I been with ESI for about 5 years now. Definitely not a perfect relationship but things are generally awesome. All our friends perceive as having the best relationship ever. They don't see us losing our mind fighting about the simplest things. I actually everyday dodge arguments with ESI(Don't critique ESI too often, they can't take it and you need to help them with everything or else they think you're selfish LOLOLOL?.)
Over these years of being together we been invited to have three or foursomes with 4 different alphas(3x ESE and 1x SEI). SEI actually indirectly asked me if we were interested but of course, in a very indirect manner, I confused SEI and got her to admit what she was actually saying. It never happened in any case and all those relationships ended up crumbling. The other 3 times, ESE asked ESI if we were interested, ESE generally thinks I am pissed off when everything is fine which confuses me. Also, would like to point out we are not super attractive or anything and we do not show any interest, no flirting , it just happens out of nowhere.
I have a lot of relationships with alphas, my mother is ESE, 3 of my older sisters is ESE and my youngest but still older sister is SEI. Best friend is INTj and I hang out with ENTp often. My mother thought me and my twin ILI brother were demon children that went against her at all times LOL. The relationship got easier after 20 years, she still calls me everyday after I moved out -_-. Anyways, I realized relationships with alpha are simple, be kind, empower them(point out stuff they do well or you like) and they will love you. I try to run this by all alphas I hang out with, works great every time.
I have a strange attraction towards ESE which seems to be mutual. It's all physical and nothing else though, I don't think it would workout very well even under better circumstances. Also, not interested in having a threesome or whatever. I also notice that ESI weird libido(ESI has unique taste) seems to like alpha NT's(I have close friends who are INTj and ENTp).
Anybody else have similar experiences?
Would like to point out that SEI is a freak and hypersexual. I have yet to meet one that isn't.