Help me type my friend please

[epheme]

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[Beautiful sky]

SLI

[Narc]

Sounds kinda SEE.

[Olduvai]

I vote LSE

[Beautiful sky]

Never late...no Ni polr issues there lol
affectionate...LSE are not touch feely people...they are cold in that department

You're describing a person who is more of a people person, delta values, serious about their values, not at all carefree.

[blackburry]

LSE is the worst typing for the person described btw.



Sounds ESXP

[DaftPunk]

From what you've written likely ST. Would you put him into Delta or Beta? I'm leaning towards Beta and SLE

[Olduvai]

LSE is the worst typing for the person described btw.



Sounds ESXP

No, I'd say something like LII or EII would be the worst possible typing for this individual since we all seem to agree that he is some kind of ST. I personally cannot tell if he is Beta or Delta. I need to read more conversations of his.

[DaftPunk]

QUOTES:

"The thing that's most attractive to me about a girl is if she would make a good mother."
........
"Computer programming is the only thing he's good for." -> weak unvalued ne
me - "But he's your best friend."
"He's my best friend, which is why I can say


.......
"Sometimes I worry about the future, but I try not to because all you really have is the present." Generaly ST
.......
"I broke my arm right before I was supposed to join the military but everything happens for a reason. Maybe I would have gotten hurt over there and that's why I wasn't supposed to go." weak, valued Ni

I can only type on stereotypes because I obviously don't know his IE metabolism.

[Kill4Me]

I think ESTp.

I'm not seeing negativism.

[DaftPunk]

I'm not seeing negativism.

Do you see positivism?

IMO this dichotomy is not visible here.

[Kill4Me]

Do you see positivism?

of course...negativists have a darker energy.

[Kim]

I think SLE is most likely.

[Azure Flame]

of course...negativists have a darker energy.

They only have dark energy when they are a pissant. I'd say Negativists are more intimidating and can appear more "judgemental" than positivists. Is that what you meant?



Otherwise, I can see SLE or SLI. The only reason I think Fi over Fe is a possibility because of the last quote where he states what his pet is thinking.

In my experience, understanding the thoughts and motives of animals is a superior talent specific to Fi.

[Kill4Me]

I think narc was right earlier. Positivist/negativist is the simplest way to distinguish SEE/SLE. He's a positivist. SEE > SLE

They only have dark energy when they are a pissant.

hmmm...i would have guessed as an ENFj you would view negativism favorably. Perhaps you're LIE, afterall.

[Azure Flame]

I think narc was right earlier. Positivist/negativist is the simplest way to distinguish SEE/SLE. He's a positivist. SEE > SLE



hmmm...i would have guessed as an ENFj you would view negativism favorably. Perhaps you're LIE, afterall.

If I was a rational I'd be able to hold a job for more than a month.

[Azure Flame]

I think narc was right earlier. Positivist/negativist is the simplest way to distinguish SEE/SLE. He's a positivist. SEE > SLE



hmmm...i would have guessed as an ENFj you would view negativism favorably. Perhaps you're LIE, afterall.

What other reasons have you for these typings?

[Cuddly McFluffles]

If I was a rational I'd be able to hold a job for more than a month.

That seems rather insulting to all the Irrationals who have proven themselves perfectly capable of holding a steady job/career.

[Azure Flame]

That seems rather insulting to all the Irrationals who have proven themselves perfectly capable of holding a steady job/career.

uhhh... what?

[Azure Flame]

That seems rather insulting to all the Irrationals who have proven themselves perfectly capable of holding a steady job/career.

Perhaps we are defining things differently. Let me try again.

If I was a rational type I wouldn't be able to hold a steady (routine, predictable, unchanging, static) job.

[Olduvai]

I think we might be jumping to conclusions regarding positivism/negativism. Just because he frequently "acts positive" does not mean he is a positivist. Here is some enlightening info on the matter:

*It is important to note that there is no direct relation between Positivist/Negativist Reinin dichotomy and optimism/pessimism. The name of this dichotomy should not be interpreted literally. Positivists do not have an inherently positive outlook on life, and Negativists - a negative one.**
The Positivist / Negativist dichotomy describes certain kinds aspects of cognitive perception and mental operations rather than person's outlook, attitudes, and prevalent emotional state. Optimism-pessimism is aquality that arises from personal experiences; socionics factors do not influence and condition this phenomenon in itself.
Positivist types are more inclined to voice affirmative statements designed to point out contradictions, or depict the topics in an ironic or absurdist light in order to demonstrate their disbelief or critique something that they've found to be untrue; while criticisms delivered by Negativist types contains a higher proportion of negating, eliminating, or invalidating statements and propositions.

[Kill4Me]

I think we might be jumping to conclusions regarding positivism/negativism. Just because he frequently "acts positive" does not mean he is a positivist...

St. Petersburg, Russia

[Cuddly McFluffles]

Perhaps we are defining things differently.

Are there that many ways to interpret "If I were x I'd be able to hold a job for more than a month"? Holding a steady job does imply that the one holding it is capable of being employed for more than a month at a time, which you are saying you are not and which you seem to be associating with your being Irrational.

Let me try again.

If I was a rational type I wouldn't be able to hold a steady (routine, predictable, unchanging, static) job.

Not sure if you misspoke here or not.

[Azure Flame]

I meant to say irrational. BAH! *explodes*

[Olduvai]

St. Petersburg, Russia

The text I quoted came from the same site

[kadda1212]

My first thought was SLE.

[Olduvai]

My first thought was SLE.

Shall we go with SLE for the final verdict then? That seems to be the general consensus.

[Reficulris]

ILI turned Pick Up Artist.

He's going to take your virginity and break your heart.

[Adam Strange]

I actually agree with @MensSuperMateriam , in his earlier comments.
The only picture where your husband is showing any Se is the one where he is wearing a banana peel. Well, maybe the selfie, too. The rest look Delta to me.

I would say SLI from his pictures, but I just read your description of him in your original post, and that sounds LSE-Te to me, too. So, could he be Delta ST?

[darya]

From the descriptions and quotes he sounds most SEE, but on pics he looks vaguely SLI. So...not sure. LSE no way.

[Milo]

Se-LSI? He looks similar to our neighbor's kid in those photographs, who behaves very much like the descriptions of Se-LSIs.

[darya]

The thing is, I self type as IEI and I don't doubt my type. I'm not married to the fact that we have to be duals, but I don't see our relationship as conflict at all. That just seems ludicrous.




It's interesting that both you and @AdamStrange say he seems SLI. What about him looks SLI? Is it something that you can put into words? I know sometimes these things are just vague impressions.

Also, his newest hobby is learning about financial investing/real estate, etc. Just thought of it because that's what takes up a large amount of his time nowadays.

It's not that he looks very SLI, just that it seems like the best option. To me, he doesnt look Se leading. He looks xSxP, not Se leading (doesn't give off the high energy from the pics, or Se focus or something, looks too chill). By your descriptions he sounds ESxP though and description/your experience >> VI. VI is not particularly reliable and this is just my subjective experience - that SLE guys I know have different energy in pics. You know him, so if you type him SLE, I believe you -if you'd type him something crazy like EIE, than I wouldn't

[nokomis]

ESE.

Extravert and Si ego jump out to me. Seems vaguely alpha.

ESE would be a better fit based off photos and description than LSE.

[maniac]

ILE or LII is possible
sounds like my ex who was alpha NT, had a lot of hobbies and was always doing things