Hi everyone. Some of you may know me, some may not. If not, feel free to ask any questions that you feel will help you understand/get to know me.
I've been wondering about my stacking .I know I'm extremely sx first, but I don't know about the second instinct. I was mostly set on So second, but have been questioning it... I don't know how to differentiate between extraversion vs social instinct, introversion vs self pres instinct - I think that could be a good thread in itself. I find that extraverted sp firsts are often the most introverted of their types, and introverted social firsts are the most extroverted of their types. Anywho, getting off track...
I do value being part of a collective - I feel happiest when I'm socially active and always have something to do with others. However, I am also very picky about whom I choose to engage with and I feel like this makes me come across more generally stand-offish at times with those I don't know.. As compared to So firsts who I think can ingratiate themselves and become "a part" of any group easily ... ?
I also find myself caring a lot more about a comfortable, clean environment that is stable than a lot of So lasts. Sp lasts are all flighty, self described "gypsies" that can not take care of their finances, etc to save their lives yet... as far as I know. I don't know if that's stacking related as much as maturity though. At some point we all have to settle down, right?
I dunno, I just can't disentangle my EIE traits from 3w4 traits from sx/sp or sx/so? What do you guys think?