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    Default Getting LIIs-INTjs to live on the other side.

    How can LIIs operate and move with consistency towards success?

    I need encouragement. I mean I NEED encouragement, but I have nobody who can provide me with motivation. I need somebody who cares. I have nobody who cares. So in the abscence of Fe how do I create action Se to get where I want to be?
     
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    You are awesome! You can do it! You totally rock!

    Feel better now?

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    Do drugs.

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    I have an ideal or as I like to refer to it, my dream. And everything I decide to do is moving me closer to that ideal life and to let something as trivial as motivation become a problem is unthinkable.
    "The society that separates its scholars from its warriors will have its thinking done by cowards and its fighting by fools." ― Thucydides

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    I wish I could help, but I think your problem at the moment is too vague for me to figure it out. Do you know what you want to do? Do you lack the willpower to actually do it? Is it unclear how to get there? Are you too easily discouraged due to set backs? Or due to social judgement?
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    yew can dew it.!

    and if you're tired, just try again later.

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    Saberstorm: Changing your life is never easy. Getting into a new profession takes time. Being demotivated isn't as bad, unusually or crippling as you think. Usually something will change towards the better after the shit hits the fan.

    It's all corney and stuff.. basically there's not much more we could do for you, it's equal parts "though luck, figure it out yourself" and "get someone closeby who cares, so you can cry or scream your frustrations away and who can afterwards help you pick up the pieces".

    My advice is: call three friends you've not spoken in a while, get drunk a few times in the next weeks. Visit a few bad neighbourhoods in town and chuckle/feel bad for the homeless/junks/disfrenchised. There's always someone to compare yourself to who's better off than you, there's always someone to compare yourself to who's much worse off than you. Get perspective, talk with people who know you, find out if this is what you want, if not find something else.

    Good luck

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