I found out how my Fi wotks through a conflict at a job with an SEE. So....an SEE started off by reporting a lie about me. I got wind of the lie, created relational and emotional distance as to hold up professional and also personal boundaries. She watches me have fun and interact with my friends at work as I normally do, gets jealous and wants to improve relationship with me which I refuse to give into given our past circumstance. So my fi is way better than hers because I don't try to strategically corner and cause further blame and find fault with the person when I'm trying to improve our relationship...unless I'm trying not to improve it in which case I will hold my ground. Of course in this case I have no trust so I will hold my ground but how I discovered that I'm sooo Fi is that I would not act like her. I would forge bonds of trust and security by going the extra mile to prove my loyalty and love and thus hope and try to regain my friendship. Of course i would have no reason to lie to protect my ass if a friend where involved which she would. Meanwhile if an LSE were involved she would be sensitive yo "team" "togetherness" "cohesian" as long as all this was strategically protecting her from also getting in trouble or sticking out in any noticable way. She would still like to be in authority and in a position of independence in doing her work and always notices her place and position as in who supervises her and who she is being supervised by. In noting her position she will find a way to do thw thinga she wants to her benefit while being complimented in asking for a "team" as to look like she values relations.