so/sp connection

[silke]

so/sp Beta e3

[silke]

sp/sx (zayn) and so/sp (sia)

[Olimpia]

[maniac]

It's kind of amusing listening to sx lasts explaining attraction and "mating dances"

[Olimpia]

Patrick Bateman: Unhealthy So/Sp (Type 3).
The scenes above are also very Gamma.

[dot]

Both Ricegum and Jake Paul are probably so/sp (social climbing, stepping over anyone to survive and stay relevant and contra-flow) and Idubbbz kind of calls out the negative aspects of that in his new content cop.

I somehow got this weird image in my head that so/sp men kinda end up as these 50 something year old dudes without a wife, being rich and fucking around without ever committing. I often seem to have a problem seeing them in a relationship at all too. It's easier with the women. I probably have too many biases, haha. From the very feeeew stuff I know about Jake Paul I kinda could see him having the social instinct in his stacking.

[darya]

I somehow got this weird image in my head that so/sp men kinda end up as these 50 something year old dudes without a wife, being rich and fucking around without ever committing. I often seem to have a problem seeing them in a relationship at all too. It's easier with the women. I probably have too many biases, haha. From the very feeeew stuff I know about Jake Paul I kinda could see him having the social instinct in his stacking.

They usually have a wife (preferably a trophy one), because wife = social status, but they often have mistresses on the side and/or have been divorced at least one time till the 50's.

[Olimpia]

[Stellafera]

Not sure if y'all are being entirely serious, but...

You guys are going way too mastermind-y on the So/Sp interpretation. Not everyone needs to be at the top of some sort of pyramid. I just like to feel appreciated, and I want to feel appreciated for the right reasons. Being well-regarded for a sham marriage? Not really fulfilling my need to feel connected to people. Maybe if I was a 3 I'd feel differently.

[Stellafera]

[Dauphin]

Not sure if y'all are being entirely serious, but...

You guys are going way too mastermind-y on the So/Sp interpretation. Not everyone needs to be at the top of some sort of pyramid. I just like to feel appreciated, and I want to feel appreciated for the right reasons. Being well-regarded for a sham marriage? Not really fulfilling my need to feel connected to people. Maybe if I was a 3 I'd feel differently.

Yeah, the people here are pushing weird stereotypes about each of the stackings. SO/SPs are emotionless and Machiavellian, SX/SOs are borderline, SX/SPs are sex-crazed, etc.

[Stellafera]

One of my favorite songs.

[lynn]

[JC1]

Not sure if y'all are being entirely serious, but...

You guys are going way too mastermind-y on the So/Sp interpretation. Not everyone needs to be at the top of some sort of pyramid. I just like to feel appreciated, and I want to feel appreciated for the right reasons. Being well-regarded for a sham marriage? Not really fulfilling my need to feel connected to people. Maybe if I was a 3 I'd feel differently.

Katherine Fauvre actually wrote about what each type of romantic relationship each type prefers

SX/SP: needs intimate, exciting, secure bonds

SX/SO: needs close bonds with mate and personal group of friends

SO/SX: Needs friendly bonds with mate, groups of friends, and community at large

SO/SP: Needs friendship in relationship, wants mate to be best friend

SP/SX: Needs secure bond with mate that is attractive but brings security

SP/SO: Needs shared drive for security and shared group of friends

[JC1]

So, yeah, ideally So/Sp wants a partner or a friend, not a sham.

[Stellafera]

Oh hey, another So-dom song from a teen-oriented musical. The stereotypical dog-eat-dog, keep-your-wits-about-you depiction of high school in media cultivates a So/Sp response. And, of course, there's some truth to the So focus as well--honestly it depends on one's perspective whether the stereotypical teenage experience is Sx-dom or So-dom. I'm inclined to say the latter, but, well... bias.


I'm just Michael who you don't know, Michael flyin' solo
Michael in the bathroom by himself!

This is from one of the musical's side characters. The lead, Jeremy, who doesn't show up in this scene, strikes me as more of a really uncool Sx-dom, constantly obsessed with his (sex) appeal and his "game". Contrast with this So-heavy song, which is all about losing a sense of companionship. In teen fashion, the floor drops out completely from under Michael once he loses his one friendship and social place. A great exaggerated form of So-dominance.

[Olimpia]

[Olimpia]

He seemed to be rather Sp/Sx 5w4 to me...

[Desert Financial]

Looks like some Smeagol shit. Lol.

[JC1]

I've thought about this a bit more and....nah.

Sp/Sx maybe. He seems Social last overall- no wider Social concerns, more considered for his own survival and preoccupied with his own bad life, his friendship woes aren't enough.

[Olimpia]

I've thought about this a bit more and....nah.

Sp/Sx maybe. He seems Social last overall- no wider Social concerns, more considered for his own survival and preoccupied with his own bad life, his friendship woes aren't enough.

Harry turns into Sp/Sx as he becomes unhealthy.

Other than that, he is concerned about social status, friendships, and doesn't really have any strong SX ties to anyone, nor the desire for such.

To be fair, the movie revolves around his unhealthy SP, so I can see why one would type him as Sp/Sx.

He has an So/Sp outer character, being affluent and highly educated and well-put together socially etc., but for the inner story arc they went for something more Sp/Sx.
So he is like a mix of the two.

The gif I showed is rather unhealthy So/Sp moving to Sp/Sx > Sp/Sx, that is why I posted it here.

[JC1]

Harry turns into Sp/Sx as he becomes unhealthy.

Other than that, he is concerned about social status, friendships, and doesn't really have any strong SX ties to anyone, nor the desire for such.

To be fair, the movie revolves around his unhealthy SP, so I can see why one would type him as Sp/Sx.

He has an So/Sp outer character, being affluent and highly educated and well-put together socially etc., but for the inner story arc they went for something more Sp/Sx.
So he is like a mix of the two.

The gif I showed is rather unhealthy So/Sp moving to Sp/Sx > Sp/Sx, that is why I posted it here.

Well, his dad is rich and made him go to good schools and be put together socially so...

Didn't seem especially concerned with social validation to me in the film either, but "shrug"

[Olimpia]

Well, his dad is rich and made him go to good schools and be put together socially so...

Didn't seem especially concerned with social validation to me in the film either, but "shrug"

Yeah fair enough.

[Dauphin]

5w4 so/sp


1w9 so/sp

[maniac]

some random so/sp people

so/sp 7w6


so/sp 6w7


so/sp 1w9


so/sp 4w5

[silke]

so/sp 3w2

[maniac]

Same idea

[silke]

so/sp (SEI) - Blonde in the Belly of the Beast

[Stellafera]

He should be the so/sp ambassador.

Ew, no, don't force him on us

[maniac]

[Chae]

[lynn]

[Stellafera]

This Survivor meme is a perfect parody of So/Sp (and Fi HA)



A factor in being able to connect with people on a human, on an emotional level... is having a girlfriend and having to do that.

[yeves]

[silke]

so/sp x so/sp conversation

[Dauphin]

I'm trying out so/sp for a while. This may just be my 1w9 + LIE confusing me though. We'll see...

[Chae]

[Dauphin]

[The Reality Denialist]

Out of all stacking threads this one makes most sense personally.

[Dauphin]

https://www.artofmanliness.com/2012/11/26/manly-honor-part-v-honor-in-the-american-south/

so/sp 1