Geez....what is it about Te types and "you said this" and "I thought you were doing this" gosh darn it. Things change. I got sick. Things happened why do you always feel that things are going to go in a straight line?
what is it!
Geez....what is it about Te types and "you said this" and "I thought you were doing this" gosh darn it. Things change. I got sick. Things happened why do you always feel that things are going to go in a straight line?
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Dual type(as per tcaudilllg)
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
maybe im a te type. but ive been dealing with a lot of unreliable people lately.
my friend and i were talking the other day about the difference between unreliable and dishonest. cuz she was correcting someone who speaks english as a second language when he said somebody was dishonest because they said they were going to do something and didn't. and she told him the correct word was unreliable. and i was like, no, dishonest works in that situation too. maybe it has to do with her having a higher tolerance for it.
Sounds like semantics potato pOtAtoOriginally Posted by lungs
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
I said "I'm taking an art class on the weekend so I can't go out then how about during the week." I got the staph in my drawing hand and couldn't go to class but didn't want to tell him why because it makes me sad thinking about thisso I avoid it. I was asked to go out to a cafe and I said weekend would be fine since I'm going to start private tutoring anyway. He jumped at me with "I thought you couldn't meet on the weekend. That's what you told me." Let's be fair, my cousin would have done this too. I just want to know why do people's sense of memory for things that happen has to be so acute. Relax!!!!
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
Personally, I think it depends on intent. If they tell you they are going to do something while knowing they won't, it's dishonest. If they tell you they are going to do something, but end up being flaky about it, they weren't attempting to mislead you and instead they are just unreliable in setting and making plans.
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Last edited by Skepsis; 09-05-2015 at 03:51 AM.
If someone tells you they will do something with the intention of doing but don't they are unreliable. If they tell you they will do something with no intention of doing it when they tell you this they are dishonest. Both can be annoying. Deciding which one it is if you are going to accuse them doesn't often end well even if you are right. Just ask them and see if their explanation makes sense.
I envy emotivists who I find talk a lot more easily about stuff that happens to them physically. I just produce facts "I'm sad. It hurts on a scale of 10 a 7....are there drugs for this?"
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
i'm thinking of a specific person who flakes out 90% of the time and always has some kind of excuse. i think they intend to follow through. but at this point they should know themselves and their limitations well enough to not overpromise. so its like come on, they gotta know themselves that they are full of shit. i see them as dishonest.
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Last edited by Skepsis; 09-05-2015 at 03:51 AM.
I have a wonderful SLI art teacher who is chilax as my ESE cousin coined it. He is an illustrator so he's fantastic. Comes from Lithuania and is old school in his discipline. He's hard on me which I like as I'm very serious and obsessive when I get into something. I like my surroundings and I draw where I am. I like to live among people though spmetimes I feel as though I'm invisible i still mildly sense how some people like me around and like seeing me. I like to capture my community or wherever I go. I'm by no means a realist as I often am not as detailed as I would like to be. I just want to capture the feelings of the people around me and maybe to show beauty in life in delicate ways. I would say I'm an impressionist as an artist. I'm drawing now. I will be until I have it down absolutely to my satisfaction then I will pick up a brush. That is the plan.
Dual type
Enneagram 5 (wings either 4 or 6)?
I'm constantly looking to align the real with the ideal.I've been more oriented toward being overly idealistic by expecting the real to match the ideal. My thinking side is dominent. The result is that sometimes I can be overly impersonal or self-centered in my approach, not being understanding of others in the process and simply thinking "you should do this" or "everyone should follor this rule"..."regardless of how they feel or where they're coming from"which just isn't a good attitude to have. It is a way, though, to give oneself an artificial sense of self-justification. LSE
Best description of functions:
http://socionicsstudy.blogspot.com/2...functions.html
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