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    I want to say he's SLI but I don't think she is IEE. I'm not sure though, love the film very much...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elina View Post
    Maybe her character is ESTj or smt the like? She always seems very planned, and had a very structured life.

    Maybe I have not given it enough thought, I always thought she was a bit cruel to him in the film... he definitely plays a romance style of conqueror though and she plays ....hard to get.

    Now this is a story all about how, my type got changed, turned upside down. Just wait for a minute and watch chatbox right there, & I'll tell how Gem became the moderator with blue hair.

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    So Gem pulls up to the forum for a year without being a hater, And yells to typocentral 'Yo creeps! Smell Ya later', Became a mod in her kingdom she was finally there, To sit on her throne as the mod with blue hair.

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    from what i sort of remember it seemed like he was aggressor and she was victim but i turned the movie off after like 20 minutes because i was grossed out and didnt like how they interacted for some reason.

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    Oh Elina.
    "If this to end in fire, then we should all burn together. Watch the flames climb higher into the night."

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    ryan gossling

    so hot...

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    First this.


    Then this.


    What do you want?

    Just get in the water!



    "They didn't agree on much…..in fact they rarely agreed on anything. They fought all the time and they challenged each other everyday. But despite their differences they had one important thing in common, they were crazy about each other."

    So tell me, what quadra romance does that sound like to you?
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    Oh yah I'm not implying anything, just pointing out the obvious in the movie.

    It's just there are particular dualities that are known for this push and pull back and forth, humming and hawing, "I don't know what I want". I'm looking at the relationship between them, not so much their particular characters actions. (which is a trend the english socionists are very concerned with because of the influence of the western world's obsession with the cult of individuality: what is their type??).

    On the same vein, why is this girl into schedules? My interpretation is that she does it to fit in with her family, her role, her place in that world. As soon as a volitional sensor comes along, she is enlivened, well beyond the first blush of young love, immediately dropping the schedules. The movie spans both their lifetimes, and it is plain to see for me this women's need for a place in her society, a secure position, which she chronically doubts he can provide for her. Even against all evidence that he is the one for her, she is always uncertain. They both "wait and see" their whole lives, with her doing it more then him, but him always undaunted, pursuing.

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    Ughhhh this couple seemed so annoying. I wasn't a huge fan. Ryan Gosling was ADORABLE in it. I love his character and his dad. She was just an irritating person who yelled a lot in it.
    (I only watched it to watch Gosling).

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    Shout out to all those ITT who are apparently better at noticing people's true feelings than me: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz...-sessions.html.

    Do they have to be the same quadra? Something about them made them seem very... undual-ish.
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    After thinking about it, you can't help who you love I guess.

    Hey clownsandentropy, did you notice the part in that article you quoted that said they started dating after the film, for four years all the way to 2008, even though they fought while filming the movie. I guess things are not always what they seem…...

    Food for thought:

    Betas are usually very romantic, very seductive people. They tend to be very flirtatious. A problem with Betas is that they always want more out of a relationship. This often leaves them breaking off relationships in search of their true love. True love is a very important concept for Betas, they tend to believe that they will find someone that will be perfect for them. This usually is a problem for Betas in relationships because they tend to see flaws in people very simply. After breaking off a relationship with someone, they will usually have a strong deal of regret, and will usually try approaching the person again. Betas are usually extremely playful with their mannerisms. Its usually very difficult to dislike a Beta at first, though they can become quiet distasteful to some people over time.
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    This was a terrible movie. I would be so creeped out if a guy I kept saying no to kept trying and trying and making things and doing things for me. Seriously, just take no for an answer and move on with your life instead of planting the idea in guys' heads that girls want you to keep trying and no doesn'treally mean no.

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    Always liked/loved that movie!! Usually cry like a baby over it. Kinda the depiction of the true love that I don't believe in.

    i picked delta due to the guy being such a wilderness buff do it yourself type f guy. She could be an extremely flaky sli and he a somewhat practical iee. Also, it's not really screaming merry quadras to me...

    that said; your suggestions for it being beta make sense too,
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    disagree about the suggestion that he's persueing without regards for her "no" I didn't see that at all. If the letters had arrived as planned she'd have married him. Meh there is "no means no" in the creepy rapist sense and I agree completely. Then there is no means try harder in the flirting game sense, this is not actually bad or anything. Guys have to respect women, with that as baseline you can persistently persue even after a no imho

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    I liked the movie. Tears, tears, tears.
    No idea about their type though. Probably EIE-LSI.

    For pursuing, I was always like nonono but those who were persistent enough in a good respectful way could get me.
    Something like this:
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    Yeah the guy seemed Beta. Like, such persistence. I dunno, I mean, didn't they only know each other for like a few days before he decided she was the one. Girl could have been some Serious type.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lemontrees View Post
    ryan gossling

    so hot...
    SO hot. I take it back. We shouldn't be friends irl, as we would clearly go after the same guys and that always ends in a disaster


    About the Notebook...I turned it off after half an hour. Not my idea of passionate romance. Are they sure not Deltas?

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    To all who turned off the movie before the end.... the intitiation of their love isn't supposed to be the romantic part.... the romantic part is the end. This is not a conventional live happy after movie but i think shows something about affection and dedication even after someone is gone (hint, i'm not talking about him leaving for the war...). It's about returning to a loved one from the darkest place possible and being guided back by your loved one.

    CRY :'( why are there no reliable gossling-lookalike-women in this world anymore?!?!?!?

    Edit: their bickering was mildly annoying but bearable and a bit endearing. Also, even though the relationship COULD be beta i have a hard time seeing gossling's character as EIE. He's pretty consistent, EIE's usually have more active drama and actor-like behaviour imho. The otherway around makes even less sense... nah. dunno what types they are...

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    Fine, fine, give it to delta. Me thinks some of you are to young and to inexperienced to understand.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    Always liked/loved that movie!! Usually cry like a baby over it. Kinda the depiction of the true love that I don't believe in.
    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    CRY :'( why are there no reliable gossling-lookalike-women in this world anymore?!?!?!?
    Refi please stop crying. I have a severe case of contagious crying and your waterfall tears are just too much for me to handle

    Quote Originally Posted by divergentwacey View Post
    Fine, fine, give it to delta. Me thinks some of you are to young and to inexperienced to understand.
    Some of us just don't like it

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    Quote Originally Posted by divergentwacey View Post
    Fine, fine, give it to delta. Me thinks some of you are to young and to inexperienced to understand.
    Can I claim it for Alpha?!??! They danced in the street -> goofy -> Alpha

    muahahahahahahahhaha we got another one of the classics

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    @Elina

    I have a suspicion that you and I have similar tastes...

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    No body knows, the trouble I've seen, no body knows, my sorrow…...

    Tell me I'm making accusations in ten years girls, when your one true love doesn't pan out. There is good reason this movie is so popular.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Elina View Post
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    I can be friends with both of you 'cause i don't think he's hot at all lol
    @Aylen

    Let's make it clear ...I don't find him hot in this movie, but in some of his other movies ...specifically in Drive, Half Nelson and Murder by Numbers

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    ryan gosling looks like a teenage mouse

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    He does look a bit like a shrew.

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    Christian Bale and Slater would be more attractive to me. Maybe it is the disturbed characters they played. I have no idea what either look like now. My clearest memory of Slater is from The Heathers. He was in True Romance too, I think.

    And I can't forget this guy.
    https://www.google.com/search?q=lest...h=592&dpr=0.75
    @Elina this is not where our tastes intersect though. At least not what I was referring to.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elina View Post
    Does it have to do with some of the music you post, maybe? If so I think I'm getting an idea of what you were referring to haha
    Heh, yeah. I like quirky or exotic faces too. Either real masculine or kind of fem. I can't explain it but I know it when I see it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elina View Post
    wace you already should know I've been there lol
    I hear you.
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    Quote Originally Posted by divergentwacey View Post
    I hear you.
    @Elina

    We've all been there (group hug moment )

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    yes, we've all been there....


    luckily I'm a hard learner

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    Quote Originally Posted by darya View Post
    SO hot. I take it back. We shouldn't be friends irl, as we would clearly go after the same guys and that always ends in a disaster
    hahaha... this thought actually crossed my brain in the past! but I decided to give our tastes the benefit of the doubt.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elina View Post
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    I can be friends with both of you 'cause i don't think he's hot at all lol
    aw

    he's SLE I think

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    Quote Originally Posted by lemontrees View Post
    aw

    he's SLE I think
    @Elina

    Hm I thought he was SLI or SEI But he seems to play a lot of SLE's and LSI's ....

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    U n' for surprize
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    Quote Originally Posted by Aylen View Post
    Christian Bale and Slater would be more attractive to me. Maybe it is the disturbed characters they played. I have no idea what either look like now. My clearest memory of Slater is from The Heathers. He was in True Romance too, I think.
    I think I saw C.Slater in one of his last movies (and Lars von Trier's). He did a great role, but he was very changed from what he was like in Il nome della Rosa, almost like a different actor. He was Joe's father, teaching her to find a tree that could represent her soul.
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