So/sp seems to want to "change the earth with the voice". [Again, earth = sp. Voice = air = soc.] And since sx is last, the interest is generally in pragmatic structural change. ...soc-firsts are often 'culture warriors', like Bill O'Reilly or Glenn Beck or Art Skidmore. The Apollonian light, in this case, has a desperation to it - emphasis on enlightenment.
Essena ONeill
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her video is down and the instagram link doesn't workOriginally Posted by Lim
thanks! found another source for the video, now it should work.her video is down and the instagram link doesn't work
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Esther Perel - The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
so/sp, LSI-Se, 3w4
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There's mischief in the eyes of peddlers
A love to dance in the hearts of meddlers
I'll trade steeds but never trade 'way my days
To be a working slave
A graceful road to a quiet grave
A merchant with a broomstick chasing my mother away
If I'm a goblin or a devil
Why do I send joy to the rabble?
Why do I fill your children's' hearts with hope?
You send them to dreamland
Armed with lies that I have no fortune grand
Name me a working man
But I am not a slave
No I am not a slave, no
You set traps for the vultures
When they come for the dead
Over the hills, under the earth
Goodnight, city
Fiddles lilting
'Round the licks, a victory dance
Eat and drink and sing my children
And here is wealth!
Bread for the bakers
And goods from the makers
There's shoes not fit for their princes
But fit for we
Kings and queens
Oh, if you could taste our dreams
They're breeding strangers, bitter settlers
And there's mischief in the eyes of meddlers
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
URTHBOY : Hellsong - so/sp (alpha)
Cosby Sweater song - so/sp (Alpha)
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"I Think I'm Emma Goldman" Sole w/ DJ Pain 1 Video by Submedia.tv
Passion SO/SP style.
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great example of an so/sp
"In theory there is no difference between theory and practice. In practice there is." - Yogi Berra
Just an impression. I ended up on this by following some random links. I am thinking of doing a mythology series on instincts so was looking around for examples. She vibes sx last regardless of her musical content. I think it is the contra-flow feel but not sx first.
Melora Creager is a cellist/singer/composer/performing, recording and graphic artist. Kansas born & raised, she moved to the East Coast in the 1980’s, where she attended Philadelphia College of Art & Parsons School of Design. Melora received classical music training as a child, but her performance career began with rock bands and East Village drag/ performance artists. Melora played cello for rock-band Nirvana on their final European tour in 1994. She founded the alternative/ historical cello ensemble Rasputina in 1991. The sound and visual concepts that began in Creager's Rasputina manifestos presaged and influenced movements and trends such as Steampunk, freak folk, corsetry, and crafting. In 19 recordings, and countless public performances, Creager has led a 20 year exploration in cello amplification, recording, and performance. A pioneer for cellists in popular music, Creager was the first to make the cello the main (even only) instrument in a rock group. Creager is also an originator in bringing marginalized historical women and situations to light in the pop-song form. Melora resides in NY and has two daughters.
“My typology is . . . not in any sense to stick labels on people at first sight. It is not a physiognomy and not an anthropological system, but a critical psychology dealing with the organization and delimitation of psychic processes that can be shown to be typical.” —C.G. Jung
ooh, that idea sounds really interesting ...
Ben Rector "Brand New"
Ed Sheran "Thinking Out Loud"
Lady Gaga - Bad Romance (such an sx-last song)
How is this song SX-last?Lady Gaga - Bad Romance (such an sx-last song
I cannot see any SX-last person wanting a "bad romance" just for the sake of having a romance at all.
This is rather a sign of unhealthy SX.
You know that I want you
And you know that I need you
I want it bad, bad romance
(...)
I want your psycho, your vertigo shtick
Want you in my rear window
Baby you're sick, I want your love
Love-love-love, I want your love (Love-love-love, I want your love)
You know that I want you
And you know that I need you
I want it bad, bad romance
(...)
I don't wanna be friends, I don't wanna be friends
I don't wanna be friends, I don't wanna be friends
Want your bad romance (caught in a bad romance) want your bad romance
(...)
I want your love and
I want your revenge
You and me could write a bad romance
All of this gives me much more the impression of SX/SO.
The song is essentially about a love-crazed (in my opinion, SX-first) person who is (literally) madly in love with someone who does not feel the same way.
Someone who has had a fling with them, and then stopped and said they'd rather be "just friends".
The obsessed SX/SO person cannot accept that, they are imagining their ex lover would be "sick" and stalk them, but in reality they are the stalker themselves.
The SX/SO would rather their ex lover would take revenge, than getting no passionate reaction out of them at all. (Because it seems like their passion is pretty cooled off when they can say "let's just be friends". Usually, an SX first person cannot be "just friends" with someone they have had strong feelings for. So obviously, this person never had strong feelings for them and/or is not SX first like them.)
Again, I cannot see at all that an SO/SP person would care that much. Sure, SO/SP can and does fall in love, but they would never obsess over a bad romance like that, simply because SX is not that high on their priority list.
SX-last totally lacks that kind of obsessive intensity of SX.
Both women are SX/SO.Esther Perel - The secret to desire in a long-term relationship
so/sp, LSI-Se, 3w4
(As a good rule of thumb, you can say most "sexologists" are SX/SO.
Really, why would an SO/SP person's profession all revolve around sexuality? Makes little sense.
They'd have to engage in their blindspot way too much.)
How do people confuse SX/SO for SO/SP? I suppose it is the shared contraflow and SO instinct...
Moulin Rouge is probably one of the most SX first movies ever.
How is SX-last passionate in an SX-first sense?
Mark Zuckerberg - so/sp 6w5
If you equate passion to SX ::: then every romantic movie ever made where actors express emotions above average would be SX-first.
This is obviously not the case. You'll find many people of Non-SX-first stacks relating to the intensity of feelings in the storyline of the movie or the book it was staged from.
Passion is experienced by all stacks >> but every stack experiences it differently.
I'm SP first and I could relate to what she's feeling in the movie when she was separated from the one she loves. I went through a similar ordeal myself when I was younger.
But your second instinct is SX – that makes quite a difference.
I'd type Satine as Sp/Sx in the movie, btw. (While Ewan plays a typical SX first Beta NF, most likely EIE.)
Sx first and second can experience passion in that manner. Sx blindspot... not really. Not saying they never experience love or stronger emotions, but it works differently for them.
It is rare to see an SX blindspot person expressing passion to the extent you could label it as "passion". They lack "juice". They usually have difficulties with sustaining passion in a relationship.
I am trying to think of romantic movies where one of the main characters is So/Sp... I actually cannot think of one at the top of my head, but I'd imagine if there is a romantic movie with an So/Sp love interest, they are most likely a guy who is occupied with work and too distant and busy at first before he realizes the woman and falls for her. The typical So/Sp guy in a semi-romantic movie works for the government, is a politician or engaged in the campaign of a political party.
I'd say it is safe to say that the majority of romantic movies feature main characters who are SX first, and/or one of them is Sp/Sx.
Usually, if an So/Sp person functions as a love interest in a movie, the movie is not predominately geared towards being a "love movie". It is more like the love story is on the side and not in the forefront.
so/sp dating
so/sp
Jimmy Fallon with an sp/sx
This guy
So/Sp 5w4.. they are the ultimate weirdos
so/sp - Sia 'California Dreamin'
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