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    Do they usually compliment eachother, or do Sx/??'s end up wanting more?

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    It may be safe to say that both may end up wanting more since they have different preoccupations... or even two sx firsts together may end up wanting more. Especially if they have a 1, 4 or 7 fix.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Olly From Wally World View Post
    It may be safe to say that both may end up wanting more since they have different preoccupations... or even two sx firsts together may end up wanting more. Especially if they have a 1, 4 or 7 fix.
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    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    Do they usually compliment eachother
    no

    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    or do Sx/??'s end up wanting more?
    yes
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    Wanting more in what way?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Wanting more in what way?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    Wanting more in what way?
    Intensity, merging, energy, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    Intensity, merging, energy, etc.
    I've never had a complaint about intensity in a relationship (I've actually been complimented on my level of passion), but my 7w8 sx/so ex always complained that I wasn't social or outgoing enough. "You're too socially fucking awkward".
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    Quote Originally Posted by suedehead View Post
    Intensity, merging, energy, etc.
    ugh these words have been thrown around so often they've lost all meaning
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    Quote Originally Posted by Galen View Post
    ugh these words have been thrown around so often they've lost all meaning
    How would you describe wanting more from an sx second?
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    I think it depends on how large the amount of experienced solitude manifests in the sx-seconds. As in touching for example.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    How would you describe wanting more from an sx second?
    It depends on the sx-second

    sp/sx: Something's always held too much in reserve. They tease me with the possibility of some internal spark of reactivity and impactful experience that lies within, but it's actively quelled. My impulse is to dig deeper and immerse myself in what experiences they have to share, but it's always cut short and leaves me high and dry.
    so/sx: They're usually fun to be around and chat with for a short amount of time, but after a while it gets to be too draining. It's like their minds race too quickly for me to settle into what really makes them tick. "Check out this cool thing I can talk about" can only go on for so long until I just run out of energy to care.
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    My deepest and most mind-blowing relationships were with Sx first folks, but I think if I'm really "in love", I can provide enough relational energy to keep things interesting with some other stack, too. I don't know what that translates into on a longer-term ...For instance, I've never actually lived with someone belonging in another stack, so I cannot tell if there's not enough communication, too many selfishly held barriers etc. My current bf is so/sp and if there are things standing in the way of complete happiness, they have to do with his being a fluctuating and sometimes inconsistent Se base rather than with the stack imo. But well, I guess I'm not as addicted to intensity as I was in my early 20s anymore lol. At least I'm not as turned on by complicated and near-dangerous relationships at this point.
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