I've got a thing for a person that is not my dual (or activator), which is not the problem. The problem is that, despite of despising Socionics, during my weakest moments the accuracy of some (negative) intertype relationship descriptions kind of bothers me a little. I really do see other infantiles as awesome, but also "needy in a stressful way", for example. I would like to shut that voice in my head up and just live my life. Any tips?