Which element do you feel suppresses your natural inclinations more, Se or Ni?
For myself, I can see that while I tend to avoid Se unless pushed into it, I'll step into using it for a short time (10-30min).
But when I talk with Ni base people, it feels like there is a conflict between me considering other possibilities, other ways of viewing something/situation, other ways of doing something, other possible meanings or something, and hesitating to settle on one, vs the Ni telling me that this is the one true way to view it, this is the one true meaning, they too often completely dismiss the other alternatives and try to...well, i know they don't mean to, but it feels like they are trying to force me to stop looking at the other alternatives because they have already determined for themselves that this is the only or best one. I feel stifled around them.
I don't feel stifled around Se base people, miscommunications yeah, different mindsets yeah, arguments maybe, but I generally don't feel like they are actively stifling me. (Only when they ask of me to provide them with 'the one true way'.)
So, which do you avoid but if pressured will switch to but then quickly switch back to normal, (role),
And which do you feel actively stifles you, or that you feel "misses the point", (ignoring).