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    Default Farewell Delta

    It's been a wonderful 4.5 years dwelling among you lovely people, as a little bit of an ugly duckling (perhaps). Recently, a strong case was made in favor of me being ILE (not IEE), and upon further study of the ILE descriptions and consideration of those arguments, I have to say I agree.

    You all had taken me in with open arms and warm welcome (even Maritsa who in spite of her insistence at an SEE type for me, accepted me in Delta anyway); I appreciate that and will always remember your inclusiveness, affability, and good company. I bid you farewell, but this is not forever -- with my new identity upon me, I will still hold you close to my heart and visit often.
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    Does this mean that you'll start being more terse finally?

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    Quote Originally Posted by mercutio View Post
    Does this mean that you'll start being more terse finally?
    since when are ILEs terse?
    i'll continue speaking my mind when and how i want to.

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    If you're moving, why have you got your types with x's in them? Still unsure?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Narc View Post
    If you're moving, why have you got your types with x's in them? Still unsure?
    I'm about 80% sure, just havent had a chance to fix my profile yet...i'm on the road this wk

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    aw this thread was kind of cute. I think SEIs will be much gentler on you than SLIs.

    that being said the cliche disclaimer ~~don't let a type description guide your behavior. you are who ya are and this stuff is just supposed to help describe you bit better.

    what do you think your etype is?
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    Quote Originally Posted by blackburry View Post
    aw this thread was kind of cute. I think SEIs will be much gentler on you than SLIs.

    that being said the cliche disclaimer ~~don't let a type description guide your behavior. you are who ya are and this stuff is just supposed to help describe you bit better.

    what do you think your etype is?
    blackburry i 100% agree with you, which is why i thought mercs comment was kind of ridiculous. I actually am not sure what my etype is...any thoughts?
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    Quote Originally Posted by blackburry View Post
    I think SEIs will be much gentler on you than SLIs.
    Yeah, leave the SLIs to me. Thanks.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mikemex View Post
    Yeah, leave the SLIs to me. Thanks.
    i think its hilarious how some ppl just assume I'm a guy.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    i think its hilarious how some ppl just assume I'm a guy.
    It's funny how you yourself seem to assume A) heterosexuality B) that mikemex was talking about sexual/romantic relationships.
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    Awww...you are loved anyway
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    I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE

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    Adieu.





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    OK so can we date or what?

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    Always got 6w7 vibes from you myself, WA. What do you think?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Roro View Post
    Always got 6w7 vibes from you myself, WA. What do you think?
    I dont disagree, but I dont know much at all about enneagram.
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    Can't say how many of your post I have read, but I can say that found them all Fi/Te kind of subjectively unengaging.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Esaman View Post
    Can't say how many of your post I have read, but I can say that found them all Fi/Te kind of subjectively unengaging.
    Sorry that i've failed to entertain you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    Sorry that i've failed to entertain you.

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    Interesting, I fully support deciding on your type for yourself, but I can't help to say you really don't seem ILE to me in anything you write. You've always striked me as Fi ego and delta, but what do I know. Have fun in alpha though

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    bye WA

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    Actually, maybe I'm ILE too.

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    It's alright, Ti types don't have to explain their reasoning, they're just always right.

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    Fi-IEE >> any Ti-type
    Quote Originally Posted by 1981slater View Post
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    Last edited by Skepsis; 09-05-2015 at 04:06 AM.
    Important to note! People who share "indentical" socionics TIMs won't necessarily appear to be very similar, since they have have different backgrounds, experiences, capabilities, genetics, as well as different types in other typological systems (enneagram, instinctual variants, etc.) all of which also have a sway on compatibility and identification. Thus, Socionics type "identicals" won't necessarily be identical i.e. highly similar to each other, and not all people of "dual" types will seem interesting, attractive and appealing to each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jimmers View Post
    So if you're leaving delta, then there is definitely an opening. Who do I submit my application to?
    William is keeping my Delta seat warm for now, but there would be an opening for you regardless of my "status". can always find another chair and open up the circle.
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    Last edited by Skepsis; 09-05-2015 at 04:06 AM.
    Important to note! People who share "indentical" socionics TIMs won't necessarily appear to be very similar, since they have have different backgrounds, experiences, capabilities, genetics, as well as different types in other typological systems (enneagram, instinctual variants, etc.) all of which also have a sway on compatibility and identification. Thus, Socionics type "identicals" won't necessarily be identical i.e. highly similar to each other, and not all people of "dual" types will seem interesting, attractive and appealing to each other.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jimmers View Post
    Oh, I carry my own lawn chair with me in a carrying case wherever I go, slung over my shoulder, just in case I tire and need to sit down somewhere or find a circle without enough chairs
    Perfect!
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    Quote Originally Posted by WorkaholicsAnon View Post
    William is keeping my Delta seat warm for now, but there would be an opening for you regardless of my "status". can always find another chair and open up the circle.
    Filthy ILE! Keep your democratic bullshit out of Delta!! Obviously to get a seat at the great round table of Deltaism one needs two members to reccomend you to the circle. Than we all look at pictures of the applicant and vote based on wealth, power and physical attractiveness. After that the applicant has to hand in an essay on the Moral state of the world OR the finances of a third world country. Finally he needs to create an IKEA furniture adequately and within a pre-set time-limit to prove his handiness. Only after that can we, aristrocratically right rules or this world, truely accept the applicant as a member!!!

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    Important to note! People who share "indentical" socionics TIMs won't necessarily appear to be very similar, since they have have different backgrounds, experiences, capabilities, genetics, as well as different types in other typological systems (enneagram, instinctual variants, etc.) all of which also have a sway on compatibility and identification. Thus, Socionics type "identicals" won't necessarily be identical i.e. highly similar to each other, and not all people of "dual" types will seem interesting, attractive and appealing to each other.

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    ^ my mom and I look just like that!

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    I'm just curious, going from the description of point, and the response of WorkaholicsAnon, how one would compare the Fe hidden-agenda to the Fi one and same for the polr.

    Regarding existing discussion, I think one way to phrase point's way of viewing Fi-polr is to say that Fi operates defensively (due to unvalued, superego, stresspoint), and from personal experience (dimensionality). If one experiences a certain kind of interaction as resembling one sending negative triggers, then you keep distance (note that I'm not a fan of saying someone must keep their distance a specific way - it could be either a move away peacefully thing or it could be creating distance through an outburst, or any other such thing I imagine; I don't think it clear to build a persona around a type more than as an illustration). You don't hold to any larger normalizing body of Fi-ethics, which says that in certain general circumstances, certain parameters apply (situational would go straight to the particular circumstance and adapt to it).

    It would seem that to make an ethical appeal to the polr Fi person, you'd do better to make it through Fe in some shape. Fe is object-oriented, so you'll need to connect more directly to the object's emotional state's progression, meaning tune into the object's affectedness by events in time directly to make any kind of case to them. I think here lies the difference with Fi: all this progression is viewed as noise as compared with the static relations between the "you" mentioned here and the object.

    In any ethical situation, e.g. one where two persons experience a flow of hostility from one side to the other, you can either focus on the flow itself and the object of affectedness, and interact with this time-process directly or you can hit what is ultimately not directly visible, which is the static relation between the two. Basically the ILE is less well-reasoned about the latter than the former.
    I guess in one sense you can say Fi judges not the objective relatedness, but the archetypal ethical relatedness.

    So I'd say both of the ethical hidden agendas are such that the person is reasonably ethically aware, but prefer to express the awareness a particular way. Fi HA doesn't want to deal with how the object is affected in objective interaction, instead being lazy about this and content knowing the archetype of the relation, which can only be subjectively known. Well, both require one to be subjective in one sense, as ethical functions do begin with a subject, but the contents they move towards describing can either be objective states (I relate, humanely, to how this person is feeling, and can affect its progression), or subjective lines of relation.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chemical View Post
    I'm just curious, going from the description of point, and the response of WorkaholicsAnon, how one would compare the Fe hidden-agenda to the Fi one and same for the polr.
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    Don't think anyone suggested Fi HA for WorkaholicsAnon.

    Quote Originally Posted by chemical View Post
    I guess in one sense you can say Fi judges not the objective relatedness, but the archetypal ethical relatedness.
    I think strong Fi does both.
    Otherwise looks good to me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by chemical View Post
    I'm just curious, going from the description of point, and the response of WorkaholicsAnon, how one would compare the Fe hidden-agenda to the Fi one and same for the polr.

    Regarding existing discussion, I think one way to phrase point's way of viewing Fi-polr is to say that Fi operates defensively (due to unvalued, superego, stresspoint), and from personal experience (dimensionality). If one experiences a certain kind of interaction as resembling one sending negative triggers, then you keep distance (note that I'm not a fan of saying someone must keep their distance a specific way - it could be either a move away peacefully thing or it could be creating distance through an outburst, or any other such thing I imagine; I don't think it clear to build a persona around a type more than as an illustration). You don't hold to any larger normalizing body of Fi-ethics, which says that in certain general circumstances, certain parameters apply (situational would go straight to the particular circumstance and adapt to it).

    It would seem that to make an ethical appeal to the polr Fi person, you'd do better to make it through Fe in some shape. Fe is object-oriented, so you'll need to connect more directly to the object's emotional state's progression, meaning tune into the object's affectedness by events in time directly to make any kind of case to them. I think here lies the difference with Fi: all this progression is viewed as noise as compared with the static relations between the "you" mentioned here and the object.

    In any ethical situation, e.g. one where two persons experience a flow of hostility from one side to the other, you can either focus on the flow itself and the object of affectedness, and interact with this time-process directly or you can hit what is ultimately not directly visible, which is the static relation between the two. Basically the ILE is less well-reasoned about the latter than the former.
    I guess in one sense you can say Fi judges not the objective relatedness, but the archetypal ethical relatedness.

    So I'd say both of the ethical hidden agendas are such that the person is reasonably ethically aware, but prefer to express the awareness a particular way. Fi HA doesn't want to deal with how the object is affected in objective interaction, instead being lazy about this and content knowing the archetype of the relation, which can only be subjectively known. Well, both require one to be subjective in one sense, as ethical functions do begin with a subject, but the contents they move towards describing can either be objective states (I relate, humanely, to how this person is feeling, and can affect its progression), or subjective lines of relation.
    Mobilizing functions can be receptive to attitudes positive and negative, as an inert, situational and bold function. As a super-id function this is primarily something we receive and not something we consciously output. However as a bold and inert, situational and bold function we tend to be a bit less discerning about it and more careful about receiving it and also less verbal about specifying how we want it. People with mobilizing I've found can be negatively attached to things, even if it's a hostile relation while mobilizing might enjoy being seen in a negative manner, playing a "bad" boy/girl.

    That desire for relations(any relations, bad or good) and that desire for attention(bad or good) is often visible in the representative types. (ILI/SLI) and (ILE/SLE)

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    Quote Originally Posted by chemical View Post
    I guess in one sense you can say Fi judges not the objective relatedness, but the archetypal ethical relatedness.
    Do you mean like a sort of timeless, ideal relatedness, like, "this is how things should be"? I hope I'm understanding you correctly, because I think you might be onto something here.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Esaman
    Don't think anyone suggested Fi HA for WorkaholicsAnon.
    I don't think I meant to suggest anyone suggested it. My point was mainly exploratory.

    I think strong Fi does both.
    At the very least, definitely someone with strong Fi, I'd expect to be able to do both.

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    Quote Originally Posted by point
    I've found can be negatively attached to things,
    Perhaps just a little clarification, what is negatively attached?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chemical View Post
    Perhaps just a little clarification, what is negatively attached?
    Hate?

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    Quote Originally Posted by point
    Hate?
    OK fair enough. Basically, a negative relational status. How about the playing bad boy/girl thing with HA Fe? how does it work?

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    Quote Originally Posted by chemical View Post
    OK fair enough. Basically, a negative relational status. How about the playing bad boy/girl thing with HA Fe? how does it work?




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