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    Default The best intertype relationship for friendship

    For me the best friendship I had was with my:
    identities ( INFj )
    semi-duality
    comparative ,
    activity .

    What was it like for you ??? please rank the top types for you in friendship.

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    Mirror is a clear winner, the rest are in no particular order:

    Mirror (IEE)
    Activity (SLI)
    Duality (LSE)
    Semi Dual (LIE)
    Kindred (ESI)
    Benefit (SEI)
    Supervision (ILE)
    Quasi-Identity (IEI)

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    identical, dual
    Obsequium amicos, veritas odium parit

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    Mirror

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    1. Mirror ILI--all the understanding and mutual appreciation for the absurd...none of the E-E clash.
    2. Benefit IEE--playfulness, support, understanding, sense of freedom &acceptance. Creative & unsolicited help with my Inferior Fi.
    3. Illusionary LSI--compatibility and mutual appreciation stemming from a dominant Thinking approach. Attraction &sense of adventure when combined with the other's creative Tertiary (Ni+Se).

    **I want to qualify my response with the fact that I don't know any Duals.
    Last edited by ENJoymENT; 01-17-2015 at 12:03 AM. Reason: Added qualifier

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    Dual was the best mutual understanding, comfort, sharing interests. Never misunderstandings that we couldn't compromise. Semi-dual is second,have fun and talk about similiar interests, Mirror is next, understand eachother well and rarely argue. Quasi identity is next, we seem to always have a laugh with each other and enjoy long talks.
    But this is only based on my exposure to those people.
    I also liked my benefactor friend, but felt the imbalance too strongly. Made me feel inadequate in a way

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    mirror, activity and duality are potentially very awkward due to the assumed familiarity and the need to constantly inhibit them when values don't match.

    identity, same story with some rivalry & shared helplessness thrown in.

    shared ??troversion + rationality is generally least stressful.

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    certain SEEs. Many LIIs. Certain ESEs. Occassionally LIEs.
    Rarely ILIs.

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    Infps and isfps... can't get em off me!!!!

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    Comparative brought depth and an insidious, but beneficial reconsideration of a few "rote convictions".
    Q-identity felt earthy, reliable, and durable, but ended in unexpected conflict.
    Semi-duality is productive and had a vaguely parental feel.
    Activity meant lots of topics to squeeze in conversations in spite of a slight feeling of boredom due to much regularity or internal focus.
    Look-alike can feel like friendship that's solid without needing many words (when you know you strive for similar stuff) ...not much to learn (grow on it) though.

    But well, I'm not eager to generalize ...it depends on too much that's too personal.
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