Member Questionnaire 1 (Megane)What is beauty? What is love?
Beauty is a combination of sensually pleasing visual qualities to the eyes.What are your most important values?
Love is a attraction towards other human beings to desire a personal relationship with them.
Science and Research, Self-Improvement, Health, Rationalism, Thought, Friendships, Family and Justice.Do you have any sort of spiritual/religious beliefs, and why do you hold (or don't) those beliefs in the first place?
I'm not exactly what you would refer to as a spiritual/religious person, because in truth, I fear this will increase conflict in forming relationships with other people and would not be able to reflect an accurate image of myself.Opinion on war and militaries? What is power to you?
What is power anyway? Is this the soul reason why humanity could not work together to form as close to a utopia as possible? Humans by nature are demanding beings, not just in the perspective of basic needs of survival; but in ways humans have to form alliances with people that they trust, and humans drift farther and farther apart as the present day military forms.What have you had long conversations about? What are your interests? Why?
Science, Engineering, Philosophy, Chemistry, Physics, Biology and basically any subject within the area of sciences. Ever since I was a child, you could say I was born a scientist, always questioning how things worked, why certain things existed and why others were imaginary. I loved solitude, just to have those moments where I would be in my big cardboard box and spend hours reading until I fell asleep....... in the middle of the day. Either way, it's such subjects like that make life much more intriguing to me and to others as well.Interested in health/medicine as a conversation topic? Are you focused on your body?
I'm greatly interested in the health of my body and much more interested on how it functions. I remember I had quite a few health applications on my mobile device. Perhaps this was one of the reasons why I found psychology and human health to be so interesting.What do you think of daily chores?
I think of them to be a common activity that is necessary, however I find such chores to be an annoyance if I am deep in thought for a prolonged amount of time or busy doing something else that takes priority over the chores.Books or films you liked? Recently read/watched or otherwise. Examples welcome.
I'm interested primarily in the Science and Technology genre of books as well as Science-Fiction. I recently read "A Brief History of Time" and "The Universe in a Nutshell" a few weeks ago, and wholeheartedly enjoyed re-reading such a astonishingly beautiful book.What has made you cry? What has made you smile? Why?
Believe it or not, I'm actually pretty childish and a sore loser, although when talking to other people I act like a good sport just to assure them that I'm okay. I only cry severe circumstances, such as if a very close friend betrayed me, gained the approval of others and proved to society that I'm just some ugly nerd that deserves no recognition at all. And what makes me smile? The fact that our innovation has skyrocketed in the past few years and people are willing to make people's lives easier and better.Where do you feel: at one with the environment/a sense of belonging?
In the company of friends, where I can enjoy the lighthearted company of people with silly jokes and humor. Also, I do enjoy being in company of well-read people in which I can feel comfortable with like-minded people.What have people seen as your weaknesses? What do you dislike about yourself?
Unemotional, strict, not too friendly to strangers, physically weak, frail, too serious, unforgiving, rejecting of personal relationships with people. I dislike all of these qualities about me, because I think it could potentially be hurting my chances in forming more human relationships with people.What have people seen as your strengths? What do you like about yourself?
A sharp mind, an intellectual perspective on things, analytic, scientific, resourceful, ingenious, hard-working, and I've learned to like all of these qualities about myself to help me build self-confidence over the years.In what areas of your life would you like help?
Forming relationships with others and making stronger bonds with people. None other than that, perhaps more insight and wisdom from other people who have gone down the career path of physics, since I that I wished to become a physicist in the near future and was looking for some guidance and assistance on the subject.Ever feel stuck in a rut? If yes, describe the causes and your reaction to it.
I remember the last time I got stuck in a rut, I ended up searching for new activities to help me think for a solution to getting out of the rut. (This is the exact opposite with me and running out of ideas to explore, in which I normally become very melancholic)What qualities do you most like and dislike in other people? What types do you get along with?
I really like emotional feedback and new interesting ideas I can sink my teeth into. The types I get along with the most are: ESE, ILE, SEI, IEI and ILI (Many of my close friends have ILE or SEI qualities about them)How do you feel about romance/sex? What qualities do you want in a partner?
I'm really repulsed by the very idea of romance/sex, and would prefer to continue living without contact to such things.If you were to raise a child, what would be your main concerns, what measures would you take, and why?
Health above all else, education, discipline, a place where I will do everything in my power to create happiness for the child and form a close bond with them.A friend makes a claim that clashes with your current beliefs. What is your inward and outward reaction?
Outward: I would be more likely to leave conversation than to retort.Describe your relationship to society. How do you see people as a whole? What do you consider a prevalent social problem? Name one.
Inward: Looking for an opening to return to conversation with a formulated plan.
I believe other people's ideologies and perspectives generate an certain image of society that is specific for one person. One main problem in society is an unwillingness to listen and agree to differing perspectives without morbidly rejecting them. However, my image of society changes each year as the more positives and negatives I see on each side. If one is able to change their perspective, they are able to change their reality, correct?How do you choose your friends and how do you behave around them?
It normally takes a week or more for me to be friends with someone and in my choice of friends are those who are able to at least tolerate my large vocabulary. My behavior around my friends usually result in friendly gestures and a somewhat cheerful presence.How do you behave around strangers?
Distrustful, avoidance of eye contact, straight posture, eye focus on other objects in the environment, overly polite, easily pushed around.