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    Default My little sister

    My baby sister <3

    Its so hard for me to type her... Im pretty sure shes some kind of Delta, ENFp or INFj.


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    For a while I suspected that she was ENFj because she would always test as one. She even got ESFj once, but I doubt shes that. She always tests as an extrovert and makes friends rather easily, even though shes the quiet one (compared to me) when were at home. I think my personality can dominate over her's at times... Shes usually the voice of reason, and settles things peacefully in her own little way. Shes almost never loud or obnoxious! My mom says she was the most perfect obedient child, and I was the troublesome one (lol). Ive always felt that shes the more mature one of the two of us... always seems to be taking care of me even though shes 3 years younger. She is a tidy person, always doing the laundry and dishes while Im off somewhere doing my own thing... sometimes I dont know what Id do without her!
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    ENFp do the dishes while you are off doing your own thing? Nope.. lol

    I got a bit of a sensor feel from her. She reminds me of a chick i talk to on the net occasionally but im not sure of her type.
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    Hmmmm.
    An outgoing INFJ or...a...responsible ENFP although they are loud and obnoxious...

    how does she act around her friends?
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    nvm
    Last edited by fox; 01-25-2009 at 01:06 AM.
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    Quote Originally Posted by dreamer
    Hmmmm.
    An outgoing INFJ or...a...responsible ENFP although they are loud and obnoxious...
    We are not obnoxious at all thank you very much(edited)

    Sorry Starfall back on track..
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    INFj sounds likely IMO. ISFj ethical subtype is also possible.
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    ESFJ no doubt.
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    Thanks for your help everyone. The reason I was thinking ENFp was because a long time ago (she was probably 8 at the time) a well-known family therapist tested her and said she was ENFp (this particular therapist also happened to be ENFp). He was pretty sure on our types. I would ask him why would she be an extrovert if I talk more than she does? he said that she was an extrovert, but ENFps were quiet extroverts... (Keep in mind this was a long time ago, so I could be leaving some things out).

    Quote Originally Posted by Expat
    INFj sounds likely IMO. ISFj ethical subtype is also possible.
    I dont think I even thought of ISFj, but now that you say so it could be an option.


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    ESFJ no doubt.
    Are you sure? To be honest, I feel like we do have a slight relationship of supervision at times, but I think thats because shes my little sister. I always thought ESFjs were more energized and smiley, while my sister is more mellow and calm.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall
    Thanks for your help everyone. The reason I was thinking ENFp was because a long time ago (she was probably 8 at the time) a well-known family therapist tested her and said she was ENFp (this particular therapist also happened to be ENFp). He was pretty sure on our types. I would ask him why would she be an extrovert if I talk more than she does? he said that she was an extrovert, but ENFps were quiet extroverts... (Keep in mind this was a long time ago, so I could be leaving some things out).
    I assume he was using MBTI, and INFjs are often ENFP in MBTI.

    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall
    I always thought ESFjs were more energized and smiley, while my sister is more mellow and calm.
    Yes you may have spotted precisely the difference between EJ and IJ temperaments and perhaps also between and dominants.

    Actually the only thing that made me think of ISFj was the "tidy" thingy but overall she seems more INFj than ISFj to me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall
    She always tests as an extrovert and makes friends rather easily,
    IxFJs don't make friends easily, at least when they are young (14).

    even though shes the quiet one (compared to me) when were at home.
    At home ESFJs often like to be more relaxed and seem more "introverted" or calm then when they are out and about. Everyone else they know may think that they have unlimated energy, but that's not so.

    Shes usually the voice of reason,
    ExxJ?

    and settles things peacefully in her own little way.
    Fe.

    My mom says she was the most perfect obedient child, and I was the troublesome one (lol).
    ExxJ (or ESxJ?)

    Ive always felt that shes the more mature one of the two of us... always seems to be taking care of me even though shes 3 years younger.
    Patented ESFJ.

    She is a tidy person, always doing the laundry and dishes while Im off somewhere doing my own thing... sometimes I dont know what Id do without her!
    Again, very ESFJ.

    She acts pretty comfortable and mellow with her friends. Not too shy at all, yet quiet.
    Again, ESFJs can often be more mellow when they are just able to relax.

    She likes to be around people (rather than be alone) and shes almost always out doing something with her friends.
    HUGE red flag for not IxFJ. IxFJs not only not like being around people (especially the young ones), but they'd prefer to be home doing nothing then always having to be in the middle of someting. This almost stamps her as an "Extravert".

    noticed that she tends to hang out with a lot more guys than girls, though she will usually have a small close group of girl friends.
    My ESFJ sister did the same thing, too.

    She currently has a boyfriend whos 16 (shes 14...)
    !!!

    and they seem to be rather lovey-dovey and affectionate
    Probably Fe again.

    Shes on the phone all the time!
    Of course! ESFJs LOVE the phone. They abuse it. IxFJs? Not a chance.



    Plus, before I read any of that, the first type that popped into my head with the VI was "ESFJ".
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    Rocky, a lot of the stuff that you mentioned aplied perfectly to my ISFj mom when she was in her mid teens. She had a lot of friends, was always up and about, and never got off the phone. Or at least that's what she says. I don't doubt her, though. She also constantly cleans, and takes care of everyone and everything.

    Oh yeah, and there's absolutely no chance that she's anything other than some sort of ISxj.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    Rocky, a lot of the stuff that you mentioned aplied perfectly to my ISFj mom when she was in her mid teens. She had a lot of friends, was always up and about, and never got off the phone. Or at least that's what she says. I don't doubt her, though. She also constantly cleans, and takes care of everyone and everything.
    That last sentence does sound ISFJ, but for the first part of your post, errhhmmm... maybe you're mom exaggerated the "up and about" type stuff... since I see ISFJs as being kind of... boring?... but I know that's not the best word for it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Rocky
    Quote Originally Posted by Herzy
    Rocky, a lot of the stuff that you mentioned aplied perfectly to my ISFj mom when she was in her mid teens. She had a lot of friends, was always up and about, and never got off the phone. Or at least that's what she says. I don't doubt her, though. She also constantly cleans, and takes care of everyone and everything.
    That last sentence does sound ISFJ, but for the first part of your post, errhhmmm... maybe you're mom exaggerated the "up and about" type stuff... since I see ISFJs as being kind of... boring?... but I know that's not the best word for it.
    Probably, but who knows? My mom has her quirks, as much as she hates to admit it.
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    Taking care of people is what moms do... regardless of their type. If it's type related, it's more likely Si than anything.
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    ENFj.

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    I was thinking ENFj too. The fact that she does dishes doesn't make her a certain type. She's prolly just doing what she thinks she's "supposed to" do.
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    the mother comment was about herzy's mom
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    All I was saying was that it is physically possible for a non ego type to take care of things. That is all.
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