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    Since I'm bored, I wrote down this.

    ENTp

    You'll probably meet him at class. He comes in two version: one looks like the Niels Bohr pic you can find at the end of this topic. He's the intuitive subtype. The other one looks like a dreamier, more abstract-oriented, possibly smarter but less attentive to his apperance version of you. Logical subtype. Duchovny pic.

    Let's first talk about the N. You and him probably agree on everything in principle. He'll argue with you just for fun. Making up points that are absolutely unrealistic. He doesn't really belive in them though, so no problem. He'll think that you take arguments way too seriusly, you'll think that he just doesn't get done anything in life. Both of you will know that it's better not to press Fi points. If there are feeling types in the nearbies, you can be useful to both of you by repelling every emotionally-related question with a Se attack. He can also be pretty sociable, but too passive and friendly for your own taste.

    Bottom line: this guy is of no use for you, except for wasting time arguing and telling him how to get girls.

    Now the L subtype. He's really useful in the classroom. He can give in-depth explanation that are easy for you to understand. You'll think that his life revolves around giving those speeches: not far from the truth. He can make a good friend of yours but you won't keep up with his abstract crap, and he won't keep up with your phyisical one. Debates with him can go on for hours, but they're fun. Supposing an equal level of intelligence, both of you are going to have similar levels of wit.

    Bottom line: listen to his explanations, assimilate and incorporate the info into your system, and move on with life. Maybe a debate or two for fun, but keep in mind that winning is hard.

    Both of them aren't dangerous at all, but they're not particularly funny either, so it's up to you to decide whether to befriend them. Likely end: you'll forget about him as soon as he gets out of sight.

    Pics.

    N subtype:



    L subtype:
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    ESTp

    Two versions for this kind too: one will constantly touch his balls and yell, another one will stare with an aquiline gaze at everything, silently, and with a certain force field around him. If you're on this site, it's likely that you're of the second kind, but who knows. Wash your hands sometimes if you pertain to the former cathegory.

    With the first one, the strategy is to strike first. Since the encounter will likely be at a sporting event, do not let him get ahead of you in the game and declare yourself winner in the fewest feasible moves. This version has also a pretty lame , so he's likely to fake a lot of crap in order to win. Point out everything to the refree to lower his support. He's also really really critical of everything and an unhappy guy, many times. Probably popular, but you'll see that most people are just scared of him.

    Bottom line: Useless jock, get rid of his presence. You won't hear about him after 20 years of age: either he's started working at some crappy low-level firm, or he's become a criminal (in prison).

    The second one is your friend. You will understand each other immediatly and likely help each other, whether it's school-related matters, or sports-related. Surely, there is going to be some competition, and probably a lot of arguments, especially when both of you are in the same group. However, since you know each other's motives, weak points etc none of the two will prevail, and when you associate with him one-on-one everything will fit toghether.

    Bottom line: the friendship can be pretty strong, especially if the contact is somewhat sporadic, but not too much. Since both of you know each other goals, fights for long-term agreements are unlikely.

    As for the pics;

    S subtype:



    (WARNING: PAY EXTREME ATTENTION TO THIS SMILE, INDICATES HORRIBLE LIES AND MANIPULATION)

    L subtype

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
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    Thats pretty funny
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    Quote Originally Posted by oyburger
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    (WARNING: PAY EXTREME ATTENTION TO THIS SMILE, INDICATES HORRIBLE LIES AND MANIPULATION)
    Thats pretty funny
    The depletion of your bank account following that smile ain't going to!!

    Anyway

    ISFj

    If she's a relative, you're going to cringe every time she opens her mouth trying to control your cousin/mother/whatever. If she's a girl of the same age, you'll want to hit on her. If she's a professor, you'll probably think that she's okay, even if a bit too strict.

    First of all, let's analyze the girl of your age. A strange imperturbability is her paramount charateristic, united to hotness. You aren't going to make her laugh, just embarass her. You aren't going to make her interested in anything you do: just confuse her. You aren't going to get anything good from the relationship, except possibly affection and nice sex, but at the price of constantly suppressing your personality.
    It's likely that on the first dates/when you're giving her the first bits of attention, you'll seem to hit off pretty fast. However, you'll soon manage to make her flare up offended. Well, you know what? This is what expect you for the whole relationship, if both parties do not suppress their personalities. You dress sloppily. You don't work enough. You don't have enough money. You're fat. You're messy. You can't do anything. You're loud. You're rude. Repeat *100000.

    Bottom line: Be honest with yourself and just don't try to hit on them. I'm sure you are able to clearly recognize the type of girl I'm talking about.

    Now, the relative. Well, here you'd just better shut up. It's pretty impossible to be tactful: she'll perceive your natural tone of voice as disrepectful. Only if you're in an EXTREMELY happy mood, or EXTREMELY ill, you'll manage not to irritate her. Of course, this won't stop you from wanting to always have the last word. Drama assured.
    However, if you control a bit your personality, the relationship can be okay, even if still on grounds that are more formal than familiar. The only function you can use without problems is , around them. Sounds boring? It is.
    An especially sensitive spot that you have to control, is when you are recipient of criticism. Which, with an ISFj, is always. Try not to get depressed: your skills are all there, but she prefers to emphasize the negative parts. It's not personal.

    Bottom line: Spend a lot of time out of home.

    Third, and last, the prof. You desperately want to show her that you can do things. She, however, adopts the same methods of emphasizing the negative side of things. Just do strictly what is required without trying to impress her with or skills, rest assured the start of an argument which is going to end with her imposing her authority on you. Since she's above anyway, you can't really do anything.

    Bottom line: Avoid confrontation, do the homework, get a good grade (they're objective, still).
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    ISTp

    You might meet this guy at your job, at the store, or at the gym. He comes in several types: one appears very reserved, while the other is more outgoing and practical.

    The first version is the S version. He might seem like a quieter, more intense version of you at first, but don't be fooled. You two have entirely different modes of living. Try to befriend him, or get a reaction out of him, and your attempts will be fruitless. He almost seems to ignore you, although indirectly. This will possibly make you weary of yourself and his intentions. The bottom line is that he might not think you're a bad guy and vice versa, but trying to be good friends will only be a waste of time on your part. You won't get anywhere.

    The L subtypes are a bit easier to talk to, but still won't provide you with what you need. You will probably agree with his viewpoints, as he will seem like a realistic, level-headed person. However, you both arrive at your conclusions from entirely different points of view, so working together might prove to be a challenge. At school or at your job, he'll probably be the guy who sits at your table, but your interactions don't go much deeper than that.

    Both of them might be intelligent, good natured guys, however, in the long run, they don't provide much use for you. No matter how good-looking both of you are, or how much you try to talk to them, you really won't get much out of this one.


    How's my short version? I might add a little more later.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Quote Originally Posted by oyburger
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    (WARNING: PAY EXTREME ATTENTION TO THIS SMILE, INDICATES HORRIBLE LIES AND MANIPULATION)
    Thats pretty funny
    The depletion of your bank account following that smile ain't going to!!
    Its funny because its true.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    ESTp

    Two versions for this kind too: one will constantly touch his balls and yell, (...)
    Haha, that sounds exactly like this kid who was in my gym class last year. I've seen him do both of those pretty much constantly.


    He was actually quite nice to me, but not to the other girls in the class, hmmm. But he's so damn stupid. He's a year older than me, but I'm three years ahead of him in math, and two years ahead in Spanish. What you said about the crappy job will definately ring true here.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    How's my short version? I might add a little more later.
    I absolutely agree with everything! I'd add that with the ISTp sometimes he'll make hurtuful lacking-Fe comment when you try to show off an ability, and you'll make lacking-Fi comments on his lack of emotionality and/or problems socialzing/crap like that.

    What you said about the crappy job will definately ring true here.
    Since I'm 20, I can testify with my eyes that they end up like that!

    Its funny because its true.
    Did you catch your husband doing it?
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Did you catch your husband doing it?
    Only to other people. He wouldn't dare do it to me; I can see straight through his crap
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    Lol. This thread scares me ESTps without the fake are less funny My friend has that smile btw I think I've never personally known an ESTp guy of the logical subtype. The subtype guy becomes pretty wild after having some alcohol. Not aggressive or violent really just sort of...out of control I could post pics...but I think he would be pissed at me

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    Quote Originally Posted by XoX
    My friend has that smile btw
    I guess I have, too, that's why I realize how dangerous it is?
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    fdg- major dude at work
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    ESFj


    There are two types of ESFjs that you might see around: the F version, who seems talkative, hyper-emotional, and popular, and the S subtype, who is more subdued, yet still focuses on the same points. You will probably experience the same situations with both of them. You'll probably meet him or her at school, work, at a party, or when you're shopping for a pair of jeans.

    At first, you might be drawn to him, because he appears to have something that you lack: an almost constant cheery disposition, and the ability to maneuver around social scenarios with style and ease, something that you think will be of good use to you. Thus, you'll probably try to initiate some sort of contact with them. When the ESFj accepts your offer, you'll be relatively pleased. However, after talking to them for a while, you'll soon realize that they try to "convert" you to their ways, which seem unnatural and irritating to you. What seemed attractive in them beforehand has now turned into a pesky annoyance which you no longer wish to be associated with.

    When you try to get rid of them so you can move on to more interesting people, they suddenly cling to you, treating you as if your every word holds significant importance. They'll listen to everything you say, absorbing all this "useful information" that you seem to be giving off. Now, they're getting the benefit, and you're getting zilch. This is the exact opposite of what you had planned to happen. What's up with this guy?!

    When they're not trying to get you to do things their way, you'll probably find what they're saying to be a bit boring. You won't really take much regard for their opinions, as they will go completely against your normal mode of living ( ). Try to shake them off your back? Scratch that. They'll likely reply with a comment about your lack of friendliness, common manners, or sociability. Remember, they can see your weakness easily. Don't let this get to you.

    After being apart for a while, you'll forget about their annoyances temporarily. You might see them in school or at the office, and initiate contact again, hoping to actually get something out of it. Yet again, you were mistaken. The cycle repeats.

    If you have a boss or a professor who happens to be ESFj, prepare to have power struggles regarding seemingly simple things. If they are in a position of authority over you, you'll probably feel pretty resentful towards them, feeling as if they're imposing things on you that they have no right to go near. Once they're out of this position over you, things will return to normal, and the resentment will go away.

    In short, opting for a long-term relationship with the ESFj will only cause problems. Instead, if you must, keep the interactions short, sweet, and to the point. Try not to get wrapped up in lengthy discussions, because once you're in them, you won't get out, no matter how hard you try.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Quote Originally Posted by XoX
    My friend has that smile btw
    I guess I have, too, that's why I realize how dangerous it is?
    Its a smile common to the Irish side of my husband's family (All ESTps) and I just thought it was genetics at play.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Quote Originally Posted by XoX
    My friend has that smile btw
    I guess I have, too, that's why I realize how dangerous it is?
    I have that smile too, but mostly when I'm fake-smiling. When it's a real smile, my eyes scrunch up more, and it looks less sneaky.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    ISTp

    You might meet this guy at your job, at the store, or at the gym. He comes in several types: one appears very reserved, while the other is more outgoing and practical.

    The first version is the S version. He might seem like a quieter, more intense version of you at first, but don't be fooled. You two have entirely different modes of living. Try to befriend him, or get a reaction out of him, and your attempts will be fruitless. He almost seems to ignore you, although indirectly. This will possibly make you weary of yourself and his intentions. The bottom line is that he might not think you're a bad guy and vice versa, but trying to be good friends will only be a waste of time on your part. You won't get anywhere.

    The L subtypes are a bit easier to talk to, but still won't provide you with what you need. You will probably agree with his viewpoints, as he will seem like a realistic, level-headed person. However, you both arrive at your conclusions from entirely different points of view, so working together might prove to be a challenge. At school or at your job, he'll probably be the guy who sits at your table, but your interactions don't go much deeper than that.

    Both of them might be intelligent, good natured guys, however, in the long run, they don't provide much use for you. No matter how good-looking both of you are, or how much you try to talk to them, you really won't get much out of this one.
    Oh?
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    These have just been from the ones I've known IRL. Including this one hot guy who happens to be ISTp, who I've known since Kindergarten.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    I have that smile too, but mostly when I'm fake-smiling. When it's a real smile, my eyes scrunch up more, and it looks less sneaky.
    Everyone knows Herzy's an ISFP anyway.
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    Why did this thread turn into a mudfight? Or is this just an athmosphere of vigorous debate and healthy disagreement and I'm too Delta to notice? Or is my original hypothesis correct and everybody has suddenly gone fruitcake? Every single herrschaftsdonnerwetterscheissverdammter thread I look into - people clobber each other over the head. Ordinary mild-mannered forum members before I went on holiday, and now - a bunch of scheissverdammte Neanderthals having a pillowfight. Or does this thread simply need some positive feng shui?


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    schrödinger's cat: sent you a PM.
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    So, what about some more type descriptions? This thread is too young to die such a death.

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    Quote Originally Posted by schrödinger's cat
    So, what about some more type descriptions? This thread is too young to die such a death.
    Ahh yes, the topic. The discussions of logic, fallacy and language should be moved elsewhere. I, too, am curious to see how ESTp's view other types.
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    I have removed all the thrash from this thread -- perhaps it can now go back to being interesting.
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    gah you're like the shittiest ENTj ever!

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    Quote Originally Posted by schrödinger's cat
    Every single herrschaftsdonnerwetterscheissverdammter thread I look into - people clobber each other over the head. Ordinary mild-mannered forum members before I went on holiday, and now - a bunch of scheissverdammte Neanderthals having a pillowfight.
    See, this is what happens when you try to leave us alone.
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    Thank you Expat.

    I find the ESTp smile interesting. Here's one, its the gentelman on the right (sorry for the big, fuzzy picture). You can just tell that he's up to something :wink:



    Does anyone have any guesses about the woman?
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    Not sure about the woman, but the guy (and his smile) looks a whole lot like the school picture of the ESTp in my gym class .
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    God yeah, the guy looks like an ESTp I know too. That smile is not as sneaky as the other one though

    Now ENFp. I don't know how good it is because I've interacted only with healthy ones so maybe it's going to sound overtly positive, but hey.


    There aren't distinctive physical features good for identifying this type. However, the chracterial quirks are easily distinguishable: verbal fluency, flair in interacting with the opposite sex, a certain similarity with you in his/her disdainful attitude (though, he/she can mask it better than you) towards society. If he's a male, he's likely to sound a bit gay, but the trait is really integrated in his overall style, so it kinda looks okay.

    There aren't obstacles in this relationship. Most likely, you'll both enjoy the friendship: you'll provide him/her your and he/she will provide the creative which kinda looks like and is a lot of fun. Arguments are never real arguments: both of you don't take life seriously enough to really fight. Maybe you'll think that he/she needs more sun and a better workout schedule, and he/she will think that you need to moderate your voice, be less bossy, and not contest every damn thing existing, but hey, none of the two will declare this in the open. You'll also think that he's too damn into rock stars and all those things that you don't really give a shit about: just tell him that they suck, a nice and fun debate might come out of it.

    If both of you pertain the same sex, you might envy a bit the easiness in interacting with the opposite floor (yeah, I'm too used to russian descriptions). Truth is, he envies you for your ability to persinstenly arrive at the end results instead of wasting time with courtship. So no big deal here too.

    Pay attention he/she might get jealous of a friend. It's not a charateristc that pertains to every ENFp, but nonetheless there are some. Especially if the friend is INFp and you end up naturally substituting him/her.

    Don't even try to start a project with them. You'll think everything they want to do is useless and rendundant, and they'll think everything you want to do is too dense, heavy and controversial.

    Strangely enough, I've never experienced a direct PoLR hit from them. If you have, add.

    Bottom line: a very good friendship can come out from this. Interaction is easy and fun, except for the boredom you'll experience at Delta parties. But both of you know how to liven up the atmoshpere. Just avoid too many really heavy sexual jokes, unless your objective is to attract the INFp. Oh, I forgot, they also usually have an INFp friend...shall I had anything?
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    Haha

    Made me laugh. Doesn't quite ring true for my interactions with an ESTp though. As an ESTp you seem to be refering to the E(N)Fp subtype. To be honest i think this subtype gets on better with ESTp's than my subtype.

    The ESTp i know at work is calm and composed. He is the coolest guy and has a lot of respect from everyone. He isn't excessive with his power but people just wouldn't challenge him. When he and i look at each other even though we both like each other we feel a strange tension. The super-ego relation fits perfectly. I definately do not want to show him my weak side and i enjoy his confidence. I have to show him a degree of power. We both have respect for each other but a close relationship couldn't happen. I think to much for him he needs more spontaneous fun i think.
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    Quote Originally Posted by meatburger
    Haha

    Made me laugh. Doesn't quite ring true for my interactions with an ESTp though. As an ESTp you seem to be refering to the E(N)Fp subtype. To be honest i think this subtype gets on better with ESTp's than my subtype.
    Yeah, the male I know is E(N)Fp, almost ENTp; the girl not sure. Reembemer I'm also pretty (T) subtype, the (S) really comes out when I'm "in action".

    The ESTp i know at work is calm and composed. He is the coolest guy and has a lot of respect from everyone. He isn't excessive with his power but people just wouldn't challenge him. When he and i look at each other even though we both like each other we feel a strange tension.
    This doesn't really exclude what I stated. Actually, the thing is that for me there is a big disconnect between online and IRL with ENFps. Online we get along very well, IRL there's exactly the problem you explain here.

    The super-ego relation fits perfectly. I definately do not want to show him my weak side and i enjoy his confidence. I have to show him a degree of power. We both have respect for each other but a close relationship couldn't happen. I think to much for him he needs more spontaneous fun i think.
    The thing is, super-ego is defined as a relationship of close psychological distance. Anyway yeah I've probably had luck, because I also have an ENFp girl acquaintance with whom I can't get along - I think she's an illogical psychological wreck she thinks I'm an unemotional loner.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    There aren't obstacles in this relationship. Most likely, you'll both enjoy the friendship: you'll provide him/her your
    At the risk of sounding socionics-anal, is the ENFp's PoLR. This would work if you use it only to "confirm" the ENFp's own logic or if you actually provide .

    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    and he/she will provide the creative which kinda looks like and is a lot of fun.
    That makes sense. I also often think that irrational is mistaken for .


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    Oh, I forgot, they also usually have an INFp friend...shall I had anything?
    Not sure about the "usually". I don't know that many INFps and ENFps to know whether such friendships are usual, but in principle contraries should not work very well.

    However - -

    I have observed that NF types tend to group together due to common interests (rock stars, religion, etc) despite the different quadras and temperaments, and especially two irrational NF types would be likely to hang around together despite a lack of deeper understanding.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    There aren't obstacles in this relationship. Most likely, you'll both enjoy the friendship: you'll provide him/her your
    At the risk of sounding socionics-anal, is the ENFp's PoLR. This would work if you use it only to "confirm" the ENFp's own logic or if you actually provide .
    Ah, allright, true. I mean in things like "explaning maths" etc


    Not sure about the "usually". I don't know that many INFps and ENFps to know whether such friendships are usual, but in principle contraries should not work very well.
    Well I speak only from my experience of course maybe just around here!

    I have observed that NF types tend to group together due to common interests (rock stars, religion, etc) despite the different quadras and temperaments, and especially two irrational NF types would be likely to hang around together despite a lack of deeper understanding.
    Yep, that's what I observed. When you dig deeper they have different ideas of reference etc, but they get along well day-to-day.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    Ah, allright, true. I mean in things like "explaning maths" etc
    .
    Ah, ok. That is the same as my asking types to help me choose a suit and a tie (ugh) for a formal occasion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
    Not sure about the "usually". I don't know that many INFps and ENFps to know whether such friendships are usual, but in principle contraries should not work very well.
    Actually, that is very true from my experience. Every confirmed INFp I've met has a one-on-one ENFp friend. Never two, three or more, just this one ENFp.

    However - -

    I have observed that NF types tend to group together due to common interests (rock stars, religion, etc) despite the different quadras and temperaments, and especially two irrational NF types would be likely to hang around together despite a lack of deeper understanding.
    Actually, "the lack of deeper understanding" is what makes the other person interesting. They are like a door to another world. Nobody can bring you that except them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    flair in interacting with the opposite sex,
    Ahaha that reminds me of this one ENFp guy that kept flirting with me when I was on pool duty at my job. He was pretty good looking, though.

    On the last day, I got really sick, and I felt like my head was about to implode at any second. So on the last day of the year at the job, all of the staff members get roses. I was trying to put on sunscreen so I wouldn't feel any worse, so I bit the stem of the flower (so I didn't have to hold it), and was spraying on the stuff. When I'm done and I put it down, I could see the ENFp guy walking up in the distance. I was like, "Oh shit!" So he made his flower into this ring thingy, and he sees that I have one too, and so he walks up. Meanwhile, I'm still feeling extremely sick, and the ENFp is there throwing out all sorts of and I was thinking, "???" I sort of went with it, and at the end, we did that thing that all super-heros do with the rings (you know how they put them together, and it's all ZOMG POWER?).

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    [quote="Herzy"]
    Quote Originally Posted by FDG
    flair in interacting with the opposite sex,
    On the last day, I got really sick, and I felt like my head was about to implode at any second. So on the last day of the year at the job, all of the staff members get roses. I was trying to put on sunscreen so I wouldn't feel any worse, so I bit the stem of the flower (so I didn't have to hold it), and was spraying on the stuff.
    I think he thought the fact you were biting the flower was actually a signal of sexual allowance

    When I'm done and I put it down, I could see the ENFp guy walking up in the distance. I was like, "Oh shit!" So he made his flower into this ring thingy, and he sees that I have one too, and so he walks up. Meanwhile, I'm still feeling extremely sick, and the ENFp is there throwing out all sorts of and I was thinking, "???"
    Ahahaa, I know the feeling yeah, I have sometimes to be more friendly and not zero on them with an one-liner

    I sort of went with it, and at the end, we did that thing that all super-heros do with the rings (you know how they put them together, and it's all ZOMG POWER?).
    Weeell one day I was in the city centre shopping alone. While walking I see from afar this guy with a flower on his head, it was the ENFp walking alone and having fun being silly . So I put the flower too (near the ear) and we started walking in the middle of the road holding hands (he's a male too ) and blowing kisses to other men passing

    I'm not sure what the point of my story was, but I just felt like writing it anyways.
    Np, this reminds me

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    - delightful pussies
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    - entertaining pussies
    - enemies
    - tight-ass pussies
    - bitchy pussies
    - mix of pussies and bitches from hell
    - lazy pussies
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    - smart pussies
    - pussies
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