I thought about this a bit more... I am more likely to judge someone on superficial things. Like their clothing, hairstyle, too much makeup (ewww) than I am to dislike them based on their personality. I expect my friends to be honest with me. Don't let me leave the house looking like a cheap hooker unless I am going some place where all the girls look like cheap hookers. I like when they pull me aside and say tone it down, if things are getting wild ,and with the right people I can get crazy with my dark humor and sarcasm. I don't mind trading playful insults with friend but I sure know when someone's playfulness is fake and they really mean it.
I am not "dumb"..."someone" on the internet calling people "dumb" immediately gives me the image of a Bart Simpson saying it while kicking rocks. If someone thinks I'm "dumb" all I gotta say to you is kick rocks. Yeah I am talking about one person here. Also I don't care if some people think I am crazy or weird 'cause to me that is a compliment. That just tells me that you don't understand me but that's ok. Many people don't understand me and somehow socializing still works. Online you get to see all my crazy condensed. In person it is spread out over weird or crazy moments.
I know what is going on. I am intelligent and observant even if that doesn't come through my posts. One of the worst things someone can do to me is question my intelligence. That sets me off because I worked hard to gain the knowledge I have. But I still don't dislike the people making these judgments on me. We have different values and that's fine with me.
Since I have been on this site all types have irritated me to some degree. I have strong intuition and even though someone does not come straight out and tell me personally, I already know what they feel about me. ENERGY doesn't lie. I appreciate the people who have pm-ed me and told me their honest feelings. I don't mind being told that I'm likable but they don't trust me. That is fucking real and you know who you are. I appreciate you. There are others too who have sent me pm's and told me why they disagree with my typing or given helpful advice. I appreciate that too. I DON'T appreciate people who don't like me, or whatever, that attempt to type me using the negative criteria of a type. I know when you do that, so miss me with that shit... I like the idea of typing people at their best, as, was mention by Merc, I believe.
Anyway, back to superficial...I am honest with friends if they ask me what they look like. I don't want to go out with someone who looks a mess. I do this with boyfriends a lot. Most the guys I have been in relationships with don't give a fuck what they look like and they really don't need to, their energy, intelligence and looks makes them appealing regardless and I am not hung up on looks because I see beauty where others don't I have changed the opinion of others by pointing out the beauty I see. I have dated all types but most of them have been extremely cocky and that rubbed off on me so excuse my cockiness and will tone it down a little. I do tend to choose the clothes and hairstyles of the guys I'm with so all that is judgement on a superficial level. But that is only with people very close to me. I actually like being in a mixed group, let's call them alpha, beta, gamma, delta. When there is too many of one type it starts to irk or bore the hell out of me so I zone out. It's not that I don't like them. I am just not relating to topics such as, pets, children, household chores, health or their bathroom habits. Unless there is some kinda cool story attached. If your peeing blood sure tell me. I may refer you to a doctor. If your child has imaginary friends or psychic visions tell me all about it. If your pets does tricks, show me.
Disliking someone costs me energy that I would rather spend elsewhere. If someone is disliking me they are feeding me their energy, giving me power over them and not in a good way. I was told I was like a black hole before...that I suck people in. I was also called a vampire before. It is because I take emotions very seriously. I can take on the feelings of others easily and reflect back to them what they are putting out. If I am judging someone on a deeper level I look to myself first to see what is going on. I learn so much this way and like I said I am self aware.
I see too many people typing others with so much confidence yet they don't know themselves well enough to KNOW their type. Ultimately I am not a type but this is a site of socionics so when in Rome, I choose the type that fits best. I can perfectly mimic the traits of any personality in a genuine way. I am a chameleon in that way. I may be crazy and weird but I am a good and loyal friend to have and I don't suggest making me an enemy (Katy Perry heh). I will not plot destruction, like some here. I already know people's vulnerabilities AND quite playfully I must add, I will cut a bitch, metaphorically that is. But that is not how I want to be. I can be pushed to a limit but to intentionally hurt someone because I have already figured out where they are weak would make me a hypocrite. I can be one but it hurts me more than them in the long run, creating more bad karma for myself. I am honest though with my emotions/feelings and I appreciate honesty. I am not afraid to call someone out if I feel they are being shady with me or anyone I care about. Mostly I just let people do their thing as long as it does not involve me.
I know this is nothing but a rant but I have been a timid person for too much of my life. Giving people power over me but I'm not anymore. I believe many personality traits can be acquired. Since I am a bit competitive I have studied people to learn their skills and make them my own. People on my friends list are there because I feel a draw to them in some way. Maybe music, humor style, intelligence, whatever they are there for a reason. I am not a people collector. If you are on my friends list and secretly DISLIKE me please REMOVE yourself promptly, no hard feelings. Then we both know where we stand and I can behave accordingly. There are other people here that are on my contacts because I resonate with them for whatever reason but I am not big on sending friend invites. It makes me nervous. hahaha so if anyone sends me an invite and I sense you are actually an open-minded person I will accept. I don't care about your values and morals, you will be welcome.
A couple more things....why do people write whole sentences using 5 or 6 letters...arrgh I have no clue what you're saying most of the time! I can assume and read your energy but you're not making yourself clear. Also I see people type and retype themselves according to who their crushing on...why not be yourself...your type will reveal in time...If you don't like something I say feel free to pm me and maybe I can learn something from it. Behind the back criticism is not constructive. If I have to hear it through other people it is annoying. Be direct if you don't think I am IEI give me some reasons. I'm open to a real analysis based on the information and intuition.