I was pouring my heart out on the phone to a friend about an issue that was really important to me. My EII cousin overheard me and when I got off the phone, she said, "You sounded so desperate," in a mildly reproachful tone of voice. It was interesting because she has the same concerns, but Fe is her ignoring function. So I have been trying to figure out how I might extinguish an EII using Fi. So how do you extinguish others with your ignoring (7th) function?