We ILE's need that exessive flirting to finally understand SEI's want us!!
Actually, don't put her down, is she constantly shooting you down for being a uncurable "realist" (pessimist) and or "wet blanket"? IF yes, go ahead, you guys have issues. IF no; understand that she operates on different principles. If she's making the room uncomfortable, fuck the room
As EP i honestly never see it being justified to put someone down or judge in the way you're doing. I mean, why on earth do you care about being "uncomfortable" or the "uncomfortableness of a room" which is the result of some other persons behaviour? It makes no fucking sense to me... #hatinggammajudgmentals
((if she's really SEI she'd be good or at least proficient at judging the mood of the room, much better than you actually. I've not met many males who hated being flirted at so I just think it's in your perception and that of you ESI gf (who doesn't sound to awesome from alpha perspective...).
Edit: Gamma's and alpha's don't mix well... why not just skip the judging and accept that as a fact of life? Don't invite her when you feel sensitive. problem solved. There's a lot wrong with gamma's in general when seen from alpha perspective, we're not always rubbing that in your face either are we? (i'm not, usually, although i do mention that you guys terrify me quite often..hmmm)