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    I'd like to look for any correlations concerning socionics types within a family. Please list families you know the types of. I'll trust you not to be terrible at typing, which would skew the whole project. If you're not completely sure about someone's type, please don't list their probable type. And if you don't know the types of at least half the family, it probably wouldn't help to list them. I'll start:

    Family 1
    IEE Dad
    SLI Mom
    LII lad
    LSE lass
    SEI lad
    SLE lad

    Family 2
    Dad
    IEE Mom
    LSE lad
    IEE lad
    lad

    Family 3
    ESE Dad
    Mom
    lass
    SEE lass
    LII lass

    Family 4
    EIE Dad
    ESE Mom
    ILE lad (not biological to mom)
    IEI lass
    EII lad

    ESTj
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    Brilliand's Younger Sister
    Squishy's Older Sister

    Johari Nohari

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    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
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    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    im pretty confident about the types within my own family at this point.

    LSI dad
    IEI mom
    SLE son
    ESI daughter

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    Family 1
    SEE dad
    ESI mom
    ESE daugter
    LSE son
    ESI son
    SEI son
    LSE daughter
    SLI daughter

    Family 2
    LXI dad
    ESE mom
    SEI daughter
    ILE son
    SEE daughter

    Family 3
    LSE dad
    EII mom
    LII son
    SEE daughter
    IEE son

    Family 4
    LSI dad
    LIE mom
    LSE daughter
    SLI son

    Family 5
    SEI dad
    SLE mom
    ESE son

    Family 6
    ESE dad
    EIE mom
    SLE daughter

    Family 7
    XLI dad
    EII daughter
    ILI son
    LIE daughter

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    My family
    IEE mother
    ILI father
    EII sister
    SLE brother (I mistyped him previously)
    EII me

    LSI mother's father


    Hubby's family
    ESI mother
    LII father
    LII hubby
    SEI sister

    EII father's father
    LSE father's mother
    IEE father's sister

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    Parents:

    LSI Mom
    Dad 1 EIE
    Dad 2 ILI

    Children (in order of age for the ones with types I know but there are other kids (of the EIE), born in between, whose types I don't know. I am sure a couple are logical types but haven't given it much thought)

    Girl IEI
    Girl EII

    Girl ESE
    Boy IEI
    Boy IEI

    Conclusion: three ethical and/or intuitive older girls can turn boys IEI

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    My family:

    LSE Father
    EII Mother
    LSI Brother
    LIE sister
    ILI me

    I think:

    Dad's side:
    SEE grandfather
    ILI grandmother (but they don't get along so who knows.)

    Mom's side:
    SLI grandfather
    EII grandmother

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    LSI mother
    IEE father
    Unhappy marriage but they've been together for close to 30 years now

    I'm IEE and afab
    My sister's SLI

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    Family:
    Mom: EIE
    Dad: LSI

    Dad's side:
    Grandmother: LSI
    Grandfather: SLE
    Aunt: ESE, married to SEI
    cousin 1 (girl): SEI
    cousin 2 (boy): ILI

    Mom's side:
    Grandmother: ESI
    Grandfather: LIE
    Uncle: IEE
    Cousin 1 (girl): ESE, married to LSE
    Cousin 2 (girl): SEI, married to LSI

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    Immediate family
    EII Mother
    LSI Father
    ESI sister
    IEI me
    ----------
    12 year later and different dad
    IEE Sister(13)
    IEI Sister(Or EII but definite INF[10])
    ESE little Nephew(7)
    SXE Niece (4)

    10 year old sisters dad LII
    13 year old sisters dad LSE
    Niece and Nephews dad SLI
    I would say that ethically you are still supposed to act as if you have unilateral responsibility; but simultaneously you have to be able to see the other as a fully autonomous, free, aware person.

    Medicalizing social problems has the additional benefit of rendering society not responsible for those social ills. If itís a disease, itís nobodyís fault. Yay empiricism.

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    MY FAMILY:

    SEI - Dad
    IEE - Mom
    IEE - Stepmom
    SEI - sister
    IEI - me
    SEE - sister
    ESE - brother
    ? - brother
    IxFx - sister SEI> IEI> EII

    I didn't separate for our different mothers, but both mothers are the same type anyway so it shouldn't skew your results.


    ____________________


    FAMILY 2:

    LIE - Dad
    SEE - Mother
    Alpha Introvert - Daughter
    IEE - Daughter
    EIE - Son

    Very unhappy marriage. Divorced.


    ____________________


    FAMILY 3:

    LSE - Dad
    IEE - Mother
    EIE - Son
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    Do you guys really have dual parents? Interesting.

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    Oh, this is fun. I think about this a lot but never thought about patterns in the findings. Here are some I am sure of:

    Family 1
    SLI Dad
    ESI Mom
    LSE Lad
    IEE Lass
    ExTJ Lad
    SLI Lad

    Family 2
    SLE Dad
    EII Mom
    IxTp lad
    Ixxj lad (charming and smart and excels at everything)

    Family 3
    SLI Dad
    ESI?? Mom (Still figuring this!)
    SEE Lass
    LSI Lad

    Family 4
    SEE Dad
    EII Mom
    Ixxp lad
    ESFx lad

    Family 5
    SLI Dad
    SEE Mom
    SEI lad

    Family 6
    LSE Dad
    ESE Mom
    LII Lass
    SEI Lass
    ESE Lad

    Family 7
    ILI Dad
    ESE Mom
    ILI lad
    xxfj lass
    xNFx lad


    @Maritsa, you could do this, too!

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    Two more:

    ILE Dad
    SEI Mom
    EII Daughter
    LII son
    LSE son
    SEE son


    LSE Dad
    EIE Mom
    IEI son
    EII son
    SEE or ESE son
    good happy son whose type I don't know

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eliza Thomason View Post
    Oh, this is fun. I think about this a lot but never thought about patterns in the findings. Here are some I am sure
    @Maritsa, you could do this, too!
    I juat know this:

    My own
    Dad-SLI
    Mom-ILI
    Brother-SEE
    Sister -ESE

    Dad's
    Dad-SLI
    Mom- LSE
    Their kids are SLI majority and one ESE

    Mom's
    Father-SLI
    Mom- SEI
    Kids are ILI, LIE,

    No one's EII

    Everyone on both my mom's and dad's side were either killed in the Genocide or I have never seen them and therefore can't type them. My mom's dad had one brother but my mom never talks about him and her one aunt is a sensory type probably a merry dichotomy but not a rational type

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    These are a couple of families that I know of:

    Family #1: SLI wife + SLE husband = SLI son, SLE son

    Family #2: LII husband + ESE wife = LII daughter, ESE daughter, LII son

    Family #3: EII wife + ILE husband = IEI daughter, ILI son

    Family #4: ESE wife + LSI husband = SEI daughter

    Family #5: ILI husband + IEE wife = IEI son, EIE daughter

    Family #6: LSE husband + ESE wife = LSI son, IEE daughter

    (all of the above are 20+ year marriages)

    Family #7:IEI wife + LSI husband = ESE son, LII daughter
    + SLE second husband = LIE daughter
    + ESE boyfriend = no children
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    My family (I think)

    mom IEE
    first husband was also IEE
    dauthers (my sisters): SEI and SEE
    second marriage of the same mom with ILI
    daughter: ILE (me)

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    My family: m_LIE+ f_ESI parents; me + SEI-Si children

    My father's family: f_IEI + m_LSI-Se parents; LSE, LIE, EIE, ESE, SEI, SLI children

    My mother's family: f_ESI-Se + m_SEI-Si parents; ESI, LSE-Te, ESE, ESI children

    Ex's family: m_LSI/ESI + f_ILI parents; LSI-Ti, ILE-Ti, SEI, LSE-Te children
    (the ones I got to know well)

    Good friend's family: f_SEI-Fe + m_IEE parents; IEE + ESE children

    Good friend's family: m_ESI + f_LII parents; EII-Ne + SEI children

    Cousins&co: f_ESE + m_SEE parents; SLE + SEE children

    Cousins&co : f_ESE + m_SLI-Te parents; LSE, LIE, ESE children

    Cousins&co : m_EIE + f_ESI-Se parents; EII-Fi child
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    Me: IEE
    Daughter: SEE
    Richard: SEI

    My dad: SEE
    My mom: EII
    Bro 1: SLE
    Bro 2: IEI
    Me: IEE

    My dad: SEE
    Dad's second wife: ESI
    Daughter 1: EIE
    Daughter 2: ESI
    Daughter 3: SEE
    Me: IEE

    My mom: EII
    Mom's second husband: ESI
    Daughter 1: EIE
    Son 1: ESE
    Son 2: ILE
    (Adopted) Son 3: SEI
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    my family

    mom: ILE
    dad: IEI
    me: IEI

    other families (will add ... )

    family 1:
    mom: EIE
    dad: LSI
    son 1: ILE
    son 2: ESE

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    Father – SLI, Mother – LSE
    Me – LIE, married and divorced from SLI, one son SLI.
    Sister #1 – LSE, married to male IEI, no kids.
    Sister #2 – LII, second marriage to male LSE, no kids.


    So, both Sister #2 and I married one of our parents, and Sister #1 married her conflictor. My marriage broke up, and the other two are undergoing a lot of stress. That's why I looked to Socionics (and a few other places) for a better method than the one I have been using for choosing a partner.


    Ex-wife SLI has two sisters; sister #1 – IEE, sister #2 – unknown type. All three sisters have been divorced, but Sister #1 is remarried to a guy who is probably an SEI.

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    Unit 1(mother and uncle's parents)
    Grandmother: SEI
    Grandfather: LSE

    Unit 2(siblings of grandmother 1)
    Great-Uncle: LSI
    <sibling to:>
    Unit 3(siblings of grandmother 1)
    Great-Aunt:EIE

    Unit 4(the nuclear family)
    Mother blank
    Stepdad: LSI
    Me: LII
    Brother: IEE(his dad is LSI, lives separate of everyone with another family, is not Unit 4 stepdad)
    Step-sister: ESI(her mother is borderline,don't know her very well)

    Unit 5
    Uncle: SLE
    Step-aunt: ESE
    Female Step-cousin: ESE
    (Male Cousin:SEE)

    Unit 6(same uncle as 5 is father of male cousin)
    Ex-aunt: SEE
    Male Cousin: SEE

    Unit 7
    Grandma 2: ESE
    Dad: SLI
    (Me)

    Unit 8(uncle sibling to dad)
    Uncle: SEI
    Male Cousin: blank (considering SLI or LII)
    Female Cousin 3: SEE

    Unit 9(aunt sibling to dad)
    Female Cousin: EII
    Aunt: SEI


    Unit 10(Parents of stepdad)
    Step-grandma: ESE
    Step-step-grandpa: ESE




    @Director Abbie

    Yeah it's confusing. Lots of shit has happened in my family history lol. The relations are all from my perspective outwards, of course. Should be friendly to common sense now, although convoluted.
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    My family:
    Mother - EIE
    Father - SLI
    Me - LII
    Sister - ESE
    Brother - IEI


    Mother's side:
    Grandfather - LSE
    Grandmother - ESI
    Uncle - SEE


    Father's side:
    Grandmother - SLI
    Grandfather - IEI

    Father's elder sister:
    Aunt - EIE
    Uncle - SLE
    Cousin (girl) - ESE
    Cousin (lad) - IEI

    Father's younger sister:
    Aunt - SEE
    Uncle - LIE
    Cousin (girl) - ESI
    Cousin (girl) - SEE
    Cousin (girl) - IEE

    I often hear comments about how my siblings are similar in their behaviour and relationship to my cousins ESE and IEI. No wonder they're identicals.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    I juat know this:

    My own
    Dad-SLI
    Mom-ILI
    Brother-SEE
    Sister -ESE

    Dad's
    Dad-SLI
    Mom- LSE
    Their kids are SLI majority and one ESE

    Mom's
    Father-SLI
    Mom- SEI
    Kids are ILI, LIE,

    No one's EII

    Everyone on both my mom's and dad's side were either killed in the Genocide or I have never seen them and therefore can't type them. My mom's dad had one brother but my mom never talks about him and her one aunt is a sensory type probably a merry dichotomy but not a rational type
    I haven't included yours yet because it looks like this is your family, yet there are no EIIs, yet you self-type as EII.

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    Squishy's Older Sister

    Johari Nohari

    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ouronis View Post
    Mom's Side
    Grandmother: SEI
    Grandfather: LSE
    Great-Uncle: LSI
    Great-Aunt:EIE

    Mother blank
    Uncle: SLE
    Ex-aunt: SEE
    Step-aunt: ESE

    Me: LII
    Brother: IEE
    Step-cousin: ESE
    Cousin: SEE

    Dad's Side:

    Grandma: ESE

    Dad: SLI
    Uncle: SEI
    Aunt: SEI

    Me: LII
    Cousin 1: blank (considering SLI or LII)
    Cousin 2: EII
    Cousin 3: SEE

    Stepdad;s Side
    Step-grandma: ESE
    Step-step-grandpa: ESE

    Stepdad: LSI

    Step-sister: ESI
    I haven't included yours yet because it's confusing. Are your great-aunt and uncle married or siblings? Are your cousins male or female? Could you sort them by family unit instead of by generation?

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    Squishy's Older Sister

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    I haven't closed this yet, but I wanted to check a theory: the Mother's Curse. This is when someone's mother says something along the lines of, "I hope you have kids just like you so you'll know what it was like to have to raise you!"

    My grandmother gave my mom the "Mother's Curse" because my mom's pickiness exasperated her. My mom ended up with me, her mirror, who has the same sort of pickiness, and she doesn't mind.
    So, given that identicals and mirrors are most like a person and conflictors and duals are least like them...

    Likelihood that a man will have a child much like him: 18.2%
    Likelihood that a man will have a child entirely unlike him: 10.1%
    Likelihood that a woman will have a child much like her: 22.3%
    Likelihood that a woman will have a child entirely unlike her: 6.1%
    Hypothetical chance it would be expected to be: 12.5%

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    Squishy's Older Sister

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    Quote Originally Posted by Ritella View Post
    Over here, we'll put up with (almost) all of your crap. You just have to use the secret phrase: "I don't value it. It's related to <insert random element here>, which is not in my quadra."
    Quote Originally Posted by Aquagraph View Post
    Abbie is so boring and rigid it's awesome instead of boring and rigid. She seems so practical and down-to-the-ground.

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    My own family:

    Dad: LII
    Mom: EIE
    Brother: ESE
    Me: IEE
    Sister: ILE
    (I have a half sister that I've never met.

    Dad's Family:
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    Dad: SLE
    Mom: SEI
    Dauther 1: SEI
    Dauther 2: SLE
    Son 1: SEE
    Son 2: LII
    (Three others died which I don't know their type)

    Mom's Family:
    --------------------
    Dad: ESE
    Mom: LSI
    Dauther 1: LSE
    Son 1: LSI
    Dauther 2: EIE
    Son 2: LSE
    Dauther 3: SEI
    Dauther 4: LSE
    Son 3: IEE
    Dauther 5: LSE
    Dauther 6: LSE
    Dauther 7: SLE
    Son 4: LIE
    Son 5: SLI
    Dauther 8: SEI
    Dauther 9: IEI
    Son 6: SEI

    Other families I know:

    Family 1:
    --------------
    Dad: ESE
    Mom: SEE
    Son 1: SLE
    Dauther: LSE
    Son 2: SEI

    Family 2:
    ---------------
    Dad: LSE
    Mom: ESE
    Son: SEI

    Family 3:
    ---------------
    Dad: IEE
    Mom: SEI
    Son: SLI
    Daughter 1: IEE
    Daughter 2: SEE
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    My family:
    Dad: ILE-C
    Mom: ESE-H
    Son: LII-H (me)
    Daughter: IEI

    Dad's side:
    Dad: LSE
    Mom: EII
    Son: ILE-C
    Son: LII
    Daughter: EIE

    Mom's side:
    Dad: SLI
    Mom
    Daughter: ESE-H
    Like 8 other sons and daughters I haven't typed.
    Valued | Devalued
    < | < | Conscious
    < | < | Unconscious

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