I wrote this an hour ago but my internets ran away, so, it's a little temporarily out of place...
@MaritsaWe can't get out of the situation in this case, because one side of us wants to contribute to knowledge and yet another wants to help; ESTj would either tell everyone to back off, or as you saw Rasputin told me to stop talking in not such a direct way. I have a need to convey information dispite the Se-polr and stubborness, drive, and consistancy don't help in this matter.
I would defend you but I think you need to learn something here, Maritsa. You can't keep running away from problems or expecting someone to save you from something.
A lot of people don't particularly think you are going about things very well, so you should consider why they feel that way - not just write off what they are doing as some sort of "Gang Se Tactic". I feel like you are using that as a cop out.
Too much protection and rescuing makes someone less likely to take care of themselves ; this is the Moral Hazard.