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    I was wondering if anyone thinks you delta STs are happy people? I got told that I always look happy and optimistic.

    Might simply be not type related...

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    SlI??? *dies*

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    Quote Originally Posted by HandiAce View Post
    I got told that I always look happy and optimistic.
    The opposite is true for me.
    „Man can do what he wants but he cannot want what he wants.“
    – Arthur Schopenhauer

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    HA aren't you a delta nf sprite n stuffz?
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    Handi, you are like a chameleon IEI>IEE>SLI??

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    Quote Originally Posted by HandiAce View Post
    I was wondering if anyone thinks you delta STs are happy people? I got told that I always look happy and optimistic.

    Might simply be not type related...
    are you one of the positive outlook types in the enneagram?

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    I've had three customers recently ask me why I don't smile. Which is ironic because they hardly smile either. Idiots.

    If I want to smile at you I will. Get over yourself.





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    slis smile with their benevolent eyes.u just gotta see.
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    Quote Originally Posted by StridingStrider View Post
    I've had three customers recently ask me why I don't smile. Which is ironic because they hardly smile either. Idiots.

    If I want to smile at you I will. Get over yourself.
    Assholes!

    You keep on not smiling (or just doing whatever the fuck you want) and don't worry about what people think/say.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HandiAce View Post
    I was wondering if anyone thinks you delta STs are happy people? I got told that I always look happy and optimistic.

    Might simply be not type related...
    You'd be the first SLI I've known about to describe himself in this way.

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    SLIs are often emo as fuck.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirena View Post
    Assholes!

    You keep on not smiling (or just doing whatever the fuck you want) and don't worry about what people think/say.
    Introverts care about ehat people they care about think

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    Quote Originally Posted by Maritsa View Post
    Introverts care about ehat people they care about think
    I assume he doesn't "care" about some random customer.

    And why is caring about what someone you care about thinks, an introvert thing? That sounds like such a blanket statement.

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    This raises a good point. Is there is a function that dictates a tendency towards optimism and the appearance of being a happy person?

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    extroverts appear to be more happy-go-lucky than introverts

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    The last couple of opinions I have gathered have been that I come off as, "solid and intimidating". Not going to lie, I actually really like coming off that way, considering my not wanting to gather new friends. Even though I come off this way on the outside, I'm actually observing everything around me on the inside. Observing my surroundings makes me very happy. Nevertheless, when these people have noticed this "solid and intimidating" manner and are wanting to interact with me, they see that I am anything BUT intimidating. I only maintain the solid stance with those people if I generally am not wanting to be their friend in return. Coming off as happy? Eh, not really, unless willing to make contact with others. We let those solid walls down once you get to know us and gain our trust.

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    My Si-SLI friend is one of the happiest fuckers I know. Has trouble processing his more complex emotions though from what I gather.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Mallan View Post
    The last couple of opinions I have gathered have been that I come off as, "solid and intimidating". Not going to lie, I actually really like coming off that way, considering my not wanting to gather new friends. Even though I come off this way on the outside, I'm actually observing everything around me on the inside. Observing my surroundings makes me very happy. Nevertheless, when these people have noticed this "solid and intimidating" manner and are wanting to interact with me, they see that I am anything BUT intimidating. I only maintain the solid stance with those people if I generally am not wanting to be their friend in return. Coming off as happy? Eh, not really, unless willing to make contact with others. We let those solid walls down once you get to know us and gain our trust.
    I feel the happiest in the company of Si. Other than that I feel as though all Delta ST want is love, stability of a relationship, someone who can put up with their grumpiness, harshness, straight forwardness, bluntness and who won't leave most importantly; however I do find that LSE are sensitive to positive and emotional environments. In any case, I like how I'm taken care of by LSE.

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    I should also say that though delta st pride on their independence I'm happy that I got an lse who likes it when we cook and share meals together as opposed to "hear bit** fend for your self in a place where you don't know where everything is and how to get around" I'm always so happy and relieved when he say " oh I haven't had that in a while" and I can say let's do that then. In a normal and happy relationship certain things are shared because that's what couples are for....to be in company of someone who makes them feel good

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    Content is probably more applicable.

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    Companionship and relationships bring me happiness especially ones founded on strong moral grounds not necessarily religious ones. Because as my LSE bf said morality is love.
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    I don't think SLIs usually tend to look happy, lmao. LSEs... depends. IEEs usually do though.
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    No more Delta ST willing to talk about this?

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    I'm uncertain that I'm a delta ST, but I'm rarely happy/optimistic, and no one has ever told me that I appear to be optimistic.

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    c: is the face SLIs make once they've married someone in their mind.
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