used to have an online shop with her art for a while and briefly tried to make her house into a dog hotel earlier)
    - nurse

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    Quote Originally Posted by May View Post
    think they might also go into artistic professions?

    As in, interior design, architecture, fashion, etc.

    I don't really know, personally. But I'm wondering hm.
    This is also what I've noticed. Almost all of my art teachers have been ESI.

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    I dunno any ESIs irl anymore. One did work at a retail shop...

    The other a nurse.

    The ones on here seem to be bit artsy.. (Allie...eh who else?)

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    I have developed a new test to detect ESIs:


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    Fi people are everywhere. Where can you find Fe people?
    ILE "Searcher"
    Socionics: ENTp
    DCNH: Dominant --> perhaps Normalizing
    Enneagram: 7w6 "Enthusiast"
    MBTI: ENTJ "Field Marshall" or ENTP "Inventor"
    Astrological sign: Aquarius

    To learn, read. To know, write. To master, teach.

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    Fe people are everrryyyyywhere.

    I feel bad for you that you are surrounded by Fi types. Srsly.

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    yeah, I often feel surrounded by Fe people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackburry View Post
    Fe people are everrryyyyywhere.

    I feel bad for you that you are surrounded by Fi types. Srsly.
    Quote Originally Posted by May View Post
    yeah, I often feel surrounded by Fe people.
    I think that types are not evenly distributed.

    / --> Western Europe (gamma), Northern Europe, Australia, Japan (Delta)
    / --> USA, Canada, Ireland, Korea (Alpha), Russia, Eastern Europe, China, South America, Arab contries (Beta)
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    Quote Originally Posted by unsuccessfull Alphamale View Post
    I have developed a new test to detect ESIs:


    that looks more like SLE, I think.





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