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    i've never been with one and i heard a couple horror stories in the chatbox today. can anyone ease my concerns?

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    D'aww. Since you're an ESI, it should be fine. Don't worry. I've heard ESIs praising their LIE lovers disturbingly enthusiasticly. Just try picking one that's not on steroids.
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    Would also like to know... Only been with intps and esfps in gamma
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    never slept with any Gamma NT. But ENTJ look pretty potent imvho . I'd do one with the right chemistry, they don't rub the the wrong way.

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    Why would anyone want to ease your concerns? If you don't want to sleep with them, don't
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    I'd sleep with that ^ one
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    lol. i'll sleep with who i want to sleep with no matter what their type is, but i won't know what they're like in bed until it happens.

    i just heard two stories that were very similar (they just laid there, etc.) so i was wanting to hear if anybody had a different sort of experience. self-promotion wouldn't really count anyways

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    my LIE longterm ex basically just laid there.

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    I'm sure it just depends on the person.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lungs View Post
    lol. i'll sleep with who i want to sleep with no matter what their type is, but i won't know what they're like in bed until it happens.

    i just heard two stories that were very similar (they just laid there, etc.) so i was wanting to hear if anybody had a different sort of experience. self-promotion wouldn't really count anyways
    lol. I think ILIs just lie there . I only went on a few dates with one and they were slightly too passive and mechanical . Couldn't get further. Guess they needed some SEE to rock their boat really hard.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackburry View Post
    my LIE longterm ex basically just laid there.

    ...
    I'm sure it just depends on the person.
    ._.

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    I've fooled around with an enfj and according to erotic styles, they'd be about similarly active/responsive, right?

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    Yeah... I don't just lay there. I didn't realize guys could get away with that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by lungs View Post
    I've fooled around with an enfj and according to erotic styles, they'd be about similarly active/responsive, right?
    yep. EIE is pretty proactive , pretty hungry from what know. lol. They flirt like shit , start making out and then come up up some cute don'ts.
    < but LIE may be less confident as a Thinking type. In the rapport , less into the dynamics maybe.

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    Almost certain my first boyfriend was LIE. No complaints. Direct + never boring + not scared of intensity. At first it was better for me to initiate stuff (but he was pretty young). He certainly would never have contemplated just laying there. Imo that's odd for anybody to do.

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    Quote Originally Posted by blackburry View Post
    my LIE longterm ex basically just laid there.

    ...
    I'm sure it just depends on the person.
    This and only this

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    Quote Originally Posted by AshSun View Post
    lol. I think ILIs just lie there . I only went on a few dates with one and they were slightly too passive and mechanical . Couldn't get further. Guess they needed some SEE to rock their boat really hard.
    Never encountered an ILI who just lied there... The ones I've been with we're both year+ long relationships and I enjoyed the sex a lot. But maybe my rocked their boat
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
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    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    Quote Originally Posted by AshSun View Post
    < but LIE may be less confident as a Thinking type. In the rapport , less into the dynamics maybe.
    I like flirting, but I don't fully understand "game playing", even in its playful version, so I may end up being confused.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AshSun View Post
    lol. I think ILIs just lie there . I only went on a few dates with one and they were slightly too passive and mechanical . Couldn't get further. Guess they needed some SEE to rock their boat really hard.
    Lol I also kind of just lie there. But I'm the girl in the relationship, even though I'm a guy.. So I guess it's okay lol. Best part about being gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    Never encountered an ILI who just lied there... The ones I've been with we're both year+ long relationships and I enjoyed the sex a lot. But maybe my rocked their boat
    The truth is I didn't even have the hots for that ILI. I appreciated smart talks and thought why not fool around a bit, too. But if you're their dual ... probably. Even Activity sex is really amazing.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FDG View Post
    I like flirting, but I don't fully understand "game playing", even in its playful version, so I may end up being confused.
    EIE are probably the best teases in the Socion. Only ESI comes close. So far, I think. I'll update if the case .

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    Quote Originally Posted by AshSun View Post
    The truth is I didn't even have the hots for that ILI. I appreciated smart talks and thought why not fool around a bit, too. But if you're their dual ... probably. Even Activity sex is really amazing.
    i never said they were my dual, nor implied that i'm SEE. i'm still not sure what type i am, other than ego and probably gamma.
    maybe a saint is just a dead prick with a good publicist
    maybe tommorow's statues are insecure without their foes
    go ask the frog what the scorpion knows

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    Quote Originally Posted by Allie View Post
    i never said they were my dual, nor implied that i'm SEE. i'm still not sure what type i am, other than ego and probably gamma.
    How long have you been into Socionics? I've been into it for 7 years now.. I've managed to narrow it down to 2 types: ILI and IEI. It seems like I can type everyone but myself. You seem very much like an ESI to me, Allie.

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    [QUOTE=Eldanen;991553 I've been into it for 7 years now.. I've managed to narrow it down to 2 types: ILI and IEI. It seems like I can type everyone but myself. [/QUOTE]

    That's an honest position. You cannot really perceive yourself like you can perceive other people:

    http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...-i-am-iee.html
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    Many black Americans are SEE type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by consentingadult View Post
    That's an honest position. You cannot really perceive yourself like you can perceive other people:

    http://mavericksocionics.blogspot.nl...-i-am-iee.html
    I can't type myself nor other people...am I blind?

    Edit: Why aren't we talking about ENTJ sex anymore? Damned derails!! ;-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    I can't type myself nor other people...am I blind?

    Edit: Why aren't we talking about ENTJ sex anymore? Damned derails!! ;-)
    Not blind, perhaps inexperienced. It has been said that it take about three years before your really start to understand Socionics well, and another two years to learn to apply it. I agree with that *wink*

    LIEs don't have sex. They have BDSM sessions.
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    Many black Americans are SEE type.

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    Quote Originally Posted by consentingadult View Post
    Not blind, perhaps inexperienced. It has been said that it take about three years before your really start to understand Socionics well, and another two years to learn to apply it. I agree with that *wink*

    LIEs don't have sex. They have BDSM sessions.
    That explains why they "just lay there", they're tied up

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    Quote Originally Posted by Reficulris View Post
    That explains why they "just lay there", they're tied up
    +1

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    When I think of ENTj sex, I think of robot sex. Mechanical & efficient. Then again, I've never had the pleasure.

    Speaking of, I wonder what supervision is like in bed... probably stressful.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    When I think of ENTj sex, I think of robot sex. Mechanical & efficient. Then again, I've never had the pleasure.
    Why would that be, we're Ni creatives.
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    I dunno. I kinda like it when guys just lie there.
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    srsly, depends on the chemistry between two people. no one likes to just "lie there". that happens when something between the two isn't working.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Radio View Post
    srsly, depends on the chemistry between two people. no one likes to just "lie there". that happens when something between the two isn't working.
    You sure? I like being lazy in bed lol. Although there was this one time when.... Lol never mind. I should probably keep that to myself.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eldanen View Post
    You sure? I like being lazy in bed lol. Although there was this one time when.... Lol never mind. I should probably keep that to myself.
    Are you insane? This forum thrives on awkward, socially unacceptable, or totally out there stories about sex!

    Also, pictures/movies or it didn't happen!

    We need a "I normally just lie there, but in this instance I completely went cavemen/womam" thread!

    Edit: Fixed! http://www.the16types.info/vbulletin...612#post992612

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    Quote Originally Posted by Eldanen View Post
    You sure? I like being lazy in bed lol. Although there was this one time when.... Lol never mind. I should probably keep that to myself.
    LOL.. Now i´m gonna question your sx/so , too. Wtf.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Radio View Post
    srsly, depends on the chemistry between two people. no one likes to just "lie there". that happens when something between the two isn't working.
    it really depends on the person and , dunno, their condition? I even had a SLE "just lying there" (exception!) . maybe cause of too much pot consumed habitually.

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    I know one LIE whose sexual behaviour is like a weird combination of dead fish and trying too hard. Could well be lack of experience- related, tho.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Eldanen View Post
    You sure? I like being lazy in bed lol. Although there was this one time when.... Lol never mind. I should probably keep that to myself.
    I can understand being lazy in bed if you're beyond exhausted and not in the mood but your partner over persistently wants to fuck (and vice versa), but all the time? I guess that's preferences. I'm not sure if sex can always be type related. Even though I'm an IEI and a victim type, I lean more on the aggressive side when it comes to actually being in the act itself (not necessarily leading up to it though), maybe because I like to be in control. I've been known to order my partner around, etc.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lungs View Post
    i've never been with one and i heard a couple horror stories in the chatbox today. can anyone ease my concerns?
    The only horror stories I have heard regarding ENTj's boudoir activities seem to be reagrding control, and them requireing total submission. But probably just coinkidink.

    Now this is a story all about how, my type got changed, turned upside down. Just wait for a minute and watch chatbox right there, & I'll tell how Gem became the moderator with blue hair.

    In typology central friended and praised, on the picture thread was where she spent most her days. Chilling out, selfies, relaxing all cool, And all typing some people and getting them schooled.

    When a couple of girls who were up to no good, Started annoying her & her friends in the forumhood, She got in one little flame war & got pissed off & said 'I'm moving in with that exboyfriend in the forum with the socionics toffs.

    So Gem pulls up to the forum for a year without being a hater, And yells to typocentral 'Yo creeps! Smell Ya later', Became a mod in her kingdom she was finally there, To sit on her throne as the mod with blue hair.

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    just to be clear since i guess it wasn't obvious(?) i'm not literally worried about entjs being bad in bed. any time i make a statement similar to this one about any type pls know that i'm at most maybe 60% serious as a very generous estimate. its a way to get conversations going. mostly i just wanted to hear stories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfall View Post
    I can understand being lazy in bed if you're beyond exhausted and not in the mood but your partner over persistently wants to fuck (and vice versa), but all the time? I guess that's preferences. I'm not sure if sex can always be type related. Even though I'm an IEI and a victim type, I lean more on the aggressive side when it comes to actually being in the act itself (not necessarily leading up to it though), maybe because I like to be in control. I've been known to order my partner around, etc.
    Maybe that's it. I'm always exhausted or feeling lethargic.

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