ppl commit when they r afraid
"...Generally, by the time you are Real, most of your hair has been loved off, and your eyes drop out and you get loose in the joints and very shabby. But these things don't matter at all, because once you are Real you can't be ugly" (the Skin Horse)
This is not type related. Anyone can be afraid of commitments, depending on their childhood and/or emotional background.
Fear is a learned response, not inherently cognitive. SLEs can seem to be avoiding commitment, maybe. But they're naturally independent.
EDIT: 300 sorry!
SLE is probably the most typical avoidant attachment style of the whole socion. Unless they're very mature (age-wise), I guess.
In my personal experience they are not only unafraid of commitment they tend to overcommit themselves to whatever they value most. Whether that is... a romantic relationship, family, an idea, career or remodeling the house. The ones I have been in long term relationships with took on more than their share of practical responsibilities without batting an eye. They also allowed me to take over things they weren't as interested, like shopping for their own wardrobe or choosing their hairstyle. Their commitment to hard labor astonishes me at times. They seem to thrive in certain physical conditions that would bring me to a grinding halt. There are times I would have rather laid down and died and they committed to making me get the fuck up and live. In my experience they can commit.
It's definitely type-related, since all behavior is a manifestation of type and type is another name for the genetic code that determines behavior and committing is behavior and some types commit or don't commit, but never both. SLEs are afraid of commitment b/c long ago in a galaxy far far away alien programmers coded them to be afraid to commit so that in the distant future people could get their cars repaired in a timely manner.
No, not in my experience.
“Have enough courage to trust love one more time and always one more time.”
― Maya Angelou
“You cannot protect yourself from sadness without protecting yourself from happiness.”
― Jonathan Safran Foer
“The secret of happiness is freedom, the secret of freedom is courage.”
― Carrie Jones, Need