I met an SEI in San Francisco recently through a friend and at first glance I was immediately interested in her. Her and my friends hung out for the weekend, going to the Muir Woods and such, though I could tell she was reserved and not immediately trusting. It was easy for me to let go in front of her, tell her my ridiculous jokes, make up outlandish-funny stories, teach her about a number of random facts, and just open up in general. I kept wanting to pry into her private life to make me feel comfortable but I could tell that she did not like the spotlight and wanted to keep everything about me, which I like. Everytime I felt uncomfortable in conversation she would say "It's okay, you can say anything around me, I do not get offended by anything gross" and would liven me up by letting me know my jokes were okay. She also had that artist persona which I totally dig. We went for a final walk in San Francisco the last night and looked at the Oakland bridge. I feared I would never see her again but kept in contact.
Eventually the next week she came and visited me in San Diego (she lives in LA). We went out to a country bar and went dancing. I wanted to kiss her the entire time but was afraid to take the emotional initiative to do so. Later that night as I kept talking and talking and talking and making jokes she kisses me, immediately sending me head over heels. The next few days we go exploring around the city and go hiking and I felt warmth everytime I was with her. She would always want to make sure I was comfortable, folded my clothes at our place (I live with 3 other roommates including her childhood friend), and just clean because she got bored. I could lay on top of her and she had this sort of motherly feel about her that made me feel secure. Her touch was soft and comfortable and as long as I kept being silly she would continue to have a good time. When we got into deep and serious conversations they would last maybe a little while but then we would go back to being silly again. She is also sort of a pessimist and me being optimistic all the time really made the relationship work as well. All of my best attributes came out and I felt whole. Having chemistry and romance is great and at the same time I noticed she was also an SEI. Good instance of Socionics actually working.